Seventy-nine unsatisfactory things in life can be explained to others. How to understand the blessings?

Explanation: When people live in this world, there are seven or eighty-nine unsatisfactory things out of ten. Sometimes a good thing is not perfect enough. And if you can confide one, two or three of these regrets to others, then it is already a great blessing in life. At least you can still talk, and there are people willing to listen to you.

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3. "The most unsatisfactory things in life are seven or eighty-nine times." This sentence first appeared in "The Book of Jin·Yang Hu Biography". Xin Qiji, a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, wrote in his poem "Congratulations to the Bridegroom: Use the Preceding Rhyme to Re-poem": "When you sigh about life, things that go wrong often happen eight or nine times out of ten." After Xin Qiji, there was a poem written by Fang Yue from the Song Dynasty: "Things that don't go well with you often happen at eight or nine times, which is the same as what others say." Three people. The couplet "Unsatisfactory things often happen, but the speaker is the same" is a common verse in operas and novels since the Yuan and Ming Dynasties, which is adapted from Fang Yue's poem.

4. Explanation: Eighty-nine out of ten things in life are not exactly what you want.

5. "One or two or three words that can be spoken by others" comes from the "Book of Jin·Yang Hu Biography" by Fang Xuanling, a poet of the Tang Dynasty. After Hui Qin and Liang were defeated repeatedly, Hu Fubiao said: "Wu Ping, then Hu will decide on his own, but he should help the great merits as soon as possible." There are many different opinions. Hu sighed and said: "The world is unsatisfactory, and there are always seven or eight in ten, so there is no end to it."

6. Explanation: There are many things that express dissatisfaction, but what can be said to others is not many. It's hard to describe.