When I was a child, I thought I would be happy when I grew up. Now I have a lot of troubles when I grow up. I want to ask you how to treat troubles. When we were young, we were not particularly sensitive to social cognition, so things that were already very simple would be handled very simply. When we grow up, it will be more complicated to deal with problems because of the maturity of concepts and so on, which will lead to a lot of trouble.
So people nowadays should relax their mentality, don't expect too much from everything, just enough is enough.
People, content is always happy.
Why am I happy when I was a child and unhappy when I grow up? People can be happy when they grow up, but you don't know the way. Let me tell you that there are only two ways to make people happy. First, ignorance (ignorance and fearless). Second, know everything (try to let yourself know more). When we were young, we were happy because of ignorance, but people will grow up. When you grow up, let yourself know more, and the more you know, the happier you will be. We can't go back to childhood, so the only way to make ourselves happy is to find a way to know more about ourselves. I called "You Jie Brothers" on Himalaya FM, and there was a live broadcast devoted to your question. You can listen to it, but I forget which issue it is.
Why do people have a lot of troubles when they grow up? Because we are no longer children, there are more and more things in our minds. The more we think, the more bored we will be when we don't understand or are unhappy. However, some people have no trouble even when they grow up, depending on how we treat, deal with and avoid them. Worry is shared by everyone, even the Queen Mother and the Jade Emperor. Just don't care too much. Back to childlike innocence, complexity will become simple.
Why do people have a lot of troubles when they grow up, my friend? A life without bumps is an incomplete life! Life is destined to have joys and sorrows! Nine times out of ten, there are unpleasant things in the world! Moreover, "gold is not full of red, and no one is perfect." When people grow up, their responsibilities will increase and their pressure will be greater. We will find that there are too many unfair things, so our hearts are easily unbalanced and there are more troubles. Therefore, worry, frustration and pain are essential in the journey of life. For this reason, it is the key to get rid of troubles and depression, straighten your position and adjust your mentality, so as to regain the wonderful life. 2. When the heart is tired, people will rest when they are upset, so that the mind can travel, climb mountains, see the sea, feel the magnificent scenery, embrace nature and integrate with nature; 3, you can do some sports you like to vent, and recommend running, walking and basketball. Running can exercise, exercise and improve people's will and endurance; Walking can make people relax and relax; Basketball can make people learn to cooperate and enhance team consciousness and collective concept; 4. You can find intimate friends to get together, have a few drinks and chat with friends, so that warm friendship can dispel inner boredom, depression and loneliness; 5. Talk to your family more, or make phone calls, strengthen communication, enhance feelings, and tell your family that I love them; 6. Find a bosom lover, let love sublimate your emotions, embellish your life and illuminate your soul; 7. If you have any troubles that are inconvenient to talk to your friends and family, you can chat with strangers online, talk to them and find new friends; 8. Keep a diary online and write down the bits and pieces of life; 9, you can make an appointment with three or five confidants to go shopping, maybe there are unexpected bargains or unexpected food waiting for you, from which you can gain unexpected surprises; 10, study hard, find the fun of learning, make continuous progress, improve academic performance, read more books according to your own interests, plan your own professional and employment path, and plan your own life path; 1 1, you can watch your favorite TV series with your family and chat with them to enhance your feelings; 12, you can read books you are interested in, broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, enrich your knowledge, and lay a good foundation for your study and work; 13, you can practice calligraphy, painting, piano or other musical instruments, cultivate sentiment and increase temperament; 14, advocate green internet access, watch news and play games properly, but don't indulge, so as to kill time; 15, do housework properly at home, so that you can keep clean, get praise from your family and have fun in life; 16, at sunset, I came to the wild to look for dandelions. Facing the sunset and evening breeze, I blew gently. That's my flying dandelion, hehe! (* _ _ *) Dancing dandelions! Finally, my friend, I wish you get rid of your troubles, be happy every day, and find the joy of life and your own happiness again!
I want to go back to my childhood and grow up with too many troubles. I'd like to, but it's a pity that time can't go back, so I still live in the present and live every day well.
Do you think you had a good life as a child? I grew up with a lot of trouble. I was really happy when I was a child. Look at it, I'm happier. At that time, there were not many ideas. If there were anything happy, we would really be happy for it. In short, we usually have a happy childhood.
But one thing that made me sad when I was a child was that I was always oppressed by my family. For example, when guests come to dinner, I seldom sit at the table for dinner. My family always thinks I am young and always criticizes me, which always makes me hold my breath. My situation is estimated that many people have experienced it. Generally speaking, childhood is ok, ok, but it is by no means a beautiful kind. .....
When I grow up, I feel that I have a good mentality and a lot of troubles, but after all, I am a big man, and I will not shrink back when I encounter problems, and I have friends, so I have a feeling that I can take care of my troubles. As we all know, it is almost impossible to achieve anything without suffering.
To sum up: I was fine when I was a child, but I did have a lot of troubles when I grew up.
I am 2 1 year old this year, and I have grown up. I have a lot of troubles. Enriching your reading is a good choice, but you should concentrate. Someone once said: there are three or three books to read, from eye to mouth to hand ... all primary school students know.
Do things with a plan, plan realistically, and you will feel better after completing these plans.
You can gently tell your parents: I intend to implement family planning in our country. ...
Are you out of your mind? Always doing stupid things? ..... Don't worry about this kind of thing. Really. Think of it as entertaining yourself. Teacher Si Pin told us: We should face setbacks bravely.
Why is there a lot of trouble growing up? Why do such excellent people always grow up as children? Growing up is good for growing up. When you face everything with gratitude, you will feel very happy.
Why do people swim a lot of troubles when they grow up? When you grow up, you think too much, others solve too little for you, and you have to bear too much ... what's more, everyone's values, outlook on life and world outlook are not exactly the same. This is what you think, and this is what he thinks. If you want to convince him, there will be disputes when he wants to convince you, and troubles are naturally essential ... If you want to open up a little and adjust your mentality, you will be much happier!