I often meet someone who says: this is providence when things can't be changed.
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that we are not enemies of heaven and earth.
It can be seen that god's will is unpredictable, and even if it is thousands of calculations, there is nothing you can do.
Once in Ji Xiaolan's Reading Notes of Wei Caotang, I saw such a story:
In the early Qing Dynasty, when Wu Sangui rebelled, a man who was proficient in mathematics decided to go to Wu Sangui.
On the way, I met a man who was also going to Wu Sangui, so they met and left together.
On the way, they passed a ruined temple one night and decided to rest in the ruined temple for one night and set out the next day.
Before going to bed at night, the warlock saw that the man was going to sleep under the western wall of the ruined temple and said:
You'd better not sleep there. I just calculated a divination and found this wall. It will collapse in the rocky sea tonight, so don't hit you then. ?
Unexpectedly, hearing this, the man did not remove the mat, but sat on the mat and said with a smile:
Your skills are not perfect yet. I just calculated that the wall will indeed fall, but it will fall outward, not inward. Don't worry. ?
Sure enough, the wall collapsed in the middle of the night, and the direction was really facing the outside.
At the back of the story, Ji Xiaolan commented:
If this man can predict which way the wall will fall, why can't he know that Wu Sangui will fail? ?
In fact, even if the prediction is accurate and powerful, people can only see good or bad in some small things.
True providence cannot be spied on.
Seen Zeng Guofan said a word:
If you achieve great things, people will live half a life, and God will live half a life. ?
A successful person must be the result of the interaction between his own efforts and God's will. Don't tempt God's will easily. As long as you work hard, work hard, and God will make you gain something.
02: Don't overestimate people's hearts.
One of the most frequently read sentences in online books is:
There are two things in the world that you can't look directly at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.
This sentence emphasizes that looking directly at the sun will darken your eyes, and looking directly at people's hearts will dust your mind.
When we were young, we always felt that the world was beautiful and peaceful, and life was full of love and kindness, but later, with the growth of experience and age, we would not believe this sentence so firmly.
And more and more afraid to estimate people's hearts at will.
Because, you will find that people's hearts are more and more unpredictable, and finally know that people's hearts cannot be overestimated.
Those news are everywhere. In order to compete for family property, relatives kill each other. Some minors have committed crimes that even adults can't imagine, while others just kill people out of jealousy.
Everything tells us that people's hearts should not be overestimated. I still remember a story with such a bridge:
In ancient times, there were many wealthy families with wives and concubines, and their children fought to the death for property.
Mr. Lin's home is no exception. Although Mr. Lin is looking at the scenery in the village now, he was more famous more than 20 years ago.
Not only in officialdom, but also in business.
At that time, Mr. Lin knew the importance of family wealth, and he knew that he had a younger brother. In order to keep the family wealth, he does not allow his younger brother to study better than himself, nor does he allow his younger brother to consider his own property.
However, he didn't let his brother know all this. He pretends to be a good brother in front of his younger brother and takes care of him.
Brother didn't doubt all this because of his attitude. He always felt that his home was unique.
My brother is so kind to himself that he won't harm himself, and he hasn't considered this problem at all, so he will tell him everything.
Because my brother studied very well, and later became famous, and because the housewife was gone, he thought of taking over his mother's job as a second wife. I told my brother about it because I didn't guard against him.
However, my brother is already dissatisfied with his brother. How can he succeed? Although he promised happily on the surface, he helped him secretly, which made him have to go far.
Just this once, Mr. Lin didn't let his brother succeed at that time, but he also suffered heavy losses in his family business because of this incident, which led to more and more defeats.
In the end, I can only live in a small village and be a small member.
Some people say that what goes around comes around, but in any case, Mr. Lin's younger brother didn't think that his brother would calculate himself like this.
We can say that human nature is unpredictable. Never overestimate people's hearts.
03: Conclusion
In life, we can't ignore the evil of human nature and never overestimate people's hearts.
Although good and evil are inseparable, don't abandon your inner goodness.
Life is short, do more things you like, and don't have too much hope for others. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
We often hear that fate is unpredictable and people's hearts are unpredictable.
God's will, simply put, can be called destiny when it comes to individuals.
Destiny is uncontrollable. As long as we have a clear conscience wholeheartedly, everything has its own destiny and cannot be detected at will.
The human heart is simple and simple, complicated and complicated.
In other words, people's hearts show human nature, no matter good or bad, it is good to have a steelyard in your heart, and don't overestimate or underestimate people's hearts.