In fact, not only women, but also men.
People who really have great achievements are often modest, low-key and simple. The more people there are, the less they like to show off, because they are rich in heart and determined.
For example, Zuckerberg, the university began to drop out of school and start a business. He is smart, talented and, more importantly, rich. In 20 18, he even ranked fifth in the global rich list with a value of 490 billion yuan.
Many people don't understand how such a successful person married Priscilla Chen, who is ugly, chubby and dark.
But this is Zuckerberg. She married a wife, not to show off her beauty to others, but to appreciate it from the heart. He said: My wealth is only worthy of my wife's soul, and Priscilla is my pride!
The more powerful people are, the less they will live in the eyes of others. Instead of trying to please others, they will follow their heart and look like live high.
As the saying goes: things that brag are stifled in endless fabrication and display; Be good at learning and dig silently in the mineral deposits of knowledge.
As time goes on, there is no doubt that the latter will far surpass the strong.
No matter who we are, no matter where we are, being modest and low-key, doing what we are doing well, without boasting or showing off, is what we are most worth learning and doing well.
Always remember: a truly knowledgeable and cultivated person will never deliberately show off himself.
Going back to my hometown in the countryside during the holiday, 10 1 year-old grandmother saw that she had a good life in recent years, and her cousin who made some money in the city was bragging again, trying to say something, but she held back.
After dinner, grandma specially called us a few, to longly tell:
Remember, my child, that in the later life, even if you have the ability again, don't show off this kind of thing, otherwise it will easily lead to disaster.
When people reach middle age and have experienced ups and downs for half their lives, it is inevitable that they like to look for superiority in words. However, whether in a circle of friends or in a real conversation, don't show off such things. They look noble, but in fact the price is very low.
So, what is this? 10 1 year-old grandmother gave the answer: never show off your wealth.
As the saying goes: if you are not afraid of thieves stealing, you are afraid of thieves thinking.
If a person tells his family background to outsiders without reservation, it means that this person is really immature. It is good to know how much money you have and how much money you can earn. There is no need to regard it as bragging capital.
Otherwise, the first thing that others think of when they are short of money is you, or even "I am poor and I am justified". You are so rich, what's wrong with lending me some flowers? Don't borrow, in the eyes of others is heartless. No trouble?
In addition, when wealth is exposed, it is inevitable that people with ulterior motives will think about it, or they want something from you, or they want to bring you down because of jealousy. At this time, it is easy to cause great disaster.
So, no matter how rich you are, remember to remain humble.
Don't imagine that the whole world will yell at you because you are rich, and others will look up to you. What is the truth or what will happen? You brag about yourself today and think you are great. If you are in trouble, others will satirize you with what you said today and hit you hard in the face.
Life is a long road, and the so-called feng shui turns. Don't talk too much at any time, and don't come clean about yourself. It is not only to leave a retreat for yourself, but also to leave face and dignity for others.
Living is nothing more than drinking water, knowing yourself and yourself, being modest and low-key, which will save you a lot of trouble and make you work hard silently to go better and further in your life journey.
It is true that everyone has a heart to show off.
When showing off, we all have a sense of satisfaction.
But what I want to tell you today is that in the future, this short-term satisfaction will require you to pay the price to repay it.
Money, once it is said to show off, seems to be giving yourself face, but in fact it will bring disaster to yourself and your family, which is very undesirable.
Clever you, please remember that the safest way to "get rich" and "keep rich" is to work hard, not to publicize.
* * * Encourage.
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