It's better to miss the prose diary when we meet.

It's better to miss each other than to meet. This classic evolved from "Meet each other late, be there or be square". The poem "Seeing each other late, I can't meet each other" is a sentence in Xijiang Moon written by Sima Guang. When Sima Guang was a child, he broke the water tank to save people. When he grew up, he assisted four generations of kings. When he was old, he presided over the compilation of Purple Tongzhi Sword: "The bun is loose and tied, and the flowers are lightly decorated." Red mist cover light, fly flocculant. If you don't see each other when you meet, love will be ruthless. After the song is dispersed, the wine wakes up slightly and the deep courtyard is quiet. "In addition to the glamour and luxury of nightclubs, there are many songs that are helpless and emotional after waking up.

If we don't meet each other, if that feeling is sincere, that memory is worth it, that nostalgia is worth it, at least in our hearts. Everyone has their own past, just like I always remember the sound of reading in the classroom of Huaiyuan Road Central Primary School, and I also remember that Xueyuan Street Primary School really enlightened my teacher. I remember the tall buttonwood tree in Sixin Road Yichang No.4 Middle School, and I also remember those unforgettable years in Xinjie Bamboo Factory. I remember the suggestions of Shahe Factory Department and Junan Securities ... So those old classmates, colleagues, old neighbors and old friends who still remember the past for so many years will come to mind from time to time and tell their aging self what is naive and absurd; What do you mean, "just classmates and teenagers, in their prime"? What do you mean, "teenagers don't know the taste of sorrow and fall in love with the floor?" Fall in love with the floor Worried about adding new words. Now that I know what it's like to worry, I want to talk about it. I want to talk about it. But it is a cool autumn. "

If you don't meet, remember it better. For example, if you have the opportunity to revisit the old place, even if the green hills are still there, there will be sadness of "a few sunsets"; For example, if you meet your past goddess somewhere, you will suddenly find that the nearly perfect goddess has either completely changed her face or turned into a nagging woman, completely subverting her perfect image, which is a psychological collapse; For example, when I meet an old friend somewhere, I find that there seems to be no other conversation except greetings such as hello, I'm fine, I'm fine and everyone is fine. I'm not as close as I used to be, and I even feel embarrassed about each other. Just like the once popular online dating, it is the difference between reality and idealization, and it is also the collision between reality and dreams. So it's better to see each other than not to see each other, and leave good memories of the past in your own mind, isn't it?

I never attend any kind of reunion with my classmates and colleagues. I am not the kind of "fear group" born out of fear of "money". At our age, of course, we are not afraid that "youth" will become vanity fair. I just know clearly that there must be big people and small people among our original people, and the best party is Mr. Zhan, a math teacher in Class 16, Grade 4, Yichang. I don't know who the oldest person is, but I am undoubtedly the youngest. It's not because of inferiority or withdrawn personality, but because everyone at the party knows that in the face of the past "you at the same table", everyone will sigh in their hearts: "It's better to see each other."

In fact, time flies and life is like a dream. Those who loved before have long lost the impulse of that year, and those who hated before can no longer be hard. Life is like this. Love and hate are human nature, but those who loved and those who hated met at the last intersection of history and separated at the next intersection. Life is like this, sweet, sour, bittersweet and salty are always full of five flavors, and joys and sorrows are always full of regret and attachment. Therefore, those who want to go can never stop, and those who want to part can never resist; As a result, some figures are close to themselves, but they can't always hug them; In fact, some things have long since disappeared, but they are always clearly recorded in their own minds, which makes people feel sad from time to time.