People always show strong attachment to the things or people they care about, indulge in them, or suffer or be happy. But we ignore other things or people that don't attract our attention but are indispensable to our lives. People will say, don't you like it wholeheartedly? Why set limits? Isn't this selfish? Yes, I have no excuse. All I know is that I should keep a peaceful mind. At this time, I can look at the overall situation from a higher angle, so that I won't ignore the details that are easily overlooked by us. The way to keep calm is not to be too persistent. Only by setting limits on emotions can we accurately handle our own emotions and avoid harmful and manipulated emotions from the outside world.
Whether it's people or things, friendship or love, it's too late. Learn to grow, learn to control yourself, and never act on impulse.
2. Too much is too late.
People always show strong attachment to the things or people they care about, indulge in them, or suffer or be happy. But we ignore other things or people that don't attract our attention but are indispensable to our lives.
People will say, don't you like it wholeheartedly? Why set limits? Isn't this selfish? Yes, I have no excuse. All I know is that I should keep a peaceful mind. At this time, I can look at the overall situation from a higher angle, so that I won't ignore the details that are easily overlooked by us.
The way to keep calm is not to be too persistent. Only by setting limits on emotions can we accurately handle our own emotions and avoid harmful and manipulated emotions from the outside world.
Whether it's people or things, friendship or love, it's too late. Learn to grow, learn to control yourself, and never act on impulse.
3. Who knows the famous saying about' too much is too late': too much is too late.
People always show strong attachment to the things or people they care about, indulge in them, or suffer or be happy. But we ignore other things or people that don't attract our attention but are indispensable to our lives.
People will say, don't you like it wholeheartedly? Why set limits? Isn't this selfish? Yes, I have no excuse. All I know is that I should keep a peaceful mind. At this time, I can look at the overall situation from a higher angle, so that I won't ignore the details that are easily overlooked by us.
The way to keep calm is not to be too persistent. Only by setting limits on emotions can we accurately handle our own emotions and avoid harmful and manipulated emotions from the outside world.
Whether it's people or things, friendship or love, it's too late. Learn to grow, learn to control yourself, and never act on impulse.
4. About the example of going too far:
1, Zi Gong asked, "Which is better, a teacher or a businessman?" Confucius said, "The teacher has passed, but the business is inferior." Said, "But then the teacher recovered?" Confucius said, "Too much is too late."
Zi Gong, a student of Confucius, asked Confucius who was smarter, his classmate Zhang Zi or Xia Zi. Confucius said that Zhang Zi often exceeded Zhou Li's requirements, while Xia Zi often failed to meet Zhou Li's requirements. Zi Gong asked Zhang Zichao if it was better. Confucius replied that the effect of exceeding and failing is the same.
2. A person goes to Jinshan Temple, a thousand-year-old temple, to ring the bell and pray. The old monk in charge of the bell told him that the bell would only ring three times: the first time was Fuxi Linmen; Second, high officials are generous; The third is to prolong life. That guy got angry after knocking for the third time, and knocked again while the old monk was not paying attention. The old monk said to him in utter amazement, "This is over, and all the previous knocks were in vain." The man asked the old monk why. The old monk said that the clock can't strike the fourth time. If it strikes, everything will be empty.
3. Qin destroyed the six countries, attempted to be highly centralized and autocratic after reunification, prevented the rebellion of the six countries, unified the thoughts by burning books and burying Confucianism, slaughtered the nobles of the six countries, and reduced the probability of rebellion. But if it goes too far, it will arouse the people's resistance and be destroyed by the six countries.
4. Zhang Zixuan: If you love your lover, you must do your best. The focus is on the "neck". It's too much to love others more than yourself.
Vernacular translation: too much is not enough. Think about what kind of development parents will bring to their children if they treat their children and love them more than themselves. Now everyone can see it.
5. The Song Dynasty emphasized the suppression of martial arts. The basic national policy of "emphasizing literature and restraining martial arts" promoted by the rulers of the Song Dynasty made the culture develop to an unprecedented height. Because of his strong literary spirit and weak martial arts, he was finally slaughtered and destroyed by Meng Yuan!
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5. A poem describing ingratitude: 1. Why should friends make more friends, and the money is neither too much nor too deep? -Tang Dynasty: Zhang Qian was awarded the title of "Lord of Chang 'an Wall".
Interpretation: Now friends are ungrateful. If you have something to do, you are a friend. If you have nothing to do, you are a stranger.
2, knowing each other and pressing the sword, Zhumen has reached the crown of laughter. -Tang Dynasty: Wang Wei's Drinking and Pei Di;
Interpretation: When your good friend comes to you, you'd better press the hilt of the sword, or you should be careful of him. He will still hurt you secretly. When you are a good friend, if you expect him to promote you and help you, you will only make him laugh.
3, wait and change, but it is so popular, but it is easy to change. -Qing Dynasty: Magnolia by Nalan Rong Ruo.
Interpretation: I stole time in the years and slowly faded the burning feelings of love at first sight. In retrospect, I said that people's hearts have changed.
4, the infatuated woman is heartbroken, such lovesickness is empty and beautiful. -Ming Dynasty: Lu Cai's "HuaiJi Xiang Yin Shi Chilou"
Interpretation: This spoony woman, heartbreaker, has no good result.
I don't know where my home is, and I have nothing to report to the wolves. -Modernity: Lu Xun's Camel Xiangzi
Interpretation: People forget their family and don't know where their home is. Raising kindness is like a baiwenhang who doesn't know how to repay.