Man is a strange animal. When talking to women he despises, he behaves naturally and generously, just like a brother. When talking to the woman he secretly loves, he shows a shyness. It is not the lack of courage of active women, but the unconscious shyness inside. Yes, there is another complication, that is, speaking hesitatingly. He doesn't stutter, but he doesn't know how to express it.
2. Tell a woman stories about her childhood, especially emotional stories.
Everyone's childhood stories are extremely important, which can affect a person's life and even determine a person's character. A man may not know this, but he tells his childhood stories to women just to let them know him fully. At the same time, it arouses women's desire to tell childhood stories, so as to fully understand her. When the story of childhood is finished, he will tell the rest. Especially emotional stories.
3. As long as a woman likes it, he likes it; He hates anything that women hate.
When a man meets a woman, he will try to be consistent with her in form and thought. However, it is not easy to be consistent. So men can only take simple measures. For example, a woman likes singing and dancing, and he also likes singing and dancing; Women like playing chess and calligraphy, so does he. For example, a woman hates singing and dancing, and he hates singing and dancing. Women hate piano, chess and calligraphy, and he hates piano, chess and calligraphy. Of course, it is not clear whether he really likes it or really hates it.
4. The girlfriend's performance suddenly became warm.
Men are always smooth. Before he fell in love with a woman, he paid little attention to her friends. Once he takes a fancy to a woman, he treats her friends like distinguished guests and is very enthusiastic. If he invites a lady to dinner, he will not hesitate to invite her friends happily. However, he would never invite a woman's friends to dinner in private. Unless he wants to get to know or get close to women through their friends.
5. Always use some harmless excuses to call women.
Excuses are a bridge of communication. It's hard to talk without an excuse. When a man secretly loves a woman, he will want to talk to her more. However, I don't know what to say when I pick up the phone, but I just don't know what excuse to use. However, the desire to speak is urging. So he had to make up some harmless excuses. For example, did you eat today, what do you think of the weather, what are you busy with, and so on. He doesn't care about the content of the excuse. He just wants to talk to women and listen to their voices.