Know many "geographical" reasons, not one unit, but next door; There are many reasons for making friends. Two people who dance and write often get angry with each other because of their words. In the final analysis, it is "popularity" that makes us want to know. Working in a corridor every day, you will know if you don't know, and you will know if you are unfamiliar. Later, Q was added and WeChat was added. When you are not busy, just say hello through WeChat, or just write a few words. Writing is like a person. The more you read each other's articles, the deeper your understanding. Every conversation, every essay, is projected on the screen like a shadow, reflecting the bits and pieces of life. If you feel very congenial, you can talk about everything, and you don't have to hide anything.
I am a few years older than her, and she keeps calling me teacher. Because I published a book, she called me a writer. I thought she was joking, but judging from her seriousness, she really took me as a writer. What kind of writer am I? I know how many bowls of rice I eat and how much I weigh. Sometimes when she writes, she is always willing to ask me for advice, saying that the teacher can give some advice to be practical. Sometimes she thinks she writes well, but I throw cold water on her. I think she must be angry. I don't want her to say anything, accept it humbly and correct it quickly. Once, I wanted to test her psychological endurance. In her "conversation" of less than 100 words, I picked out a dozen words and mocked her for making up words. Chinese characters are like primary school students' compositions, which make many jokes. She gave a ha ha, and then ha ha, saying it's not bad to make people laugh. I said that one of the idioms was used in an inappropriate place. She said it was an innovation. I have never seen it before. Now I won't let you meet it. I asked her to delete this article to avoid making a fool of herself, she said, so as to see the real me! As a result, you gave me a sentence, so that a short conversation was followed by dozens of debates. Some netizens felt wronged after seeing it, saying that my comments were too harsh and critical, saying that if someone else had changed, you would have been hacked. I replied that she wouldn't. She is an open-minded and cheerful woman. Because, for her, writing is completely a hobby. She doesn't want to publish or publish, mostly improvising and writing at will. Space is her "position" and words are her "heart". She said that she is not as ambitious as I am, publishing books and collecting books. She just wants to express a little understanding of life.
She likes reading and studying. She said it's never too old to learn. She loves quoting classics and often uses proverbs to guide her life. She often said: I can't do what I want to do, but I want to be innocent. Perseverance can conquer any peak in the world. Everything that falls from the sky is something you can bear!
To say that she is open-minded is more reflected in her attitude towards life. In her mind, fame and fortune are all external things, and she will never deliberately pursue them. She is not interested in talking about these topics, nor does she take it to heart. She has a great personality. She was originally in the big office, but later she took the initiative to go to the grassroots. Indifferent to fame and fortune, I just want to run my own small family, live my own little life and warm my little "cotton-padded jacket".
Her open-mindedness and relaxed satisfaction stem from the tempering of hard days. She said that she had a rough experience and could write a novel. At first, her salary was meager. In order to increase her family's income, she worked as a tram salesman, a yeast chemist, wrote and sold Spring Festival couplets on the street, and also wrote wall advertisements. In the streets of the county, in the remote countryside, she climbed the stairs and wrote down the slogan. I can imagine such a picture: a bucket of water mixed with white ash, pulling her arm thin; If you can't reach the fence, step on the stool, raise your head and draw carefully one by one; The wind blew off the straw hat on her head, and the clothes were blown apart. The clean clothes were covered with white gray dots and ink. My arms are sore, my neck is sore, my legs are sore ... She runs a clothing store, and she buys and sells it all by herself. At the end of the day, she has to be busy for more than ten hours, and she is too tired to say a word when she gets home. She dares to sell the most fashionable and popular clothes at the cheapest price, and if she gives a few more dollars, she will find someone to return them that day. She said that opening a shop is not to make money, but to enrich her life experience.
When there is no house, I live in the shabby house of my husband's unit, and my residence is close to the street. The road surface on the street is uneven. Passing a tractor can make the window lattice creak; Whoever coughs in the street can hear clearly. My husband often works the night shift. She has to hug her two children tightly, curl up together, sometimes can't sleep, and wait until dawn in fear ... She bought a new house. When her husband was studying abroad, she decorated it herself, and she did the interior design and family layout alone. When she got a new home, she didn't bother anyone. She moved by herself. She can't ride a tricycle. It is difficult to push it, so she studies and works. At first, you had to turn over and even put yourself under the car. But she did not admit defeat, nor was she discouraged. She said that it is not her character to retreat in the face of difficulties. She acts like an ant. Piles of clothes, boxes, televisions, books, pots and pans … one trip after another, one car after another, pulling dozens of cars in one night, moving for half a month at a time. ?
The white-haired old lady is over eighty years old and needs her to take care of her life. She goes every three days. The TV set was broken and needed to be repaired, so she took it to the repair shop with a tricycle. In my impression, she is like a spinning top, busy with work at home, busy with children and busy all day. I called her several times, and every time I said I didn't eat, I can imagine it was already dark. She bought steamed bread, carried bags of various vegetables, trotted upstairs and hurried home to cook. The hour hand points to 2 1, and the child hasn't come back from school. She heated the cooked rice over and over again. Although she was very hungry, she couldn't bear to move her chopsticks. She sat at the dining table, waiting, waiting. She was so sleepy that she buried her head in the dining table ... Just then, the doorbell rang, and she suddenly got up, stretched out her arms and rushed to the children who came home from school.
Is it easy? A middle-aged woman has an old lady to take care of and two children to worry about. Her husband is in the middle of the unit and she is the backbone of the unit. She has to think for herself and do everything by herself. She can be thoughtful, properly arranged and complete, so that the unit is satisfied, the elderly are satisfied, the husband is satisfied, and the children give her a thumbs up. She stole time from work, never changed her mind, never forgot to write, practiced good calligraphy, and had leisure to climb mountains. What kind of life realm and enthusiasm this requires!
If I can barely be regarded as her teacher in words, then she is my teacher in life attitude.
Choose one of her poems here:
No matter how life treats me/I will smile/If you give me a bowl of Huang Lian/I will be as excited as drinking/If there are thorns ahead/I won't think it is unfortunate/If the storm comes to me/I will bravely jump into its arms/If the rapids and waves roll wildly/I will stand up and praise life. ...
("She" is in the article, you must know who it is! This is me in the eyes of a teacher. The teacher gave me too much praise and "nurtured" me a lot. I keep it as encouragement and spur! I will go to Do not forget your initiative mind, keep going, and try to do better to repay my teachers' expectations. Thank you for your guidance and teaching as always! )