In order to teach children a love lesson, help them establish a correct view of love and avoid the tragedy of love.
In this poem, the woman who was in love was abandoned. This is of course the result of the "gangster" man who always gets into trouble and finally gives up, but in fact, it is inseparably related to the woman's own character flaws and her attitude towards love.
Although from the first half of the narrative, the two have a sweet love, it also shows that the woman's imagination of love is too beautiful, and she is blinded by the "gangster"'s loyal appearance. "Rogue Chichi" seems to be a loyal person who can be trusted, but it is just the heroine's self-feeling.
Judging from the following verses, the reason why the woman entrusts herself to the gangster is because the other party swears by him. Hua Qian Yue Xia said some extremely mundane words, which were very mundane, but still considered human nature, but she was afraid that the other party would just say these words to please her.
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Original text:
The rogue Chi Chi embraces cloth and silk. Bandits come to trade silk, and when they come, they come to plot against me. Send the son to Sheqi, and go to Dunqiu. The bandit is my fault, and I am an unscrupulous matchmaker. The general will not be angry, and autumn will come.
Ride on that wall to hope that the pass will be restored. Not seeing the return pass, I burst into tears. Seeing the return pass, I laughed and talked. Erbu Erzhen, the body has no blame words. Come with your car and move with my bribe.
The mulberry leaves have not yet fallen, and their leaves are lush. The doves are crying, and there are no mulberries to eat! As a lamenting girl, I have no time to spend time with scholars! It can still be said that scholars are delayed. A woman's laziness cannot be explained!
The mulberry trees have fallen, and they have turned yellow and fallen. Self-imposed, poor at the age of three. The water in Qishui is flowing, and the curtains and clothes are gradually falling. Women are also unhappy, and scholars behave differently. Scholars are also extremely ignorant, but only have two or three virtues.
I am a married woman at the age of three, and I have to work hard at home. Work hard and sleep well at night, and the day will come. Once the words are fulfilled, they become violent. My brother didn't know, so he laughed. Think about it quietly and bow to yourself in mourning.
As we grow old together, old age makes me resentful. Qi has a bank, Xi has a bank. At the banquet of the general manager, he talked and laughed, and made vows without thinking about the opposite. On the contrary, if you don’t think about it, that’s enough!
Translation:
A simple and honest farm boy, holding cloth in his arms in exchange for silk. In fact, it's not really about changing silk, it's about finding an opportunity to talk about marriage. I sent Lang off to the west of Qishui, and I fell in love with him when I arrived at Dunqiu. It's not that I don't want to miss the date, you are not a matchmaker and it's rude. Don't lose your temper. Autumn is here to marry you. Climb up the broken earth wall and gaze at Fuguan from afar. Fuguan is far away in the clouds and mist, and I can't see my lover's tears.
The lover came from Fuguan, talking and laughing happily. If you go to divination and seek help from the gods, you will feel happy if there are no bad omens. Come in your car and carry the dowry for me. When the leaves of the mulberry trees have not yet fallen, the branches are covered with luxuriant green. Shhh, those turtledoves, don't put mulberries in your mouth. Hey young girls, don’t get attached to men. If a man falls in love with you, it will be too easy to throw him away.
If a woman loves a man, it will be difficult to break free. The leaves of the mulberry trees have fallen, turning yellow and haggard and swaying. Since I married into your family, I have suffered from poverty and suffering for many years. The vast Qishui River sent me home, and the water splashed on the car and made the curtains wet. There is nothing wrong with me being a wife, but your man is too cunning. Capricious and without rules, he changes his mind and plays tricks. After many years of marriage, she kept to the rules of womanhood and worked tirelessly on heavy housework.
It’s not hard to get up early and go to bed late. It’s not a day to be busy. Unexpectedly, after the family business was established, he gradually became violent towards me. The brothers didn't know my situation, so they all laughed when they saw me. Calm down and think about it carefully, feeling sad and crying secretly alone.
Back then I vowed to live together forever, but now I am worried about my future. The surging Qishui River will eventually have a shore, and the swamp will have an end even though it is wide. Recalling the joy of being young, the tenderness between talking and laughing. The oath of each other was still in my ears, and I never thought that I would break the oath.
Don't think about betraying the alliance again, let it go now that it's over!