The poem of the dutiful son is written in the cold door.

We locals say such an old saying: "A dutiful son comes from a cold door" and "No dutiful son comes before a long bed". Why is it easy to have a dutiful son in a cold door? And there is no dutiful son before bed after a long illness? Let's talk about this interesting question separately. A dutiful son was born in a poor family: this sentence comes from the Collection of Famous Sages, and the original words are: "A poor family knows a dutiful son"! The original painting means that the true dutiful son can be identified under bad living conditions. Later, in the secret of knowing people, there appeared such a sentence: "The dutiful son is out of the cold." Why did this sentence later form a kind of "* * * knowledge" among the people? There are still many reasons. As the saying goes, "the children of poor families are masters early", which shows that the children of poor families are sensible early. Because of poor family conditions, children from wealthy families are not so spoiled, so they can get in touch with real life earlier and understand the essence of life better. Then, we will know more about the hardships of our parents. Since then, in our young hearts, we have planted the seeds of "filial piety" that is grateful to our parents. This kind of family condition shapes children's innate good thoughts. Although it is not absolute, the high probability still occupies the majority. It is only from "knowing a dutiful son in a cold door" that "knowing a dutiful son in a cold door" is derived.

No dutiful son in front of a long bed: this sentence impressed me deeply. Because I discussed this topic with my father in my teens. I asked my father why the old man was ill for a long time and the children were still unfilial. Father told me: parents take their children a handful of excrement and urine, and they don't dislike dirty or smelly. But when the old man is sick and can't take care of himself, it's not a big problem for the dutiful son to take care of him for a short time. If it takes a few years, children need to wait around, children have a family life, and you can't stand the "smell" of people. Patience and filial piety will naturally slowly lose, bad temper is inevitable, and parents will not take care of their parents like young children. Most people can't take care of the elderly for a long time. There is a saying that there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed. The fact is the same. The old people in the village are ill in bed, and the concept of having a wife to take care of them is completely different from that of not having a wife to take care of them. Otherwise, there will be a saying of "wife". It tells the warmth and coldness of human affection, and every word pokes the heart! ! ! ! ! !

There is no contradiction between having a dutiful son in a cold door and not having a dutiful son before a long bed. The previous sentence said that a person's living environment can shape a person's quality; The last sentence is about vicissitudes. In fact, the second sentence gave me a great impact, and the sadness was from the heart. When people treat the elderly who have been ill for a long time like this, if they don't recover after a long illness, they will end up in the same situation. This is a kind of fate and helplessness in life, and it is also a cruel mockery of life!