Well, frogs can't talk about the sea, summer insects can't talk about ice, and ordinary people can't talk about it.
It means that the best way to get along with people of different levels and positions is not to argue or explain, but to be yourself.
Indeed, when interacting with people, everyone has his own ideas and habits, and we can't be perfect and recognized by everyone.
Cognitive inequality is indisputable and irrefutable.
In Zhuangzi, there was a man named Shichengqi. He often heard people praise Lao Tzu, so he traveled across mountains and rivers to visit Lao Tzu.
Shi Chengqi saw that Lao Tzu was plain and lived in a very ordinary place.
He said, "People say you are a saint, but I think you are a mouse."
Lao Tzu looked up at him, ignored him and continued to read.
The next day, Shi Chengqi felt that what he said the day before was a bit excessive, so he came to Lao Tzu to apologize.
Laozi said to him, "I have the essence of enlightenment. What does it matter if you call me pig, dog and mouse?" I am still me. Whatever you say, it's your idea. It can't affect me, nor can it change me. "
I like to argue with others, but actually I'm still not confident in myself.
As long as you believe that you are right, no matter what others say, don't care.
Some words are meaningful only if they are told to people who know.
Wilde also said, "It's no use talking to others about things he doesn't know."
A thinker was walking on a narrow road and met a person who didn't like his work.
The man said haughtily, "I never give way to fools."
At this time, the thinker slowly took off his hat, retreated to one side and said with a smile, "I am just the opposite."
When you have a conflict with others, it is inevitable that you will feel like a sore throat.
It's better to stop here than make a loud noise and finally tire yourself out.
You know, many times quarreling is the most useless.