Worms are still alive, what's more, we are individuals, and few people say that we will not live if we don't do well.
However, everyone is pursuing happiness, happiness and perfection, thus avoiding sadness and pain. We will be sad for what we can't get, depressed for what I don't have, and sad for what we have lost. We can imagine what would happen if we didn't. We need beautiful love, so we will be with each other from beginning to end. In the process of getting these beautiful things, we will not be sad, will not leave, will not be sad, so we will not cherish such beauty.
Why? Because there is no setback, no suffering, no hardship, everything we get is too easy, and we will not cherish what is often easy to get.
I remember when I was a child, I got severe rhinitis, that is, my nose didn't breathe like a stone in winter, and I kept breathing through my mouth, especially when I slept, but my sleep quality was poor. Later, I found that I squeezed the tip of my nose hard and then pricked it with a needle, which was instantly unobstructed. Then I pricked it frequently, but the consequence was that my nose was swollen and painful.
Later, I really couldn't stand this repeated illness, so I went to an operation and removed both tumors (students who know medicine can explain), but there was a sequela, that is, my nose was first-class and it wouldn't go west, so I slipped down directly, which made me develop the habit of carrying paper with me.
The operation and the subsequent process are painful and troublesome. I don't want to go through it again in my life, but when I can breathe happily, it feels so wonderful. Sweet, smelly, sour, hemp, a variety of smells made my head lift. For the first time, I feel that the air is so fresh and the world is so beautiful. It's good to have a breath.
This kind of life is happy and colorful. It is because of suffering that I have a heartfelt love for the air and will be grateful for everything I can smell. We should be grateful for the power of setbacks and the happiness after suffering, which we will never experience in a quiet life because we need setbacks.
What is a setback?
Cowardice says that setbacks are a bumpy road.
According to failure, frustration is dizziness after being knocked down.
Depression says frustration is endless trouble.
I want to say that frustration is a precious wealth, just like every grain is hard. After the pain, there will be beauty, and after the storm, there will be a rainbow.
Mencius said: Heaven will take great responsibility for Sri Lanka, so he must first suffer his mind, work his bones and muscles, starve his body and skin, and do whatever he wants, so he can't bear it.
You go to a good university after setbacks. It stimulates people's fighting spirit, sharpens people's thoughts and increases people's talents. Frustration is pressure, motivation, sobering agent and inspiration! Yes, life needs setbacks!
Throughout the ages, many people with lofty ideals have not grown up in suffering. They enjoy suffering, and they take pleasure in suffering and strive for self-improvement. Sima Qian was imprisoned, but he didn't bow his head or give up, so he wrote a historical record. In the face of the depression of official career, Su Dongpo mustered great courage and issued a high-spirited tune of "One river never returns, a romantic figure through the ages", which gradually matured in setbacks. In the face of deafness, Beethoven struggled tenaciously, issued a cry of "I want to seize the throat of fate", and finally became a generation of "Le Sheng".
It is suffering that makes the ideal lake in their hearts stir up magnificent; It is frustration that makes their gentle soul music play a magnificent melody! Isn't it? Setbacks are a valuable asset, and life needs setbacks.
My friend, life is short. What I hope to get is expected, and what I lose is neither painful nor itchy. I'd rather you live, have joys and sorrows, and be on and off.