1. The difference between wisdom and intelligence is that wisdom is looking for patterns, while wisdom is looking for loopholes.
Pragmatists like to do smart things. Generally speaking, those who like to talk about "living in the present" are basically smart people. They just want to warn themselves or others to do this. A fact: everything is cloudy, only grasping the present moment is real. Only by seizing the opportunity (opportunity) of the present moment can you grasp or stabilize the fundamental interests. What is in front of you, what you can see and what you can feel is real, so don’t miss the opportunity. In some places, such wise maxims are usually regarded as wisdom. The so-called "skillful power" of "four ounces to move a thousand pounds" has become the dream of this kind of people. They are pragmatic.
However, there is another group of people who will question this view and think that this is short-sighted behavior. If everyone is paying attention to the immediate interests, then they will ignore or not see clearly the path ahead. Once people If you start on the wrong path, you will get further away from your goal. In their view, the biggest difference between humans and animals is that they have dreams, can make up stories, and can enjoy the changes and consequences that may occur in the future. If they only care about immediate interests, to put it harshly, they are no different from beasts. They are just more violent and greedy than beasts. Therefore, they pay more attention to some illusory things. In their eyes, the phrase "seeing is believing" is a very vulgar and superficial emotional expression. They are more willing to find the essence of occurrence and existence through phenomena. "Why" has occupied half of their brain space from the beginning, and the remaining half of the space is to find a suitable reason for this "why". They are retreatists.
Generally speaking, ordinary people like smart people, while only alternative thinkers like wisdom.
But there is such an incredible phenomenon in the market, that is:
Ordinary people think that they have truly mastered the essence of life, and they constantly warn themselves People around you must cherish the present moment. And once you ask them what is "treasure"? It is estimated that few people can give you a satisfactory answer to what is "the present moment". There are roughly the following answers: 1. This thing can only be understood but cannot be expressed in words; 2. Your question is really funny, it is so good. Live; 3. Seize every possible opportunity, don't let it slip away, don't miss the opportunity and never come again.
However, people who are thoughtful and knowledgeable do not know what their true abilities are. They do not know what the present is, and they do not know what cherishing is. In their view, life is a process. Human life is actually about experiencing or enjoying the many sensations brought about by this process. If you ask them what "present" and "cherish" are? I guess they might say to you: 1, I don’t know; 2, there is no present, only instants, and cherishing means that you are willing to invest in a certain hobby and have such a time-wasting giving process; 3, what is lost, if you Pay attention and it will be imprinted in the memory; cherishing is a feeling, it may be wanting to have a long-lasting memory.
What is superficiality? Someone said: You just don’t understand yourself, let alone appreciate others, and you think too highly of yourself. But I really don’t know whether the Shoujingjinghao pie and the Chicken Soup Nutritious pie are numb and superficial, or are they thorough and sober? All I know is that there is a certain kind of suffering and a certain kind of happiness that cannot be explained.
2. If there is love in the passing years, then let your heart bloom with the flowers. If the world is cool, then keep your heart warm.
Life is a process. Then, there will be many possibilities in this process. The more experienced a person is, the deeper his feelings about things will be. "When you have experienced something, the scenery before you is no longer the same as before." This is what Haruki Murakami said. The best way to deal with the encounters in the process is to be open-minded and accept the situation. Love is a kind of blooming heart. It is the online presentation and expression of beauty. Who in this world doesn’t want love to patronize them? But how can everything happen to everyone's satisfaction? If people want to have a good attitude and lasting love, they must learn to be a little lonely and allow themselves to maintain a sense of tranquility in the distance. Say this to yourself: Whether you are happy or sad, these are all things that I should bear. It is the "process" of being born in a cool world. Whether there is a "shadow" of light or not is up to you.
There is a saying that I quite agree with, that is, "human maturity is achieved through saying goodbye."
Between choices such as loving or not loving, having or not having, hating or dissolving... the process forces you to strengthen your own mind, not others. The one who can come out is no one else but yourself.
Attach a pendant to your memory and click it occasionally in the dead of night, just like the time we have all passed. Is the person you were waiting for in that place all those years still there now?
As long as people are alive, they have to face life every day. In all experiences, all the right and wrong, all the confusion, are vividly interpreted through the word life. Then, amidst all the irony, let us think about life and see through it.
3. True beauty is not only limited to stimulating your vision, but also calling your soul.
That day, a friend sent me some calligraphy on WeChat and asked me to comment on it. To be honest, I know nothing about calligraphy. I only know that it may be an artistic expression of the beauty of lines (for writing, I should be a dog-paddle Xiaoqiang style. When I was teaching, I felt particularly ashamed of the writing on the blackboard. I once had the idea of ??practicing writing, but I also It just passes by in a flash, which can be said to be an impatient person).
Since we are relatively familiar with each other, we opened the floodgates and talked about our feelings casually. I would like to declare that the following remarks made when chatting with friends are mostly based on my own feelings about sour grapes. Friends in the field of calligraphy and painting can totally laugh at it.
Regarding calligraphy, to be honest, I refuse. I haven't liked this kind of thing since I was a kid. Although I envy people who can write well. I am very lazy in handwriting, and I have thought about practicing calligraphy, but maybe I don’t like this kind of writing in my heart, so I didn’t do it.
I always feel that spending a lot of time on whether my writing looks good or not is a blasphemy to my thoughts, which is a bit inexplicable. If you continue to practice like this, your thinking will become rigid and rigid over time. This represents only a personal opinion. Of course, calligraphy is a very good method for cultivating the mind and character.
I have met many people who like calligraphy, and the overall impression is that they tend to be more conservative in their thinking. This is not a derogatory statement, it just expresses an attitude of choice. After all, it is a past tense expression and means of a technique. Loving the past is a common cognitive attitude in the calligraphy community. Generally speaking, the thinking mode is more inclined to the old tradition. The so-called antiquity is a matter of leisure, which is created by this inertial thinking.
I know that calligraphy is also a unique art, but for me I just recognize it, but I will never touch it. What I may value more is the ideological content. In my opinion, a good calligraphy is not as good as a sentence with ideological content. Therefore, I may care more about the information contained in the lines of characters, rather than paying too much attention to the quality of a certain font line and the direction of the strokes.
It is true that a word is a face of a person, but if it is magnified infinitely to talk about character and the like, it would be a bit unrealistic. I know that in modern times, Kang Sheng was probably the best calligrapher, but Kang Sheng was the most heinous and low-character villain in the world.
Calligraphy is an art that cultivates the underlying consciousness of muscles, with special emphasis on underlying memory. The writing brush was a writing tool of the ancients and an indispensable thing for learning and cultural exchanges. At that time, there should be no such title as calligrapher. There was and was only the difference between good (beauty) and bad (beauty). Calligraphy became a home, both Later rhetoric. Nowadays, people are encouraging these aesthetic tastes to become a niche. I personally agree with them, but I won’t pay too much attention to them.
As far as calligraphy is concerned, Mr. Wang Dongyue and I have similar views. He said: The brush is a writing tool used by ancient cultural people. The so-called calligraphy is a natural behavioral accomplishment for them. However, times are changing, and any deliberate pursuit of this is somewhat artificial and nondescript. This is also how thoughts tend to become conservative and calcified. Habits are formed.
Whatever the mind is addicted to, it will inevitably bring about reflections from the objects of addiction. Here's my point: your focus is a true reflection of yourself.
The purpose of this article is to express the following meaning: There are various aesthetic tastes, both emotional and rational ones are extremely colorful, and there is no distinction between them.
For me, I may value more the beauty brought by reason, but how can the beauty of sensibility be missing?
I read this sentence online: The collision and exchange of various cultures is a normal state of human civilization, and ubiquitous tolerance and tolerance are the cornerstone of the survival and development of human civilization.
But I still want to add one more sentence to this friend: He is a human being, and it is good to be a little biased, so that he can have his own personality. Hold on to your perseverance. Calligraphy is the cultivation of craftsmanship. Nowadays, in our impetuous society, patience is the most lacking thing. What is the heart of a craftsman? My understanding is: dedicated and persistent, stacked again and again, refined to the extreme, it is the virtue of admiration, praise, sadness and mystery.
Don't burn your opportunities for a temporary comfort Don't burn your opportunities for a temporary comfort. I think this sentence is quite appropriate to say to each of us. No matter when and where, putting beauty online is a sign of being's high-quality personality.