Wang Wei, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, once saw through the secular world and lived in seclusion in Zhongnanshan, and wrote a poem "My Seclusion". Among them, these two sentences are called "good medicine to relieve anxiety"
When people are running out of water, they also have leisure to see white clouds. In the face of adversity, I can keep my heart flowing, which is so open-minded and free and easy.
Why do you say that? When you are in a negative attitude, your mind is full of self-denial, and you have no initiative and enthusiasm. A straw can bend you.
On the other hand, when encountering problems, first keep calm and calm, and divert your attention. The process from "running out of water" to "Yun Qi" can often calm you down.
Clouds are invisible, inevitable and seemingly irrelevant, but if the time is right, they can cover the sun and storm.
"Sit and watch Yun Qi" is to ask us to learn the "cloud" lifestyle. If we are weak, we should just hold our horses, relax and calm down before we can keep a clear head.
Adversity and trough are not as terrible as you think. As long as you don't give up and go upstream, there is hope to get out of the predicament.
The most valuable experience in life is often gained in adversity. We all know that when we are tired, we often go uphill. Only when we go downhill will we feel relaxed.
Adversity and trough again and again are opportunities for us to grow.
We always envy the success of others, but never think that our success is often due to previous experiences and experiences.
Li Ka-shing 14 years old, his father died, and there were many brothers and sisters in the family, so he took on the important task of supporting his family. He worked as a waiter in a teahouse, a repairman in a watch shop and a salesman in a hardware factory.
It is this hardest industry and the hardest experience that has enabled Li Ka-shing to accumulate rich experience and develop the skills of observing words and feelings and improvising.
Later, Li Ka-shing said in an interview:
I will walk until the river blocks my way, then sit down and look at the rising clouds.
Difficulties and valleys are stepping stones in the eyes of positive people, but they are stumbling blocks in the eyes of negative people. The situation will not change, the key is what you think.
No matter what situation you are in now, whether you are heavily in debt or poor, it is temporary. Don't lose your things. No matter how bad your life is, as long as I am willing to look forward, I will definitely get out of adversity and make a comeback.
-Editor Qian Yuan