With the development and progress, people's lives are more and more open, people dare to pursue their own love, and the age gap between men and women is getting smaller and smaller. In ancient times, Su Shi once wrote a poem for Zhang Sheng: "Eighteen brides and eighty lang, with white hair and red makeup. Two nights in the quilt, a pear tree pressed Haitang. " Although it is a joke that my good friend married a 18-year-old bride at the age of 80. This is also the first poem to explain "old people eat young grass". It can be seen that in ancient times, there was also such love between grandparents and grandchildren.
In modern times, due to the trend of free love, women's marriage has been greatly liberated, and they can freely fall in love and choose their own marriage. Therefore, from a secular point of view, those marriages with a huge age gap are unacceptable. However, no matter what age, there are always some people who love each other. Few people know that Sun Yat-sen, who planted buttonwood trees all over the city for Soong Ching Ling, was 49 when she married her, while Soong Ching Ling was only 22. Together, they also resisted countless secular eyes.
Yang Zhenning, a famous physicist in China, is 54 years old apart from his wife Weng Fan. When they received the certificate, Yang Zhenning was 80 years old, while Weng Ting was only 28 years old. This kind of love was once a sensation, also known as "whimsical love". It may be hard for us to believe that it is true love, but in 15, their love is sincere. Now Weng Ting is over 40 years old. She has been taking care of Yang Zhenning's health for more than ten years and often tells him to exercise. When Yang Zhenning attends various activities, he will also hold Weng Ting's hand and be very close.
Emotion is a wonderful thing. If you look at it right, you will naturally be together. You can't be together if you don't like it. Of all things in the world, only love cannot be explored, guessed or touched. People who are together because of love are happy. There are also unhappy people. Love can secrete hormones from the beginning. It is because they feel the need of each other physically and psychologically, resulting in dependence, admiration and love. With the regression of hormones, what can bring two people together is interest, hobby and three views. If you have different interests, it will also be an unhappy love.
Love, some people give up their pursuit because of worldly obstacles, or because of family and environment obstacles, while others dare to break through the worldly vision and pursue their true love, risking their lives just to be with the people they love. Seven years ago in the summer, a pair of seemingly loving grandparents and grandchildren in Taiwan Province Province were exposed in online media. The man is nearly 60 years old, while the girl is only 17 years old. The man is a good friend of the girl's father. At that time, Kun Li City, which was nearly 60 years old, fell in love with Lin Jingen, who was only 17 years old, and even showed great love on their social platform regardless of secular vision, which made people constantly guess whether there was something hidden. The announcement of this love affair was like a frying pan at that time, and people expressed their incomprehension. Why would a teenage girl choose a man who is nearly sixty years old?
Lin Jingen, who lacked fatherly love since childhood, was very rebellious at the age of 17. Whenever his father wants to have a good talk with Lin Jingen, he always ends up quarreling, and both sides are blushing. My father is also very helpless to Lin Jingen, the only child. Because his father neglected to take care of Li because of his busy work when she was a child, he felt very guilty about his daughter.
At this time, Lin Jingen's father's friends also happened to visit the Lins. This friend was the famous ci writers Li Kuncheng at that time, and was known as the "father of vinyl". Lin Jingen's father saw that his daughter also likes music, and Li Kuncheng's musical attainments are quite high, so he asked him to be his daughter's music teacher, hoping that he could help Lin Jingen enlighten and ease the relationship between father and daughter.
Lin Jingen's father is full of expectations for this friend. He feels that his usual musical attainments and his usual conversation can inspire his daughter. There is also a big age gap, and he is at ease with them.
Unexpectedly, during his stay with Lin Jingen in Li Kuncheng, Lin Jingen gradually appreciated this talented music teacher. Lin Jingen, who lacked fatherly love since childhood, gradually realized that this humorous, elegant and experienced uncle was not only talented, but also had different care from his father. And all these deeply attracted Lin Jingen, who is 0/7 years old and has never been in love.
After a long time, Lin Jingen began to show his love to Li Kuncheng, and Li Kuncheng bravely accepted Lin Jingen's love. Shortly after their relationship, Lin Jingen's father found that, like a bolt from the blue, Lin Jingen's father was very unacceptable and opposed to their relationship. How can a father accept that his daughter is with someone his own age?
Lin Jingen didn't care about this, but still pursued his love boldly, even showing his love on social media, which caused his father's great anger and quarreled with Lin Jingen. In order to let Lin Jingen get lost, Lin Jingen's father threatened to sever the relationship between father and daughter, which made the already precarious relationship between father and daughter worse.
Rebellious Lin Jingen packed his bags in a fit of pique, ran away from home and moved his things to Li Kuncheng's residence. They have lived together since then. They have the same hobbies and mutual admiration. They cook, walk and go shopping together under one roof, which makes them more and more close, just like ordinary couples.
"You gave birth to me, but I am old. You hate me for being late, and I hate you for being early. " This word probably describes this pair of lovers who are not recognized by the secular world, but Lin Jingen dares to abandon the secular vision and boldly choose his own love. We don't know what love is in their eyes. How can you know the happiness of a fish without it?
Seven years ago, pictures of their love were widely circulated on social media. Netizens have repeatedly asserted that this relationship won't last long, and Lin Jingen will pay the price for his youth and ignorance. Everyone is eating melons. Just when netizens speculated in the hype that they would never get married, it was revealed that they were married two months later, which made people stunned. This is love.
For a long time, the relationship between Lin Jingen and Li Kuncheng is not optimistic, not only ridiculed by netizens, but even Lin Jingen's initiative to show love has been branded impure, because the pursuit of fame and fortune and the coveting of Li Kuncheng's fame will be together. Not accepted by most people.
Today, seven years later, their group photo appeared on the Internet again. Today's Lin Jingen has lost its original childishness and become more mature and elegant. Her face has gone through many vicissitudes, and standing beside Li Kuncheng no longer seems so out of place. They look more and more in tune, and Lin Jingen is no longer the rebellious girl, but a good wife who takes on more family responsibilities.
Love in this world has the same family, the same age and the right love. There is also the love of soul, the love of values and the love of three views. Suitable love can't be met, and there are many people who stick to their soul mates.