"Hold your hand and grow old with your son" means that I will hold your hand and grow old with my son. Now it is usually used to express love.
Hold your hand and grow old with your son ",which comes from the" drumming "in the" peak "of the Book of Songs. The most quoted original sentence is: "Life and death are rich, and children are rich. "Hold your hand and grow old with your son." The original meaning of "generosity" is "hard work", which is to praise the feelings of comrades-in-arms. The whole article seems to encourage mutual encouragement among comrades.
Extended data:
(of husband and wife) grow old together
Origin: Guo Fengwei Feng Meng is a poem in The Book of Songs, the first collection of poems in ancient China.
Original text:
In order to protect themselves, embrace cloth and trade silk. When robbers came to trade silk, they came to me. Sending a child involves gas, as for Dunqiu. When I was a robber, I had no good media. There is no anger in the child, and autumn lasts.
Take the other side of the wall to get back to the customs. I didn't see the resumption of customs, so I cried. Seeing the resumption of GATT, I was full of laughter and laughter. Well, Parr, the body is not responsible. Driving your car to bribe me to move.
Mulberry leaves flourish before they fall. There are no mulberries in the nest! I'm a woman, what's there to worry about! It can be said that scholars are worried. You can't say a woman is worried.
Mulberry fell, yellow, and fell. Self-pity, poor three years old. Qishui soup, curtain skirt. Women are unhappy, and scholars do their best. Scholars are also extremely useless.
Three years old, I am a woman, I am tired; Sleepless all night, there must be a dynasty. As for violence, what you say must be done. My brother didn't know, but he smiled. Calm down and think about it, and you will bow your head and feel sorry for yourself.
Being together always makes me complain. Qi has a shore and discipline has a plate. General's corner banquet, talking and laughing. Swear, forget it. On the contrary, I don't think about it. I'm already embarrassed!
Translation:
Simple and honest peasant boy, holding cloth for silk. Actually, it's not really a change. Find a chance to talk about marriage. Farewell Lang, farewell Qi Shuixi, to Dunqiu. It's not that I want to miss the ceremony, and you don't have the courtesy of the matchmaker. Don't lose your temper Come and get married when autumn comes.
Climb up that pile of broken walls and look far away. Re-entering the clouds is far away, and there are no tears of lovers. My lover came back from the city, talking and laughing happily. If you go to divination and seek immortality, you are happy and have no bad omen. Come in your car with my dowry.
Mulberry leaves are covered with green branches before they fall. Hush, hush, those turtledoves, don't eat mulberries in your mouth. Oh, young girls, don't part with men. If a man falls in love with you, it's too easy to lose it. If a woman loves a man, it's hard to get rid of it.
Mulberry leaves have fallen, yellow and haggard. I have been poor and miserable for many years since I married your family. Qishui sent me home, and the water splashed on the car curtain was wet. There is nothing wrong with me being a wife, but your man is too cunning. Be capricious and unruly, change your mind and play tricks.
Married for many years, she is already a woman and has been doing housework diligently. It is never too difficult to get up early and go to bed late. Who knows that after the family business was completed, it gradually became cruel to me. My brothers don't know my situation, and everyone laughs at me. Calm down and think about it, and throw away your tears alone.
At that time, I vowed to grow old together, but now I am worried before I get old. Qi water eventually has a shore, and the swamp is wide and has an end. Looking back, when I was young, I had more joy and more tenderness between laughter and laughter. The vows of eternal love are still in my ears, but I didn't expect to turn against each other. Don't think about going back to the league, just stop now that it's over!
Appreciate:
This poem is a representation of the poet's typical emotions in real life. Poets unconsciously used realistic creative methods to express their tragic experiences through singing, which played a reflective and critical role in the social reality at that time. Feng Weimeng is a folk song and an oral creation. At first, it was widely circulated among the people. After repeated singing and constant revision by countless working people, it was time to write.
Form such a complete poem. In the process of spreading, people have permeated their feelings about love and marriage into singing, so the works are full of realism. The heroine in the poem describes her own personal experiences and feelings, all of which are true feelings. And this kind of true feelings is universal and typical in class society.
Poets are good at grasping all kinds of complex contradictions in the subject matter. She caught the contradiction between herself and Meng, as the agent of husband's power. They changed from the relationship between husband and wife to the relationship between oppression and oppression, revealing the social reality of the patriarchal system. She grasped the contradiction between herself and her brother, reflected the social morality and public opinion at that time, and was the thought centered on husband's rights and the reality of abandoning her wife and helplessness.
She grasped her inner contradiction: can she live together without parents' orders and matchmaker before marriage? I am happy when I see self-protection, but I am sad when I don't see self-protection. How to solve the contradiction between seeing and not seeing? These intricate contradictions constitute the main contradiction of poetry-the contradiction between feudal ethical code system and women's desire for a happy family life. This was an extremely remarkable and universal phenomenon in the society at that time.
Secondly, poets are good at portraying characters. There are two distinct images in this poem. One is a cunning and ungrateful "self-protection", and the other is a kind abandoned "woman". Self-protection means that farmers go into exile from other places in order to defend the country. "Embrace Trade Silk" points out that he is still a small businessman. At first, he was false honesty, false warmth and false loyalty.
He cheated an innocent and beautiful girl by hypocritical means and got her love, body, labor and furniture. After marriage, he showed his true colors. I used to swear every day, but now I have changed my mind. I used to be very affectionate with her, but now I am very "violent", not only abusing her, but even kicking her out of the house.
Some people say: Meng was a sheep before marriage and a wolf after marriage. This metaphor is vivid and accurate. The image of self-protection is the product of the husband's power system and the product of businessmen's mercenary. The poem also depicts the image of a kind working woman. At first, she may be engaged in some sideline business of sericulture and reeling, so she has some savings. She was innocent and inexperienced, so that she agreed to her heart at once.
Seeing that Meng was unhappy, she quickly comforted: "I will have no regrets, and autumn will continue for a while." She is affectionate and really loves herself. When she can't see him, she will "cry" and when she sees him, she will "laugh". She is brave and dares to live with Meng without media. She was very loyal and moved herself and her belongings to Meng's house by car. After marriage, she lived in poverty and lived a hard life of self-protection.
She works hard and does housework together. She is very down-to-earth, and her conditions at home are getting better. When she is abused by her husband, she always loves to protect herself (and her daughter is unhappy). After being abandoned, she was strong and resolute, calm and rational, saw the hypocrisy and ugliness of self-protection, and resolutely refused to fight against self-protection. She changed from a simple, affectionate and brave girl to a hard-working and humiliating wife, and then to a strong and determined divorcee.
Her character developed with the change of her relationship with Mongols. Through the sharp contrast between self-protection and female images, it is clear who is true and who is false, who is good and who is evil, who is beautiful and ugly. At that time, the real social face of inequality between men and women was just before our eyes. Therefore, the author of Feng Weimeng unconsciously used realistic creative methods.
Zhou Yang said: "Where there is literature, there are creative methods. Myths and legends are the origin of romanticism, and The Book of Songs is the origin of realism. " His summary accords with the actual situation in the history of China literature.