There is a strong wind at night, flowers fly in several places, and sheep float in several places. It may be that the Spring and Autumn Period has passed, a century is short, and the history of gyration is endless. At this moment, the owner just intends to be high above, comfortable, holding a mouse and lighting it, all of which are enchanting. The world of mortals is so charming that the immortals who are tired of the stars bend over. Look at the God here. He can preach, too. That jade Buddha, try it.
Xiangzi ci
Downtown is very noisy. Fame and fortune are tied together. I've been looking at copper coins all day. I am very busy, and the mice are running around in the cage. It's a pity that I'm tired, I knit, and my heart is uneasy. ChanJuan still, glass width. Chest full, clouds full. Relax, have fun and make good works. But the wind and the moon, the newcomer Xianke, go to the end of the world
Many things are always imagined to be better than reality. Meeting is like this, leaving is like this. When the actual situation does not develop according to the ideal situation, when the facts appear and the wishes are not unified, regrets arise. Regret can show tragic feelings, and tragic feelings leave an eternal power for future generations. Maybe life has taken away too many things, but it has left a piece of true feelings. Those who have regretted it must be deeply painful. Such a person must have really lived, given his truest heart, and interpreted his true and pure feelings with his own actions, which is exciting and touching.
Everything we miss is like lost time. We can't get it back. If we miss a little, we will miss too much. Maybe we will miss a lifetime and leave a lifetime of regrets. Sometimes, we can have it easily, but it slips away quietly. I remember watching a TV series "Half-Life" before. I don't deny that the hero and heroine really love each other, but the teasing of fate and fate made them go their separate ways. After many years, they met again with great pain and regret. There is only regret. Perhaps the biggest tragedy in the world is that two people who love each other can't hold hands for a lifetime, but it is because of regret that that friendship is becoming more and more precious, both immersed in bone marrow and detached and eternal. Another example is the love story of Liang Zhu. If they really come together, they will live together for a lifetime and grow old together, then how can they be sad forever?
There is no need to say nothing, because there is no choice. There are always too many beautiful things, and we can't get all of them. But we don't have to expect anything that doesn't belong to us. People who have no chance will always leave regrets. In those familiar pictures, they are dying in various emotions. In those vivid stories, we want to draw an ellipsis for it, but we are forced to draw a full stop for it in the helplessness of fate.
In fact, there are many feelings from beginning to end. No matter what the result is, I think as long as I have this feeling that shocks my heart, it is a kind of wealth, a warm emotional mineral deposit and the heaviest possession in my life. After all, they exchange happiness and loneliness with each other. Don't be sad anymore. People have to face everything they wake up. Things are impermanent, years are like dreams, and dreams and vows have drifted to unknown places like fallen leaves, but I always believe that when I say it, I mean it from the heart.
I like listening to the song "Wait a minute" sung by Xu Yuteng very much, probably because the sad lyrics in that kind of regret touched my heart more. "If there are no regrets and waves in life, will you be in never say goodbye forever? Maybe the young heart is too soft to stand the wind and waves. If today can go back to yesterday, I will compromise with myself. I'll wait a minute, maybe the next. I am waiting for a minute, maybe the next minute. If you really feel heartache, I will tell you that my chest is still warm, and I will not let my parting last forever that year. " Yes, I know your chest is still warm, but now that warmth belongs to another person.
Sometimes, I really fantasize that time can be repeated, so that everything can be re-selected. In the face of the same story that happened at the same time, I won't repeat the same mistake, and I won't take such a mentality again. But have you ever thought? If you have not experienced regret, how can you know how to cherish it? If it's not regret, how can you remember someone who is so unforgettable? There are many things that you have to experience personally to understand. With regret, we will have memories, and with things that we will never forget, we will have a sense of * * * in our hearts.
Everyone will have more or less regrets in work, life and study. I don't think many people will like it, but it is really a harvest of life. Can concentrate, silently, like an elephant with wings, flying freely in the vast spiritual world. It can be a beautiful memory or a painful torment, which brings people more and deeper understanding of life. Life without regrets is incomplete. Regret is a touching beauty, but also a broken beauty. Because of it, all the truth, goodness and beauty in the world will be more worthy of praise. Because of it, life will be more memorable; Because of it, I have the idea of going far away.
Life is just a drop in the ocean, but it carries too many feelings, whether unwilling or unwilling. Life has always been an imaginary mystery, because we don't know the final answer, so we can only move forward step by step. There are many touching fates in life. We meet by chance, only to find that we can also pay a lot. Simple encounters and misses can also leave a clear mark on our hearts. Everything is fading away, and my heart is getting cold. Even if I tear off my disguised indifference, look for the messy footprints you have walked, think of what you used to look like, think of what you left behind now, and your shadow lingers in my mind, how can I forget that you once gave me beauty?
When we understand regret, we understand life. After the experience, we will learn a lot, understand a lot and mature a lot. On the road of life, there will never be lush trees, bright flowers, butterflies and bees flying, but there will also be mountains and desolate deserts standing in front of us; There will not always be colorful under the sun, and there will be heavy fog on cloudy days; Life has not only a bright smile, but also silent tears, and no one can easily cross it.
If you understand regret, you will understand life. Regret is the only way in life, but I still hope everyone can have less regret, especially two people who really love each other can live happily together for a long time. Life is imperfect, life is imperfect, and regrets and imperfections will always exist. After years of wind and rain, I realized that what I lost was precious, and what I didn't get was also precious. But the most precious thing in the world is to grasp the present and cherish this fleeting time. Even if my face is gone in the future, I can at least say to myself: "I have regrets, but after the regrets, I am firmly good, and I don't regret it."
There was a young man who dreamed of becoming an excellent racing driver since he was a child. He used to drive a truck when he was in the army, which greatly helped him master driving skills.
After retiring, he chose to drive on the farm. After work, he still insisted on taking part in the skill training of an amateur racing team. Whenever there is an opportunity to meet a car race, he will try his best to participate. Because he can't get a good ranking, his racing income is almost zero, which also makes him owe a lot of debts.
That year, he took part in the Wisconsin car race. Halfway through the race, his car ranked third, and he is very likely to get a good place in this race.
Suddenly, two cars in front of him collided, and he quickly turned the steering wheel of the car to try to avoid them. But it failed after all, because the speed was too fast. As a result, he ran into the wall beside the driveway and the car stopped in flames. When he was rescued, his hand was burned and his nose was gone. The damage area of the body surface reached 40%. The doctor operated on him for seven hours before he was saved from death.
After the accident, although his life was saved, his hands shrank like chicken feet. The doctor told him, "You can't drive any more."
However, he did not lose confidence and despair. In order to realize that distant dream, he is determined to pay the price for success again. He underwent a series of skin transplants. In order to restore the flexibility of his fingers, he kept practicing grasping wooden strips with residual limbs every day, sometimes sweating with pain, but he persisted. He always believes in his ability. After the last operation, he returned to the farm, re-polished the calluses on his palms with a bulldozer, and continued to practice racing.
Only nine months later, he was in back in the game again! First, he took part in an open racing competition, but he didn't win, because his car unexpectedly stalled halfway. However, in the following 200-mile car race, he won the second place.
Two months later, he confidently drove into the stadium, or the stadium where the accident happened last time. After fierce competition, he finally won the 250-mile race
He is the legendary great American racing driver-Jimmy Harris. When Jimmy first faced the enthusiastic and crazy audience as a champion, he shed tears of excitement. One by one, some reporters surrounded him and asked him the same question: "What made you bounce back after that heavy blow?"
At this time, Jimmy is holding a poster picture of the game, which shows a racing car speeding against the sunrise. He didn't answer, but smiled and wrote a dignified sentence on the back of the picture with a black pen: Write the failure on the back, I believe I will succeed!
In terms of personality, people with inferiority complex are weak, introverted and weak-willed. This kind of person is always used to compromise, silently enduring other people's misunderstandings and unwarranted accusations. But it doesn't mean that introverts don't have strong personalities. Introverts with strong personality don't like to show their toughness, but they are not enthusiastic but opinionated, and they don't argue irrationally but insist on correct opinions, so everyone can develop a strong personality.
People with low self-esteem always despise themselves and always feel that they can't do this or that, and nothing can compare with others. Once this emotion occupied my heart, the result was that I was not interested in anything, and depression, trouble and anxiety followed. No matter how you treat your work and life, you are disheartened and desperate. Lost the courage to struggle and forge ahead. If you encounter difficulties or setbacks, you will sigh and complain that life has given you too many setbacks. This is so incompatible with the confident temperament and broad mind that modern people should have.
In fact, everyone will have different degrees of inferiority at different times. No one can be flawless, and perfectionists are more likely to feel inferior. There are many reasons for inferiority complex. Some people like to set too high a standard as their goal, and as a result, they will always fail to meet the requirements, leading to inferiority. Some people are very concerned about others' comments and opinions on themselves, and they often feel inferior when belittling others; Some people mistakenly regard others' praise for themselves as sarcasm, so the information they feel tends to be self-denying, and they will feel more humble and depressed; Some people are dissatisfied with their families or their economic income and status, and they are also very inferior to the comparison between material life and spiritual life; Some people can't live like normal people because of physical defects, and they will feel inferior.
The process of overcoming inferiority is actually a process of honing one's mentality and defeating oneself. In the face of adversity, if you always complain about fate, think that life owes you, and think that you are the most unfortunate person in the world, then you can't get rid of inferiority. Eliminate inferiority complex and don't measure yourself by other people's standards. The reason is simple, because you don't have all the advantages of others. You can do some things that others can do, but some things, no matter how strong your desire, are actually difficult to do, and vice versa. As long as you believe, understand and accept this truth, your inferiority will gradually disappear; To eliminate inferiority complex, we should treat ourselves with a peaceful attitude. After fully realizing our strengths and weaknesses, don't always focus on our weaknesses. The longer you stay, the heavier the black shadow will be. Eliminate inferiority complex and don't care what others say about you. As long as you feel right, go your own way and let others talk. To eliminate inferiority complex, we should think rationally with a positive attitude and constantly combine individual unique strengths into effective actions.
Inferiority is the opposite of self-esteem, self-love, self-motivation, self-confidence and self-improvement. Inferiority is a stumbling block for people to rush out of adversity, and inferiority is an obstacle set by themselves. Only when people with low self-esteem cross this threshold can they concentrate on their own career and start a new life. American President Lincoln is not only an illegitimate child, but also an ugly man with no manners. He himself is very sensitive to these defects, but a kind of psychological compensation made him transcend his inferiority complex. He overcame his physical inferiority and made great efforts to become the beloved president of the American people with his own strengths and advantages. Beethoven, a great musician, overcame many difficulties to create the famous Ninth Symphony when he was completely deaf. The strong are not born, and sometimes they are weak. The strong become stronger because they are good at overcoming their weaknesses. Great men are great because they always maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and are more confident than ordinary people.