Being a man seems simple, but it is actually a profound knowledge. It is not easy to apply what you have learned. Mastering certain social interpersonal skills will make you swim like a duck to water. On the contrary, it is difficult to make progress. There are many such examples in life.
As a person, I think I should have the following basic knowledge. This may be my one-sided view, but if it can play a certain role in awakening the world, it will not waste my painstaking writing.
Being a man, being honest with others and being honest with others should be the first criterion for dealing with people. Only when people take off the mask of hypocrisy and have an honest soul can they see each other's thoughts clearly, so as to further understand each other and reach some kind of ideological understanding. In fact, many friendships and love are sincere and can develop and coexist. Honesty, like a powerful preservative, inhibits the erosion of loyal love and friendship by all external bad factors.
Second, learn to be patient. As the saying goes, if you take a step back, you will have no worries for a hundred days. Indeed, many times, a little concession can completely reduce contradictions or even disappear. Things are always solved with a smile. People who blindly pursue victory actually lose a lot when they win, such as image and word of mouth. Concession is not afraid of people, but it is nothing.
Third, people know how to turn. People who know how to turn are smart and won't let their thoughts enter the valley of death. But in real life, there are some people who don't know how to turn back when they hit the south wall, and don't know how to retreat when they look at the sea. We can only call such people ignorant. Smart people will decide their own path in reverse thinking. In fact, many times, they will change their minds slightly. You will have unexpected gains. Take qq, the king of modern hard pen calligraphy as an example. He has written articles for decades, but none of them have been published in magazines. The editor said that your handwriting was getting better and better, so he wisely adjusted his direction and changed to calligraphy, becoming famous in one fell swoop. This is the advantage of knowing how to turn. If he continues to write, he may still be a nobody.
Fourth, be good at giving up. Don't always stand on a high diving platform and force yourself to do what you can't do. I have a friend who is now a graduate student and wants to take another PhD exam. After several efforts of self-study, he finally entered the ranks of bo practice. Unfortunately, he can't remember English words and he can't pass the exam. He was annoyed because he had been studying the subject again for two years. I comforted him. Actually, you're fine now. If you insist on standing at the top of the mountain of life, you should first consider whether your physical strength can do it when climbing the mountain, otherwise, even if you climb to the top and lose your health, what's the point? A friend nodded in agreement. Sometimes, giving up is a kind of beauty.
Be a good person, give and be kind. This is the standard to measure a person's love. A caring person doesn't mean that you have to be rich to think of helping people who are more difficult than yourself. A caring person will give him a little even if he only drinks half a porridge. A caring person, even if his annual salary is very low, has to support his family, and will also take out some money from his meager salary and donate it to children who can't afford to go to college in poor mountainous areas; A caring person doesn't want to make much contribution to society and others, but only helps to solve others' temporary worries.
Be a man and make good friends. A good friend is a mirror that can reflect your own thoughts. Good friends will point out the direction for themselves when they make mistakes; A good friend will help you when you are in trouble; A good friend will never forget to share with you when you are happy or sad. A good friend is your forever companion in the journey of life. Friends have always been a very important part of my life. Things can be lost, but friends can't. I believe it is everyone's wish to make friends.