I thought I had made a lot of progress in 18, at least I did have a goal that looked a little vague but very tall. But after thinking about it for several days, I still don't know how to set about the goal of 19, just like Lao Tie left me the annual goal-setting process of Mr. Yong Cheng. I placed an order right away, because it was really strange. Isn't the annual goal to make an entry of 12345 and then realize it? And I know this is wrong, otherwise how can I be confused?
Harvest 1: I am determined to do what I want to do. At present, I will resign and go to Shanghai next semester.
Harvest 2: Master the steps of setting annual goals, not only write down what needs to be done, but also have the process of promotion.
Harvest 3: prevent risks in advance, including mastering the strategy of solving the three big pits-dreamer.
Harvest 4: When you are confused, ask yourself who I am.
Harvest 5: Never criticize yourself when thinking about the future, knowing that you need encouragement from others and that you should also encourage yourself. Dare to think and do.
Harvest 6: We should expect problems to happen, and only when there are mistakes can we grow.
The goal of 1 contains five elements: imagination of the future (dare to think), possibility of life, direction guidance (identity clarification), milestone and self-commitment.
2. When the first 23 years are crossed out, I feel that time is tight at first, especially compared with students, and I find that it's okay for them to waste some time now, because I seemed to be wasting time before, but after planning, I feel that time is just right. Compared with others, it is not too late.
3. When drawing the blueprint of life leap, I feel afraid to think about the future, or I can't think of the future. I have been thinking about this problem since the lecture, for the following reasons. First, when the present is in a mess, I dare not think about the future at all, because I think it is a daydream and unrealistic. Second, I am in poor health and afraid of death. My subconscious has been thinking that I can't do anything at the age of 50. The more I deny myself, the more bound I will be. In fact, the solution is very simple, so when thinking about what you want,
If you dare to think about it, it is possible.
4. Who am I? This philosophical question can't escape anywhere. Cut off contact with others and think about who you are. When thinking about this problem, my biggest gain is that I found the reason why I clearly completed a confidence accumulation in the first half of this year, but I am still confused in the second half of this year-the identity obstacle.
I am trying to get rid of the status quo, so I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but it is not bad to go to a big city to prepare for the exam. Time is easy and stable, but you can be a teacher and enter an institution. Sometimes I even think it's good to stay in a small county. I get married early, have children early and recover quickly. I have never thought clearly about what I want in the future. There is no anchor in the future, so now it is a rickety boat at sea. Wherever the wind blows, it runs, so what others say makes sense to me.
At this time, relying on the existing role model, what kind of person do you want to be, and regard him as the future anchor. When we usually pay attention to information, we should pay attention to positive things. According to the law of attraction, we will have positive changes.
I found a problem when I was filling in the role model. The trait of "confidence" appears in half of my role models. It shows that I feel extremely inferior in my heart and need to give myself strength through successful events.
5. Once you have a dream, you must realize it. Execution is the key.
Disney's strategy has a great influence on me. I often criticize myself. For example, if I like someone, I immediately deny it and feel that I am not worthy.
The feeling after this part is: dare to think. Imagine what you want. Leave the rest to the doer.
6. When I encounter three pits in my life-incompetence, helplessness and disqualification, let the dreamer speak first-I will. ...
7. In Disney's strategy, the two most important ones are risk identification and main task decomposition. As the first expected Disney strategy, the teacher asked, what do you think will happen if your expectation fails at the end of 20 19? I immediately thought of two! One is physical reasons, and the other is fear. There have been precedents before. I think if it happens again, I may get used to it more and more, and I will label myself as being in poor health, so ... with these two preventive measures, I am much more at ease.
The main task decomposition is to force yourself not just to satisfy yourself. Very specific and meticulous steps to help advance the task. I'm not good at this, but it doesn't matter. Ask the great gods. Teacher Yong Cheng said that there is no problem that he can't solve.
8. Keep a belief: expect mistakes to happen. You can only grow if you make mistakes.
9. There must be a positive meaning behind every negative expression.
Only by believing can we see; You will get it only if you are sure.
10, target needs to be managed. Rational methods can be used through the APP, and emotional ones can be used through the visual board.
1 1, there is no "once and for all".
12. If you grow fast, you will encounter problems. It doesn't matter. Just adjust and improve. Don't get lost in thinking, think "I want to ..."
The biggest difference before and after the activity is that I dare to think, I am not confused, I think about the future, I keep pushing forward after thinking, and every step counts.
This change means that whatever you want, it is possible to realize it.
I will dare to do many things that I didn't dare to think of before, including things that I may not think of now.
Spend a day and a night, and Mr. Yong Cheng will help you set your annual goals and help you achieve them.
I am very grateful. When I said that I was a little confused, she decisively left Yong Cheng's annual goal-setting course to me, which made me grow up, as described in this reply.
Thanks to the warm-hearted class, when I was shivering in front of a group of awesome people after introducing myself, they gave me some detailed suggestions on the experience of reading camp and calligraphy works. I threw two calligraphy exercises in the group, and someone decided to take the initiative to link me, which gave me a positive attitude of initiative and constant adjustment.
I thank Miss Yu Yue. She praised me immediately after I threw away my job. I actively linked her, haha. It makes me feel that the future can be expected, because there are many awesome people around me.
I thank my little sister, Xiaoke, who actually gave me an in-depth consultation and made me make new discoveries under the professional guidance.
I thank Mr Yong Cheng. On the one hand, his courses give me plenty of energy, on the other hand, they also give me a strong sense of control over my goals. I have a step by step and a path, and my future is bright all the way.
I thank Tu Xiaowa. She urged me to make progress in my study, which worried me. Besides, we have the same role model and two similar characteristics, which makes me feel that I have found the right way to become excellent.
The solution to the three big pits in life is, I want it!
Expect mistakes to happen. You can only grow if you make mistakes.
I am a little sun, and I want to bring positive energy to others.
20 19 the first small thing to be changed-renaming "cold power" as "the sun shines in the sky".