I've always wanted to finish the master plan of 202 1 and the plan of 2022 before New Year's Day, but I'm busy at the end of the year. ...
I forgot whether it was 20 19 or what year. After listening to Uncle Cat's year-end sharing, I realized that excellent people have made plans and goals and really lived in vain for more than 30 years.
The sharing of every big coffee ranked first has a lot of income, worth tens of millions. Then we ordinary people are of little value. Is it worth sharing?
I didn't feel necessary or confident before. Later, I read an article that analyzed two reasons why I don't like sharing: First, because I am always with myself, I feel that many abilities are taken for granted and I can't take anything away. Second, the people you contact are more powerful, and you will be dwarfed.
The first point hit me, and that's how I feel. Many things are used to, others will certainly do it, and it is deeply rooted.
In fact, I know a lot of things that others may not know, even more than many people, but I have never deliberately discovered and sought my own advantages.
The article says that we should jump out of our own thinking inertia, go out, look at others' feedback on ourselves, and know ourselves objectively. Share more, expand your own boundaries, and slowly find your own differentiated advantages.
So my year-end summary is here. ...
My theme of 202 1 is like Munger's: don't be jealous, don't resent, stay happy and don't overspend.
For many people, this is just sparseness, but it is not easy to keep a good attitude steadily. As a mother of a child, it is very important to control her emotions and prevent herself from acting rashly and hurting her child and partner!
This year, I have a strong sense of boundaries. If there is any problem, I have learned to attribute it. This is not my problem. I will not cross the line, whether it is a lover or a child.
In fact, the family wants harmony, and it is not difficult for couples to want harmony-manage themselves and leave others alone, and the relationship will be good; If you can't control yourself and want to control others, the relationship will definitely not be good.
I am very grateful for my present state of mind, which is good for my health. Family is the beginning of good luck and good luck. If I am right, everything around you will be right.
1, in March, the original store no longer renewed its lease and moved to a new store, which made me exhausted. Moreover, after moving the store, the business is obviously much worse.
2, changing the business license, very cumbersome, it will take several days to run.
3. Attend government meetings on creating culture and health. In order to evaluate civilized cities, all aspects of the municipal party Committee have been severely punished, and the rectification work has made all stores in the whole urban area very headache.
4, food safety personnel learning and assessment.
202 1 influenced by YQ, all walks of life are affected by it, big and small, and our small traders are no exception. In the middle of the year, due to inflation, the prices of various materials soared wildly, which was unacceptable to customers. After receiving many orders, they dared not pull materials to start construction, so they could only wait and see and wait for the price reduction information from suppliers.
It was confusing and painful to stop working for more than a month, but fortunately, how many odd jobs were maintained until the price of materials fell, thus gradually getting busy.
5. Resume daily, weekly and monthly resumption in April, and resume daily resumption according to the daily resumption mode. Every day, there is a list of tomorrow, so we have a sense of direction every day and live with the daily goal as the primary task.
Constantly repeating every day, repeating every month and reflecting, I have a new understanding of myself, deliberately awakening and improving my behavior in bad places, and making good progress in some aspects.
6. I have forgotten what I learned with books in 99 writing camp, so I realized that I should not blindly consume, have enough love and overestimate my persistence.
7. It took 259 to join Uncle Cat's personal brand appreciation notes. Every note of Uncle Cat is as concise and intense as his pen name, which is worth chewing repeatedly and then putting into action.
8. Joined a good learning and growth meeting, but didn't output a reading note. You should be sober, ask if you don't understand, and practice if you join.
9. Join a 500-word writing team composed of Cao Hao, Xue Fei and others, and you will be surprised to find that you can write full-time. So, don't underestimate the energy of love.
10, after listening to the book 17, I was deeply impressed by Stephen Covey's "The Third Choice" and "Why didn't my children talk to me during my adolescence".
1 1, read 26 books, many of which were transferred in the middle of reading. Because of the weak knowledge structure, some books really don't understand, such as principles, and some books are boring.
12, join the development reading club, * * * read Alina Zhang's Handbook of Life Efficiency and complete the notes. This book is inspiring!
13, autumn leaf sideline liquidation camp, it is inevitable that it will be difficult to realize without careful action.
14 Thanks to my son for participating in the dance rehearsal and performance of "Mom's Smile".
15, 42 articles written by WeChat official account.
16 thanks to my son for sharing my experience at the parent-teacher conference.
17, two days and one night (smart parents class), as a parent and raising children, I refreshed a lot of knowledge points, very grateful.
18, (intimate relationship) course, how to be a good wife and manage intimate relationships.
19, apologize to my son seriously. Leading by example is more important than teaching by example. I won't ignore his respect and deprive him of his self-esteem because I am a mother.
20, urinary tract infection. I experienced this pain once when I was born, and I will never forget it. Fortunately, it's not serious this time.
2 1, accidentally fell off the chair and hurt my foot, making it difficult to walk for a month or two. Don't try to be brave about things you are not sure about in the future.
2 1, often dull pain in the left abdomen. I had two colonoscopies at 10 and 1 10 respectively. The process was painful, but fortunately it was nothing serious. These two examinations made me reflect on my diet. I should eat more light food, not eat unhealthy food and avoid food.
22. Under my mother's arrangement, I went to Maoming for a breast examination. I'm in my thirties, and I want my mother to worry about my health. It's really unfilial.
23, wisdom tooth inflammation, pain for three days and two nights, so painful that I doubt life. Attention should also be paid to the health of teeth.
24. Complete two doses of COVID-19 vaccine. Arrange an appointment for the third needle.
My mother always said that "health is wealth, and nothing is more important than health". These two years have been deeply touched. Without health, everything is empty!
25. A small trip to Yuelongshan Mountain Villa. After becoming a mother, many things are child-centered, and traveling is also for children to learn and be happy.
26. Zhanjiang Dinglongwan Geopark, feeling the wind of the sea, is particularly cheerful.
27. Agricultural Reclamation Park is a paradise for children.
28. Visit Confucius, a great cultural thinker, in Suixi Confucius Temple and Luogang Town, Zhanjiang.
29. Maoming Open-pit Mine Park and Tooth Elephant Earth Art Park feel the gift of nature.
30. The movie "Pioneers" is full of blood.
3 1, the movie "Super 9", super exciting, with children watching and shouting.
32, the movie "Dream List", feel the living method at the end of life.
33, the movie "Everything about My Mom", great maternal love, crying into a dog.
34, the son's third-order Rubik's cube is restored.
35. My son is considerate of me and often hands me water. My heart is warm.
36. The third-order Rubik's Cube is distorted blindly, and the fourth-order and fifth-order Rubik's Cube are rewarded.
37. The son shared the birthplace of magnetic levitation technology and analyzed Trump's personal problems.
Grade 38, fourth grade, excellent grades at the end of last semester.
39. My son understands my inner feelings.
40. My son kept a diary for a whole year and achieved a small milestone.
4 1, my son interviewed a stranger for the first time, and his grades were not good, which was a good growth.
My son was chosen as the host of the outdoor competition.
43. My son teaches me English carefully.
44. My son was invited to participate in the theme activity of "Socialist Values" organized by the government.
45. My son was invited by ten thousand people from Maoming Southeast Asia Technical School to give a speech with the theme of "Drug Control".
46, my son participated in the flea market activity+outdoor public welfare speech for the first time, and the harvest was full.
47. My son won the honorary certificate of "Most Influential Speaker".
48. After studying, my son won the second place in class calligraphy and the third place in writing.
My son is devoted to the study of motorized boats.
At the age of 50, my son participated in the "Tao Yucheng Cup" competition. After several promotions, he was finally dismissed, but he has gone all out and has no regrets.
Looking back on the people and events of this year, I made a list and my heart was full of gratitude and gratitude!
As I gradually realized many advantages of Mr. Li, I constantly praised and admired him face to face. Mr. Li became better, and began to know how to care about me and how to send flowers and gifts during the Chinese New Year holiday. Generous and kind to my parents.
When I turned my complaint into approval, Mr. Li and the children changed with me. A woman at home is like water, which can carry a boat or overturn it. So the hostess at home is the most important.
It is said that good women can benefit three generations, and bad women can harm three generations. We were not born good women. We need to keep learning and strive to evolve into a good woman, which is our lifelong responsibility.
Over the past year, I have received the kindness of many people around me. I seem to have nothing to return except being moved, because these are priceless. I will cherish them. In addition to gratitude, I will deliver more love with the goal of benefiting others in the future!
The theme of 202 1 is still family education, so after Congcong's resumption, Cao Hao's writing, Xue Fei's study and A Jin's new debt. Thank you for meeting the above four friends who gave me the greatest empowerment. There are many excellent partners, so I won't list them here. Thanks for the meeting and link of 202 1.
In 2022, continue to get up early, continue to write resumes, continue to read books, and continue to manage money. After that, continue to exercise, keep healthy, and realize the road.
202 1 after reading many excellent partners' replies, I was amazed at the achievements and progress of others in the past year, but at the same time I was not inferior and depressed, because this year I learned not to compare with others, but only with myself in the past. Everyone's time zone and flowering period are different, so there is no comparability.
This year I was quite satisfied with myself, because I had mastered the worst emotional problems, and my mood and mentality could be adjusted, which was really a great gain for me who had experienced depression. As for growth, take your time! I believe 2022 will get better and better!
Thanksgiving 202 1, welcome 2022, and wish you all a happy new year.