Personally, I prefer the former. Later, Liang Congjie also publicly stated that this poem was written by my mother and we didn't listen to the party's own words. Nature is just a guess. Let's take a look at the background. Lin has a good family. His father, Lin Changmin, studied in Waseda University in his early years and returned to work in the Beijing government after graduation. 1920, Lin Changmin was in charge of business in London, England. Lin Yin Hui went to St Mary's Women's College in London with her father. Lin Changmin is a politician. When he was on a business trip in England, he met Xu Zhimo, a student of Liang Qichao. Xu Zhimo was famous in the literary world at that time. Not only does he have a good teacher, but he is also famous himself. Xu Zhimo's poems are a business card of the Republic of China. Although there is a big age gap between Lin Changmin and Xu Zhimo, they have similar topics. They hit it off and chatted for a while and became friends. Ironically, the two also pretended to be lovers and wrote love letters to each other. Lin Changmin pretends to be a married man and Xu Zhimo is a married woman. They often use this to communicate, which shows that they are playful.
Since we are friends, we naturally have a chance to get in touch with Lin. Soon Xu Zhimo was attracted by Lin. Lin is lovely and lively, keeps pace with the times, and is better than many men in literary talent. It's the kind that Xu Zhimo likes. Thus began the story of Xu Helin. Many people once thought that Lin was not kind. She already has her fiance Liang Sicheng, and Xu Zhimo is still hanging over her again. In fact, this is not the case. At least, Xu Zhimo's kindness was not accepted by Lin, but she can only say that Xu Zhimo is wishful thinking. Does Lin have feelings for Xu Zhimo? Wilma once explained in her book that Lin was puzzled by Xu Zhimo's enthusiasm, personality and hot pillow. At that time, she was only sixteen years old, not as sophisticated as others thought, just a female student. Xu Zhimo's enthusiastic pursuit did not touch the girl's heart. The appearance of Xu Zhimo is just a stormy wave for Lin, and it will not make her abandon her family and marry far away. Wilma was a good friend of Lin before her death, and she knew Lin well. In her eyes, Lin puts family first and will not betray her family for Xu Zhimo.
192 1 year, ended his trip to London, and Lin he returned to his father's home together. Xu Zhimo began to pursue her enthusiastically. In order to chase the goddess, Xu Zhimo did not hesitate to divorce his wife. Teacher Liang Qichao expressed dissatisfaction with his divorce, and Xu Zhimo was unmoved. He only wrote him a long letter, saying nothing about Lin, only that he was looking for the only soul mate. The latter thing has nothing to do with Xu Zhimo. Lin and her fiance Liang Sicheng went to study in the United States and got married soon after graduation. They didn't give Xu Zhimo any chance. After living in Beijing in the 30th century, Xu Zhimo taught in a university and met a married woman, Lu Xiaoman. After they got married, Xu Zhimo was invited by Hu Shizhi to be a professor in Peking University. Xu Zhimo often runs in Beijing and Shanghai and has no fixed address.
Xu Zhimo and Liang Sicheng have a good relationship. He often spends the night in Liang's house, and the husband and wife often invite Xu Zhimo over, but this is not because Lin has any ideas, but because of his friends. One day, Xu Zhimo flew from Shanghai to Beijing to attend Lin's lecture on architecture. As a result, the plane had an unfortunate accident and Xu Zhimo died in the accident. At that time, Lin went to the airport to meet Xu Zhimo, but he didn't expect to bring bad news. After Xu Zhimo's death, Lin was the main reason for Xu Zhimo's early death. This is nonsense. It can only be said that Xu Zhimo is unlucky, and there is little chance of an accident on the plane. I didn't expect to be met by him. Although Lin was listening to the lecture, he didn't know that the plane would have an accident. Otherwise, with her personality, where would Xu Zhimo come? Therefore, Lin should not be blamed for this, but people can't find an outlet and impose responsibility on Lin.
1935, in the fourth year of Xu zhimo's death, he also published a eulogy for him in the newspaper. 1932 In August, a few months after Xu Zhimo's death, Liang Jia welcomed a newborn, and Lin gave birth to a boy named Liang Congjie. And "You are April Day" is written for this child. As can be seen from the tone of the poem, the style of the whole poem is biased towards joy. If you want to write to Xu Zhimo, it should be full of heaviness and nostalgia. This poem is not a mourning poem at first glance. Liang Congjie said in his book "Suddenly April Day on Earth" that his father once told him that the poem "You are April Day on Earth" was written for him by his mother Lin, because she was very happy after the baby was born, but her mother didn't tell him about it. Lin is an open-minded woman. She may have loved Xu Zhimo, but in the end, she chose Liang Sicheng, who was arranged by her family. After marriage, she would definitely not chop and change and take care of Xu Zhimo in Beijing. Because he is a friend, Xu Zhimo does not have many acquaintances in Beijing. Poetry is inspired not only by someone or something, but also by people's minds when writing. Only Lin knows who this poem is for, but I prefer to give it to my son. This poem is full of maternal love.
There is another important reason. There is not a sad word in the poem. This article was written in the third year after Xu Zhimo's death. At this time, Lin's son is two years old, and his two-year-old child is in a period of vigorous growth. His mother also hopes that he can grow up healthily, so it conforms to the feelings entrusted by the poem. If you want to write poems for Xu Zhimo, it should be when they are in London. At this time, they can be said to have the most contact. There is also a suitable time, that is, when Xu Zhimo just died. In fact, Lin also apologized to Xu Zhimo. I heard that Xu Zhimo died, and she also asked her husband to find the wreckage of a plane. Lin hung the remains in front of the window as a souvenir. It is worth mentioning that after Xu Zhimo's misfortune, the Xujia family was in a mess, and the body was not brought back in the field, or his ex-wife Zhang Youyi came forward to help him organize the funeral. His wife, Lu Xiaoman, was so sad that she could do nothing, even nothing.
When Xu Zhimo abandoned Zhang Youyi, Zhang Youyi was able to take care of his affairs and help him take care of his parents, which can be said to be extremely forbearing. Let's go back to that poem. I believe it is clear to everyone that that poem has nothing to do with Xu Zhimo. If it matters, maybe this poem for my son will remind Lin of the dead Xu Zhimo. After all, when I see a child, it is always easy to think of the dead.