However, Xu, who has always been pure and cold, has another title, "Beijing School Little Witch".
She once despised her original wife as a mistress.
I also talked a lot about the idea of "borrowing a baby" on the show.
She also pried open a corner of the goddess Gao Yuanyuan,
She is not outstanding in appearance, but she is sought after by many men in the entertainment circle.
Although I have been with my boyfriend Huang Lixing for 1 1 year.
But now 47-year-old Xu has not chosen to get married.
What made her choose not to get married now?
1, Xu's young experience
/kloc-0 was born in a residential area near Sanlitun, Beijing in April, 1974. Her father and mother Yu are ordinary workers in a factory in Beijing.
When Xu was a child, she was black and thin. Because she doesn't like writing, she didn't study hard at school. Her father, who hates iron and doesn't produce steel, makes Xu recite Tang poems after work every day. In order to let her write, she was also asked to study in the calligraphy class of Beijing Children's Palace and practice calligraphy every day.
Under the strict education of his father, Xu practiced beautiful calligraphy, recited Tang poems and read books since childhood, and his cultural heritage was rich.
Xu is not the only child in the family. She also has a younger brother. Her father, Xu Zijian, quit his job in the factory to provide education for his two brothers and sisters, and opened a factory to make neon lights at home.
Limited by the technical conditions at that time, the words on the light box need to be handwritten by hand. In order to save money, my father asked Xu, who had a small achievement in calligraphy, to write a ghost, and Xu's words spread all over the capital with the light box.
Xu, who went to high school, became fascinated with painting again. The university wants to apply for the department of dance art and the college of arts and crafts of the Central Academy of Drama. Her father also tried his best to satisfy his daughter's hobbies. After a year of professional study, Xu finally missed out on the Central Academy of Drama because of his poor performance in culture class.
Xu, who was preparing for World War II, gave up painting and prepared to apply for the Beijing Film Academy. Finally, she was admitted to the performance department of Beijing Film Academy.
2, born talented women can act and guide their own fonts.
During my college years, Xu, Pu Cunxin,, and others participated in a romantic film directed by. In 2000, she joined Pu Cunxin and others in the title of "Literary and Art Worker with Virtue".
Then, in 2003, Xu won the Best Newcomer Award and Outstanding Newcomer Actress Award for the movie I Love You, the 26th Hundred Flowers Award Best Actress for Subway to Spring, and the 23rd Golden Rooster Award for Supporting Actress for My Beautiful Homesickness.
After winning the best performance award, Xu Meng came up with the idea of becoming a director. In 2004, her first film, Me and Dad, which was written, directed and performed by her, won four awards in one fell swoop: Best Screenwriter, Best New Director Nomination, Most Popular Actress Award in the Mainland and Best First Novel Award in Golden Rooster Award.
Xu, who successfully turned director, wrote, directed and acted the film Letter from an Unknown Woman, and finally won the Best Director Award at the 52nd San Sebastian International Film Festival.
At this time, Xu became more and more famous in Beijing. In addition, she also wrote a good hand, a good script, superb acting and excellent director. In 2007, she also created her own font "Founder Simplified", and Xu gradually got the title of "a talented woman in Beijing".
3. Learn about Wang Shuo's sultry original match
People who like Xu call her "Beijing talented woman", while those who don't like her call her "Beijing little devil". Xu's success today is inseparable from the help of her boyfriend in college.
Xu, who has always been pure and cold, has never broken her boyfriend since she was 19 years old, and Wang Shuo is the man who has the greatest influence on her.
Xu, who just entered the university, left his father's strict control and began to let go of himself completely. She often goes to the bar to play rock and roll with them when she plays truant.
Once in a bar, Shark Wang, who was already famous at that time, caught a glimpse of Shark Wang. She was attracted by this girl with a cold appearance and a wild heart. In the case of getting married and starting a career, perhaps a fierce pursuit was launched, and Xu was also attracted by this talented man.
Later, through his own contacts and resources, he gradually pulled Xu into the "Beijing School" circle. With your help, Xu successfully starred in the director's affair. After that, Xu became a director and found it the first time.
It can be said that Wang Shuoyou contributed a lot to Xu's smooth entry into the "Beijing Circle". Who supported her in the back?
"Talented talents and beautiful women" should have been a blessed story, provided that both of them are single, but Shark Wang is not single. His wife, Shen, once accompanied him through the trough of life, and they also had a daughter.
Those who were taken away by Xu completely ignored morality and ethics and even took Xu home. Their undisguised love at home was caught by his wife Shen.
As a "mistress", Xu, who was caught by the original match, not only did not panic and fear, but directly said to Shen, "I swaggered in and out of your house so many times, so you can give him to me." But Shen said, "You don't understand, I am his mother, and he can't live without me."
A "mistress" openly despises "the original match". In Xu's cognition, this is her expression of love, but in the moral concept of the world, she is a shameless "mistress" who destroys other people's families.
After all, the "old love" didn't win the "new favorite". Finally, he chose to divorce his wife, and Shen took his daughter to the United States, so Xu forced away his original match. As Shen said, after leaving his ex-wife, his career began to decline.
At this time, Xu got to know many bosses and directors of "Beijing School" with his existing resources and contacts. In addition, Xu's own talent and strength have already had a place in the Beijing circle. While people were waiting for the good news from the two families, Xu and I broke up.
4, become warped Gao Yuanyuan corner, be a mistress.
After leaving Wang Shuo, Xu turned and devoted himself to another relationship. This time, Xu is still a mistress. She pried the corner of the goddess Gao Yuanyuan.
In 2005, some media photographed Xu and Zhang Yadong shopping together in Beijing, holding hands and chatting intimately.
Zhang Yadong is a very famous musical talent. Xu Jinglei appreciates Zhang Yadong's musical talent very much. Knowing that he had a girlfriend, she still pursued Zhang Yadong. She also invited Zhang Yadong to star in her film Me and Dad.
When he was photographed shopping with Xu by the media, he had been in contact with the goddess Gao Yuanyuan for a long time, and their relationship had been very stable and in tune.
Zhang Yadong once said in an interview that she likes Gao Yuanyuan very much. Gao Yuanyuan is a very special person, and his ideas are very special, sometimes affecting his own ideas.
When they were together, they even talked about marriage, so Gao Yuanyuan had to stay with Zhang Yadong and refused the confession of others.
Once the incident of "Xu was involved in the love affair between Zhang Yadong and Gao Yuanyuan" broke out, Gao Yuanyuan, as the victim, stopped the loss in time and immediately broke up with Zhang Yadong.
In this way, Xu successfully "righted himself", but before long, Xu broke up with Zhang Yadong, followed by Zhang Yadong and Xu also had a new boyfriend here.
5, talented women are not guaranteed, and I know Huang Lixing by filming "Du Lala's Promotion"
Labels such as "Challenge the Original Match", "Forced Marriage Original Match" and "Little Three" were posted on Xu for a while, and negative information came to my face. Xu realized that the "talented woman" she worked hard for would be in danger, and the public began to question her.
Xu directed and appeared in the publicity on July 20, 2065438+00, which diverted public attention. In the play, she also got to know Huang Lixing, and the film received a great response as soon as it was released. Even in the box office over 100 million, Xu became the first box office over 100 million female directors in China.
As soon as Xu's film was released, it immediately diverted public attention. Among them, her love affair with Huang Lixing, the actor of Wang Wei in the play, quickly reached a hot search. They fell in love in the play and were even told outside the play, but neither side admitted it at that time.
20 1 1 year, they directed and performed "Intimacy of an Old Friend" again, and their love performance together became more and more obvious, but both sides remained silent on the issue of love.
Just when everyone was speculating that the two had nothing to do with each other, in August of 20 14, Xu posted on Weibo, saying, "It's amazing that you haven't had a red face or quarreled in five years. The right person is the one who makes you better. " This is also a disguised admission of his love affair with Huang Lixing.
20 18, Xu made a public confession in Weibo. She said, "In the past nine years, I have often been ill, and you will always have medicine." .
This is an affirmation of years of companionship and a response to him, but Xu has never responded positively to her relationship with him.
6. There is no wedding program to talk about borrowing children.
I have been following Xu for so many years, but it is worth saying this, which can't help but make everyone feel unworthy. However, Xu He's relationship has been very stable, and Xu is also very satisfied.
With the growth of age, at the age of 47, she was slow to get married, which made everyone very confused.
Regarding this question, Xu Jinglei said, "I don't want to prove my love through marriage, and I don't need to take a wedding paper to make myself feel safe."
At first glance, I think Xu is very thoughtful, which is the view of an independent woman in a new era. But in the eyes of most people, her idea will be regarded as a "freak" by people around her. Xu Jinglei also said, "I don't care about other people's opinions. They may not have their own happiness and happiness."
Most people get married to carry on the family line. When asked about the "children" in the program, Xu also talked about the idea of "borrowing the belly to have children" in the program. She said that "she has frozen the eggs" and is ready to "borrow the abdomen to have children", saying that this kind of thing is normal.
In China, it is against the national laws to "borrow a baby to give birth". As a public figure, Xu attracted more attention than ordinary people.
However, in the program, Xu did not shy away from talking about the violation of national laws of "having children by borrowing their bellies". Whether or not Xu has "borrowed a baby", as a public figure, she should lead by example, be responsible for what she says and spread positive energy for the society. What's more, Xu also has the title of "talented woman in Beijing".
7. Current situation
When I was a child, my father was very strict with me. When I grow up, I choose to break the imprisonment. Beneath Xu's pure and cold appearance, I have a restless heart.
Xu has never had a boyfriend since he was 19 years old, and has lived with him for 1 1 year, and is still unmarried.
For her, marriage is not the end of love. For marriage, she didn't feel the pressure from Huang Lixing.
She chose not to be bound by marriage and live the life she wanted. Xu, 47, lives better than anyone else.
Finally, I hope that Xu, as a public figure, can strictly regulate his speech and behavior and spread positive energy for the society.