A girl I had been chatting with for a long time asked me what I meant by "I will have a partner in the future, what will you do?"

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Hello poster!

The score is very high. It seems to be very sincere. Brother, haha, then listen to me. I will help you answer the question seriously.

As someone who has experienced this, I After going through a stage like yours, pursuing the girl you like is indeed interesting but the process can also be very tangled. Reading your content really makes me miss it very much

I also pursued a girl when I was a freshman in college. I was not sensible at first, so I confessed my love after drinking, but she didn't like me at all, and had no idea at all, so I am also a shameless person, so I struggled for a whole year in confusion. I didn't expect her this year. I didn’t talk about it. Many people chased her but they didn’t succeed. I made some achievements in my sophomore year. Hehe, it only took a week to catch her. You can see my experience.

First of all, attitude is very important. When chasing girls, you can’t be swayed too easily! ! The same goes for your career success. Cherish it!

That's wrong. hehe.

In view of your situation, buddy, let me stop. In today’s world, if you want to successfully pursue a girl! You can’t use conventional methods! Especially now that you all have a misunderstanding, you all want to confess that you feel that something is wrong with you, and then

After confessing, you wait for others to "admit it". I'm right, right'

This is very Easy to fail, brother. Especially if the other person has no feelings for you. Because girls will think that you confess your love even if you don’t have any friendship, so you are not stable and insecure. (My girlfriend told me)

Actually, in this case, you can kiss her first before confessing! In this way, the other party will have a sense of freshness, and if it is their first kiss, they will be even more committed! (I think so) Years of experience! ! !

Now you must be fast, accurate and ruthless when chasing your child. I mean the most critical time, listen to me, I’m calling you word by word. You can’t play your cards according to the routine, like usual. The logic of chasing girls is outdated!

I will tell you some of my experiences and my understanding below. Hope this helps! !

My experience: When you like a girl, you have to calm down first and don’t think too wonderfully.

The next thing you have to do is to find opportunities to slowly get close to him when everyone is doing activities together. Be careful, don't hang around her all the time, otherwise people will be disgusted. What you have to do is to make yourself excellent in all aspects and increase your capital. For example, playing the piano, hip-hop dancing, computer programming, singing well, writing beautifully, calligraphy, etc., of course the most important thing is a career! ! !

If you do a good job in your career, you will make more money, and if you study well as a student, you will get more attention. The competitiveness is also great!

I sincerely share my experience and hope you can learn the essence from it! In short, it is "to pick up girls, haste makes waste, desire does not get what you want, stay away from her step by step, and finally win her heart! Also

don't let the teacher hang around her, you have to accumulate capital! You know, women don’t like people who hang around her all day long!

Your next step is to develop slowly, ask her out slowly, and then unconsciously try to share your little things with him! The secret makes the two of you become good friends who talk about everything. Finally, at a certain time, and then on a day when there are fewer people

, you chat together again, and you try to ask her boyfriend Girlfriend’s question, and then give him a hint. At that time, don’t be timid. It’s best to go have a drink. If you think you have a good grasp, you can ask her, for example, what kind of person do you think I am?

, and so on, and then while he was hesitating, he kissed her directly, and it was done, and he confessed his love. That will be discussed later when you are intimate, haha, just like that, she became my girlfriend.

< p>And the seeds have been planted in my heart! !

This is how I succeeded. In short, this is something that cannot be rushed. You will only feel it when you finally succeed. After all this time, I finally paid off, that feeling is so wonderful! Haha

Ha, at this point, I might as well share the process of my confession:

I confessed my love. What I said to my girlfriend at that time was:

The person I meet now is you, I hope you can give me a chance to love you well, my dear! Then my girlfriend threw herself into my arms without even thinking and refused to get up! !

(Of course, the two of us were chatting very ambiguously at that time. I felt that it was the right time, and the timing must be grasped! Don’t be too hasty, because girls like the romantic and warm feeling! This will last his whole life. Don't forget it either! It's better to kiss her if she hesitates! But you have to be prepared to be slapped by her. Of course, I think this is nothing! After all, you want to get your happiness. The price is too small!

In fact, confession is just a formality. The correct sequence should be: you can only confess to someone after you have actually become your girlfriend. Many people don't understand it. Regarding this question, I always think that someone agrees to be my girlfriend first, and then whatever happens, I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

Are there times when you “have no choice but to confess”?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or the relationship between you and the girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.

The confession at this time is an immature confession, and the risk is very high. It is similar to the serious situation when playing Go. The lagging side is forced to release the "winner's hand". If it wins, it wins, and if it loses, it can only

It is said that "unlucky people are born"

Don't say the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confessions". To be honest, I really think so. This is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment, and even reflects a kind of responsibility.

haha. , and do you know what the highest level is, that is, a man doesn’t ask a girl “do you want to be my girlfriend” until he goes to bed with her? In the end, the girl gets anxious: “Why don’t you ask me to be your girlfriend?” Girlfriend

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I wrote it all by myself. I hope it can help the original poster! I was exhausted from writing it... Ha, I didn’t expect it to be quite a lot. No matter how much I can help you! ! The success rate is very high

Every girl likes it, haha

The poster will seek happiness soon! ! Have a happy life!

I suddenly thought of something else!

Brother, I need to pay attention. .

It’s best not to let her notice your feelings for her so quickly, otherwise some girls will hurt your enthusiasm if they don’t do enough to attack you.

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You see, whatever you do is to improve your strength, it will be useful in the future... What do you think? I will give you a final sentence: Women are for love, not for harm. Understand this The true meaning of the sentence is put into action.

Basically, you will succeed in picking up 11 out of 10 girls!

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