I think everyone has seen my first half of my life. This TV series tells us that it is unrealistic and the most stupid for a woman to give her life to a man.
Luo Zijun thought he married a good husband, could earn money, be kind to himself, care for himself and take care of himself, but later, he divorced her and fell in love with another woman.
No matter how good a man is to you, there will always be a tired day, and no matter how he can make money, there will always be a day when he won't make money for you. If this day really comes, will women cry or calmly analyze how to live in the future?
Life is really not as complicated as in TV series. When a woman is devoted to her feelings, she is irrational and not awake. She must have her own ideas and life, and can't give everything to her husband or children.
The best way for a woman to spend the rest of her life is to learn these two words: let go, let go of the unworthy person, let go of the unworthy person, let go of him and let go of herself.
People live in this world, this life is not for you to help others, you should help yourself, don't be too hard on yourself.
Especially emotionally, not loving is not loving. Don't always struggle with yourself. Luo Zijun tried to save Chen, and what did he get in the end? It doesn't make any sense to you or him to lower your posture to the dust. More importantly, learn to look down on gains and losses.
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Let go of unworthy people and feelings.
Emotionally, the most important thing is to look down on a man. The more you value a man, the greater the factor for him to leave you. When you learn to look down on him, that is the most attractive. If two people really have no feelings, they must learn to let go.
Women should remember that not pestering those who are not worth it will only hurt themselves more. When you learn to bow your head and let go, your life will become clearer.
If you can indulge in the first half of your life because you are young, but when you welcome the second half of your life, you must not shed tears for those who are not worth it.
Just like Luo Zijun ushered in a new life in the second half of her life, she chose to live for herself, find a job interview, do things that she once thought impossible, and support herself and her children.
When she slowly let go of her past feelings and walked out of the shadow of divorce, she was completely new. Therefore, it is really unwise to learn to let go of unworthy people, especially in the second half of her life, and she should not be obsessed with feelings.
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Let go of the past, look down on people's hearts and be reborn.
When we are young, we always haggle over every ounce and are easily taken away by people's emotions. Sometimes you are not competing with others, but with yourself, so it is really embarrassing for you to live.
But in the second half of your life, you have to understand that nine times out of ten, if someone comes, someone will go, which is fair. Don't get involved in these things.
Just like Hong Lan in the recent hit drama "Elite Lawyer", she can't let go of Luo Penang and her past, so she often appears beside Luo Penang and even seeks to get back together.
Look at Luo Penang every time something happens to her, and her attitude towards Luo Penang. Obviously, she can't let go of her past feelings and unhappy past.
So when she heard sister Luo Penang, she couldn't help getting angry. She didn't want anyone to mention this person's name in front of her.
Finally, she bowed her head and chose to leave Luobing and this sad place, which also meant that she reopened her heart and was ready to accept a new life.
Therefore, when a woman really lets go of the past and looks forward, she will no longer dwell on the people and things in the past. When she despises all this, she will accept it with a calm heart and live a better life.
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In fact, the second half of a woman's life is nothing more than paying attention to herself, learning to look down and let go. Imagine, when you don't value yourself, who else will value you?
You should be loyal to your heart, calm your mind, do a good job in your present life, and stop dwelling on all kinds of unhappiness before. Only in this way can you be reborn.
Many things in life may not be very satisfactory. You should learn to accept them instead of haggling over them. It's not necessary. Since there are some problems, try to solve them, not bypass them, so that you can live without entanglement.
In the second half of my life, happiness is enough. What can I expect?