? Wong Kar-wai said, how can you say such a thing? It should be:
I haven’t been on a motorcycle for a long time, and I haven’t been so close to a person for a long time.
Although I knew the road was not very far, I knew I would get off the bus soon.
However, this minute, I feel so warm.
Some people say that literate people can always see the other side of the world, just like the black culture. Life is not just about the present, but also about poetry and the distance.
When they saw the afterglow of the setting sun and the flying birds, what they thought was: the falling clouds and the solitary owl flying together, the autumn water and the long sky are the same color.
Instead of: I’ll go, there are so many birds, it’s nice to see them.
When they fall into longing and sorrow, what they think is: There is no way to escape the soul, the west wind blows behind the curtain, and people are thinner than yellow flowers.
Instead of: Lan Shou, Shiitake Mushroom, I was originally very happy today...
The recently popular "The Flower Blooms and the Moon Is Full" Zhao Baishi refused
Sister Jueyi’s words were immediately circulated on the Internet after being updated that day
In the first dish, it was said that radish and green vegetables have their own differences
Love, he prefers radish, and the second dish was Cang Cang
The sea is troubled by water. , I already feel like I belong. The third dish
It is better to forget each other than to stay together, which shows
his attitude and refuses.
The three-course meal is full of culture;
Bai Yansong once said:
“Whether a person is educated or not does not depend on how high his academic qualifications are.
People with education are not necessarily literate; people without education are not necessarily uneducated.
Reading a lot of books, having a high diploma, and being literate sometimes differ. Completely two different things."
Whether a person is literate or not is reflected in these three details.
01
A literate person will definitely pour a glass of black cocktail in a quiet and quiet night, wake up and think about life. They often have the ability to think independently. Instead of following what others say and being brainwashed by fallacies and rumors.
02
In the "First Lesson of School" some time ago, the host Dong Qing interviewed the famous translator Mr. Xu Yuanchong.
Because Mr. Xu had limited legs and feet, he could only sit down, while Dong Qing stood for the interview, so the old man needed to look up at her.
In order to show respect for the old gentleman, Dong Qing knelt down three times in just three minutes, trying to keep the old gentleman at eye level or looking up.
Not only that, when the old gentleman spoke, she would listen very attentively.
Whenever she wanted to ask a question, she would take the initiative to approach the old man's ear and ask him questions in a slow voice.
Her every smile and every move is elegant yet humble, which is a natural expression of a person's good cultivation.
Liang Xiaosheng once said that culture can be expressed in four sentences:
1. Cultivation rooted in the heart;
2. Self-awareness without reminder; < /p>
3. Freedom based on restraint;
4. Kindness that considers others.
The cultivation rooted in the heart and the education exuded in every gesture allow us to see Dong Qing’s cultural temperament.
Looking back at us, there are many people around us whose emotions are always faster than logic, and their tempers are always much less restrained than self-restraint.
During the audition, there was a judge who said to a young girl who claimed to have a cold and had not started singing yet: "Then don't sing, just go away";
There was a judge who said The delivery boy who was more than ten minutes late due to heavy rain beat and kicked the customers who refused;
There was an old man who took off a girl’s clothes because he was not given up his seat on the subway... ...
People like this cannot be said to be literate if they don’t even understand the most basic respect.
A literate person has inner cultivation and kindness that is considerate of others.
03
There is such a scene in the movie "The Shawshank Redemption":
Andy was imprisoned by the warden for a month. It was a dark place with only rats. A place where ordinary people cannot endure even three days of companionship.
When he was released, Rhett looked at him and said, "I can't believe you survived."
Andy pointed to his head and replied, "There's Mozart Stay with me."
This reminds me of what the Italian director Fellini once said: "You need to have a lot of inner resources to enjoy being alone."
Because when you are truly alone, you are alone. Only oneself is left to dig out.
In the impetuous and tempting entertainment world, there is such an alternative - Chen Daoming.
After the crew finished filming, he stayed alone. No going to parties, no socializing.
He chose to spend more time alone.
He can play the piano, saxophone, and accordion. In between filming, he is used to using music to gain inner peace.
He loves to read, from Lu Xun and Hu Shi to Li Ao and Bei Dao. He was called "the most read actor in China" by Feng Xiaogang.
He likes painting, calligraphy and playing chess. He copies the Tao Te Ching with a brush at home, and often makes sugar figures and dough figures for his daughter.
He understands that if he wants to live happily in this noisy world, he must learn to calm his impetuous heart.
Every bustle in the world is for profit; the bustle in the world is for profit.
No matter how impetuous or desolate the environment is, literate people can already enrich their hearts and gain peace from it.
They are used to being alone, know how to be alone, long for solitude, think in solitude, and sublimate in solitude.
A literate person is not afraid of being alone, and prefers to quietly improve himself in solitude.
Many times, culture is a hidden existence and a rule of life. It may not be visible, but it is important.
It will make your thoughts richer, your choices more advanced, your work more autonomous, and your life more interesting. These are all benefits to you.
Only by staying humble and continuing to learn can you make your inner strength stronger.
Your cultural accomplishment determines your level of life.