The eldest sister of the company divorced her husband because her husband had an affair and the mistress was already pregnant with a child. The doctor said that if the child was aborted, it would be difficult to conceive again.
The mistress called the eldest sister and cried, hoping that the eldest sister could give her child a father and not force her to abort the child. The eldest sister said nothing and directly agreed to divorce her husband.
Almost all colleagues felt that this matter was unfair to the eldest sister. The eldest sister smiled slightly: What is lost cannot be recovered after all. Even if it can be recovered, there may have been cracks already.
I admire the eldest sister’s decisiveness in dealing with feelings, and I also admire her courage. She can not be sloppy when facing people who have walked hand in hand. Apart from the eldest sister, I am afraid she is the one in "The Legend of Yingying". Cui Yingying.
"The Legend of Yingying" is a legend written by Yuan Zhen of the Tang Dynasty. It tells the tragic love story of the poor scholar Zhang Sheng and the declining aristocratic woman Cui Yingying, who started to fall in love and finally abandoned him. It is known as a representative work with a poetic tendency in the legends of the Tang Dynasty, and is also a typical example of the fusion of poetry and novels in the novels of the Tang Dynasty.
Marriage was determined in Pujiu Temple
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that an infatuated woman betrays her heart, and all the sorrows of love will always lead to hatred. It probably means that when a woman who is obsessed with love meets a man who is half-hearted about love, all the emotions will turn into the word hate.
Yes, women are no more free and easy than men. If they don’t love someone, it’s fine. As long as they love someone, they will fly into the flames. Even if they know there will be no results, they will definitely give him a try. Cui Yingying is infatuated with feelings, but her emotions are sharp.
Twenty-three-year-old Zhang Sheng has a good skin, a gentle personality, and an aloof temperament. I consider myself to be a stickler for Confucian etiquette. I don't like liveliness or being in the limelight. Although I also like to look at beautiful women, it's a pity that I haven't really been attracted to her.
Once when he was staying in Pujiu Temple, he met Cui Yingying, who was only seventeen years old. They were distant cousins. At that time, officers and soldiers harassed the people and robbed the rich of their money. Zhang Shengyin and The official had some friendship and asked someone to save the family's belongings.
Zhang Sheng was deeply grateful to his mother, who took her son and daughter to thank Zhang Sheng. This meeting was not a big deal, and from then on the two had an indescribable fate of marriage.
Zhang Sheng never forgets Cui Yingying. In his eyes, Yingying is like a fairy descending to earth, like a beauty in the world.
The matchmaker sent a letter to express her feelings
Zhang Sheng, who had met Cui Yingying, could no longer control his lonely heart and tried every means to see Yingying again. Unfortunately, Yingying was a self-sufficient person. As a woman, she will not reveal her feelings easily, let alone fall in love with a man easily.
Zhang Sheng got the guidance of the maid matchmaker and wrote two poems to express his feelings. He thought he could successfully win Cui Yingying's love, so he climbed a tree and over the wall to reach Yingying's boudoir in the middle of the night. Unexpectedly, he got Cui Yingying's love in exchange. It's Yingying's scolding.
Roughly speaking, he does things that are not etiquette, saving others first and committing adultery second. Zhang Zhang was supposed to be a dissolute scholar. Since he was so devoted to Yingying, he actually thought that asking for marriage was a troublesome matter and was not willing to spend three or five months on it.
However, Zhang Sheng said all this in a ridiculous way, saying that he missed the lady so much that he couldn't wait for a long time. Women, sometimes they are so brainless. Cui Yingying was finally moved by his sweet words, I lost my modesty and my self-esteem.
Under the cover of the matchmaker, the two have been in love for several months. Unfortunately, Zhang Sheng can't figure out Cui Yingying more and more. She obviously loves articles and calligraphy but doesn't give him a word, and she knows how to play the piano but doesn't. She gave him a song, and as parting was about to begin, she had no more words to keep him.
It was Zhang Sheng who started chaos and finally gave up.
Perhaps Zhang Sheng didn’t understand women and urged Yingying. What woman doesn’t want to grow old together with the person she loves? And which woman doesn’t want to be married by a matchmaker?
Yingying gave her most important thing to Zhang Sheng, and what she got in exchange was just a momentary vow of love. How could Cui Yingying still be reluctant to part with her and beg for her?
Cui Yingying paid true love to the wrong person, and Zhang Sheng is a scumbag after all.
Zhang Sheng went west to take the scientific examination. Perhaps Cui Yingying had already seen through Zhang Sheng, so she did not stalk him and asked him to make an engagement. She just cried silently and played a tear-jerking piece of music.
In today’s terms, Zhang Sheng is a scumbag. He took possession of Cui Yingying's body, but in turn used the term "monster" to describe a woman with deep love. He said, "The virtues given are not enough to defeat evildoers." Zhang Sheng later married someone else, and Yingying became a thing of the past.
Yingying is dedicated and determined
Zhang Sheng has her own family, and Yingying has not sunk in the past. Time has made her think about many things, and she has also taken a new step. One, marry someone else.
I just didn’t expect that Zhang Sheng would have the nerve to return to the original place and ask to meet Ji Yingying. No matter what identity you meet, what’s the point? Is it possible that you still want to cheat on your first love?
Fortunately, Cui Yingying maintained her final dignity and rejected Zhang Sheng, otherwise Zhang Sheng might hurt Yingying again.
In their relationship, it was Yingying who fell in love, and it was Yingying who decided against her. No matter what era she is in, it is right for Yingying to maintain her final dignity. Some things have passed, and they have passed.
Time is not forgiving, and we are no longer young, so why should we be so naive anymore!