Being a man is like water, colorless, invisible and tasteless. It can adapt to the situation and change any shape. Can be blended into any taste as required. It is simple, but flexible and clever. Water is unrestrained, rigid, rigid, paranoid, sometimes delicate, sometimes rough, sometimes charming, sometimes unrestrained. It changes with time, with dew at night, fog in the morning, rain in summer and snow in winter. It changes with the situation, soothing like a stream, singing softly, steep like a waterfall, roaring tigers and singing dragons. It varies from instrument to instrument. When it meets a circle, it is round, when it meets a square, it is square, as straight as a scribe, and the curve can be panlong. Water moves by machine, is born by movement, and advances by life, so it has infinite vitality. If you can be like water, you are the king among people.
The wind of kings is invisible and powerful.
Many sages in China advocate the style of water. They think that the characteristics of water are closest to those of China people. Among all things, water is the noblest, invisible and powerful, and it is possible to seize everything.
That's true. 70% of the earth's surface is covered with water. In terms of quantity, volume and area, water is a well-deserved "king of the earth", so the earth is also called "water polo". Although there is so much water on the earth, it is everywhere. But water has no fixed form of its own. In the dry desert, it is hidden underground without a trace. In the sea of Wang Yang, the tides rise and fall. In the vast world, it willingly acts as the source of life, the milk of civilization and the soul of all things.
The king's wind of water is embodied in his fearless spirit and is a real warrior. Whether it is a slender stream or a surging river, there is a fearless momentum. Facing the mountains and the thick soil, it is always rushing forward, carrying out the power of infiltration, the power of infiltration, the method of disintegration and the method of moistening, and finally moving towards its own goal. Being king is very similar to being king of water. Being a king is not necessarily a marshal in charge of thousands of troops, an official in charge of one side, or a strong tough guy, but you must have the courage to overcome all difficulties and go forward like a raging sea. He has a convincing ability, a breathtaking temperament, and a threatening momentum without being angry and arrogant. Its momentum is hidden behind the appearance, hidden in the invisible. Because it is invisible, it can change into any shape, adapt to any environment, and be invincible.
Anyone who has made a career and achieved success has an "invisible" wind like water. It is they who, in the ever-changing environment, are good at breaking through difficulties and obstacles with invisible energy and finally achieving the great cause of life.
Wang Mang is such an "invisible" king. Aside from historical evaluation, Wang Mang in the Western Han Dynasty can be regarded as a figure with "the wind of kings". If he didn't leave the notoriety of usurping and seizing power, he might be an immortal figure of the Duke of Zhou.
Rightly or wrongly, history has happened under Wang Mang's hand, which cannot be changed by future generations. Today, we have to admire Wang Mang's intangible merits, which are better than tangible skills. The invisibility of water tells us that all tangible things have something to attack and break, and it is difficult to be invincible. Only "stealth" can make the enemy unable to start.
Invisible is "hidden under nine cities, but above nine days." Invisibility must have no weakness and be used by opponents. Only "invisible" actions can be invincible.
Although the empty city plan in Romance of the Three Kingdoms is fictional, it is a classic case in which "intangible" overwhelms "tangible". Zhuge Liang mystified himself, removed the soldiers guarding the city and opened the gate wide, which made Sima Yi feel that the "situation" in the city was unknown and invisible. This made Sima Yi, who was trembling, decide to retreat immediately!
Invisible is never better than visible. Mozi said: "Invisibility is the most powerful. Water is invisible, water is powerful, and people are invisible, so people can become Jackie Chan. " What he means is that the momentum of water comes not from the amount of water, but from its invisible power. People's success does not come from limited strength, but from intangible thoughts, intangible perseverance, intangible spirit and intangible external forces. Only by making good use of these intangible factors can one accumulate successful capital and finally achieve some achievements.
Invisible is the soul of water, invisible is the power of water, invisible is the invincible wind of kings. Because of its invisibility, it can rush forward in the river, drop in the sky, stand upside down on the roof into ice, rise into steam in a boiling pot, fly, flow and hide underground. The invisibility of water is the basis of water formation; It is also the temperament of the king. If a person can master the invisible power of water, he will certainly achieve something and have a career. As the Confucian master Xunzi said: "If water is invisible, everything can be invisible;" Invisible people will achieve great things. "
Invisibility is the biggest, widest, deepest and most terrible. Water is invisible and can be ubiquitous, becoming the "king of the earth"; The night is invisible and can cover everything in the world; Culture is intangible and can promote civilization ... All intangible things in the world have a natural motivation to win. If you want to stand out and be invincible, you must learn the intangible advantages of water, integrate your tangible self into colorful social life, make contributions with intangible adaptability, and finally live a happy life as free as water.
Aquatic without normality, strong without normality.
Water is a model of adaptability. Even if water is enclosed in a stagnant pool, it will change from time to time. When it is hot, it will turn into steam, rise in the air, condense into water droplets, and then gather in the surface rivers. When it gets cold, it will turn into ice again and keep its strength. When it is neither hot nor cold, it keeps seeping into the ground. Timely and random change is the viability of water.
Being a man also needs such skills. If a person doesn't have the elasticity like water, he can't live at all. It can be said that the flexibility determines the strength of viability and the width of personal development space. Sun Wudi, a great strategist in the Spring and Autumn Period, said in Sun Tzu's Art of War: "Water flows because of the ground, and soldiers win because of the ground, so soldiers have no constant potential and water is impermanent. Being able to win because of the change of the enemy is called God. " The meaning of this passage is that water always determines the running direction with the change of terrain, and the method of winning in war is formulated according to the change of enemy situation. So there is no fixed pattern in fighting, and the water has no fixed shape. Being able to figure out the way to win with the change of the enemy's situation can be said to be a god-like existence.
The biggest feature that water is good at changing is to change itself. Adapt to the environment by changing yourself. It becomes a circle when it meets a circle, and it can find ways to overcome difficulties when it meets a square and faces pressure. Spring is dew, summer is rain, and winter is fog, which turns into steam and ice. It is through constant change that water adapts to the vagaries of nature. This fickle spirit of water always inspires us that a man must be as flexible as water. It is the rule to be a successful person to be flexible at a certain time and under certain circumstances.
Water is born of impetuousness, so life is always full of vitality. Being a good person is the same. People with flexible minds can always turn disadvantages into advantages, turn difficulties into smooth roads and open up new paths in life.
Sakyamuni, the founder of Buddhism, is also a flexible and wise man. Once, he showed a miracle to his followers, claiming that he could carry a distant mountain in front of him. He recited a spell to perform his magic, but the mountains in the distance did not move. At this time, he said to the believers unhurriedly, "Since Shan doesn't want to come here, let's go."
The ancients said: "If you are poor, you will think about change, and if you change, you will pass." Learn to be flexible and learn to be kind. When we fall into the situation of "there is no doubt in the mountains and rivers" and don't hesitate or shrink back, we will find another way to prevent and control water, tread a way out from where there is no road, and open a way out from where there are only thorns, and often we can enter the scenic spot of "a village with a bright future".
Flexibility is the source of life, and flexibility is the great wisdom of life. Being a man and doing things should not only adhere to principles, pay attention to methods, but also know how to be flexible. We should assess the situation and keep pace with the times. Otherwise, you will become a loser who eats his own money and become the object of ridicule. Many things fail because they don't follow the flexible principle of success. Learn to be flexible, whether you are a person or doing things. Because only flexibility can find a way and get a shortcut. Flexibility is to change yourself as a way of success. The philosopher said: "You can't change the past, but you can change the present;" If you want to change the environment, you must change yourself. "
Learning to be flexible is the key to doing things. If you can't be flexible, you will only accomplish nothing in the end.
Jie Jin was a great genius in Ming Dynasty, and he was a fickle talent. It is through his unpredictable ability to change things that he achieved his infinite scenery in front of the emperor.
Needless to say, the scenery of Jie Jin. But behind the scenery, it is worth exploring. It is the fickle wisdom that has built a stage for Jie Jin to show his talents. Change is life, change is hope, and change can lead to success. Water is impermanent, and people are impermanent. Guo Moruo once said: "We can't be knowledgeable people, but we can use the agility of water to seek flexibility. Change your mind and change your means, and you may be suddenly enlightened. " Hua, a famous mathematician, said: "Being a man should be like learning mathematics, not always turning in circles, but as flexible as water." If you change it, it will pass. If you don't change, you will stop. "
Life is always faced with unpredictable variables. To deal with all kinds of complicated life problems, we need to change in time, so as to drift with the flow, be calm and calm, and strive for an invincible position between motion and static.
Great things are hidden, they follow the trend.
Water is always willing to hide in low-lying places. It is good at using the terrain from high to low, taking advantage of the trend rather than going against the trend. "If you are prosperous, you will die." Not only will the trend not consume its own energy, but with the increase of the downward slope, the water will continue to gain twice or even its own unstoppable momentum until it hides in a low-lying place. The biggest advantage of taking advantage of the trend is to use the "general trend" in obedience, so that you can grow up from small to large, from weak to strong, from less to more, and accumulate infinite strength invisibly and rise rapidly. Conveniently, water has the power to hide quickly, and it is easy for water to achieve its goal. Not like grass on the wall, not like delicate flowers. It likes to stand on high and show off its beauty, but it doesn't know how to go with the flow. Water is water. It does not win glory, and it does not compete for position. Where is the lowest, where is the most hidden, it goes, and even hides itself in the center of the earth. This ability to hide yourself and go with the flow is a genius who crosses mountains and reaches the sea.
Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards. Water knows that low-lying places are the most unnoticed temples, and they are also places where the wind can't blow and the soil is difficult to bury. It is the great power of water, which protects itself first, then permeates and lives forever. How can we talk about the long-term future if we can't even protect ourselves? As long as you master the hidden power of water and follow the trend, you will surely achieve your career and make great achievements.
Life is always difficult to cope with. The key is how to skillfully adapt to the development of the general trend, accumulate your own strength in the trend, and find your own new development path.
Mencius said: "If the boat goes downstream, it will gain water power; If a bird flies along the current, it will gain wind power; A person who goes downstream will gain strength. " The famous minister works under Li. When the Xuanwumen mutiny, Wei Zhi followed the general trend and secretly helped Li Shimin get a better position for himself. In this regard, he realized: "The unconscious mainly hides and protects life and does what it wants; When you meet the Lord, you should go with the flow and not insult your wisdom. " What Kevin·Z said is really a hidden punch line!
The key to hiding and moving with the trend is to be just right, down the river and up the mountain. People can't go against the trend, but follow the trend, depending on the momentum. If they are confused by appearances, they will become followers, not followers. The real potential is sometimes weak, just like the unearthed seedlings are young but full of vitality and unstoppable. The momentum that is not the general trend is sometimes crazy, but it will soon die out. Such a trend cannot be called a trend, but a temporary storm.
The trend depends on the time period, and it takes a long time to change a big trend. Even a prophet, if he can't follow the trend, he can only miss the opportunity. Because you know it too early, there is a problem if you don't follow the crowd. You know the trend, and your foresight is valuable. Follow the trend and have the courage to admit defeat. Don't do things in anger and impulse. If you make a mistake, turn around immediately and follow suit to avoid drowning. Being a man needs to learn the skills of water. At any time, everything is good at hiding and drifting with the flow. It is not blind obedience and aimless companionship, but conforming to the general trend, grasping the opportunity and preempting. Only in this way can we conform to the trend and break into a new world in life.
Smart eyes know the situation and do what they can.
Water doesn't have a pair of eyes like people, and it can see the truth, goodness, beauty and falsehood, ugliness and ugliness in the world. But the eyes of water are higher than the naked eye, and water perceives the world with its heart. Wherever the water flows, it will perceive clearly at the moment of contact, where is the mountain, where is the flat, where is the hard, where is the soft, where is the strong blocking force, and where is the weak, and it will attack violently or circuitously according to its own strength until the obstacles are eliminated and its own goals are achieved. Water is really a model of doing what you can.
There is a poem about water according to its ability, which reads: "Heaven and earth adopt the essence of the sun and moon, and the sun and moon condense the essence of heaven and earth, so it is aquatic." Mountains are powerful, but water is invisible. At the beginning of the mountain, the sound shocked the whole world and tore the sky; At the beginning of the water, it was silent and affectionate. Hydrophilic and beautiful, affectionate because of water. When the water overflows, it is choppy and mighty. Water can be springs or streams, rivers or oceans. Just follow gently, scoop water to drink, and wash away in an instant. Over time, the leaves are covered with water, the leaves are covered with water drops, and the grass is full of youth ... "
When the water is small, it is docile and lively, and the sound of water is like a beautiful ballad. At the same time, when you are charming, give full play to your moisturizing and infiltrating power. Let you make an iron wall and tear it down from the foundation. When the water is surging, it accumulates a thunderous force, destroys the decadent trend and takes away everything in the world. A discerning person knows the times, that is, you can not only know your own situation, but also recognize your opponent's situation, know yourself and yourself, then measure your own strength and adopt appropriate strategies and means to achieve your goals. Water is born with this ability, and life needs this ability.
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Only by knowing the situation can we do what we can and be invincible. Because water can see the situation clearly, it can bypass the mountain, go down the hillside and melt into the sea when it meets it. To be a man and do things, you need to learn the skills of judging the situation and acting according to your abilities. If you can't identify the advantages and disadvantages of potential, you will inevitably fall into the abyss of failure.
Doing what you can will reduce the pain of failure. Doing what you can will reduce the sigh of regret. Do what you can, and you won't send yourself into the dilemma of pulling back from the brink. At that time, Mao Zedong used the 16-character policy of "the enemy advances and I retreat, the enemy forces me to disturb, the enemy forces me to fight, and the enemy forces me to retreat", skillfully used the wisdom of water, assessed the situation, and did what he could, and repeatedly defeated the powerful enemy. On the battlefield to resist U.S. aggression and aid Korea, Peng commanded the volunteers and used this wisdom flexibly again, causing heavy losses to the powerful enemy.
A philosopher said: "It is just right to do what you can; Just do it and stop. " A person who can do what he can, live a full, relaxed, satisfied and happy life, will always be called a winner and a winner.
"Make a thousand turns to distinguish the depth and set foot on the way home according to one's ability". The way home of water is bumpy. It must distinguish where there are mountains and where there are deep valleys. According to its own energy, it must either go straight or turn around. The journey of life is like the flow of water. Only by recognizing the situation clearly and acting according to our abilities can we be the best, happiest and most successful ourselves.
When the water is full, it will overflow.
Water is an active "spirit". It overflows and flows by itself. From this characteristic of water, our sages found that everything develops like water. At the peak, it will automatically stop the upward trend and turn to the opposite side of its own development. The so-called extreme heat must be cold, and extreme cold must be hot. The eternal truth that when the water is full, it will overflow, and the extremes of things will be reversed, which inspires us to leave room for doing things, and not to block the way out and make ourselves absolute. Laozi said, "The wind never stops and the showers never stop." Everything that is violent is often at its peak, and the laws of nature will make it fall back immediately. Tyranny such as Hitler and fascism is not terrible, because their rage is the expression of their peak state, which is bound to be restricted by internal and external factors and go to the opposite of things. Anger is self-digging, and anger is self-destruction. It's only a matter of time, because the attacker has set the hour hand to noon 12, and of course, he will face the afternoon and evening soon.
It is the most common phenomenon in nature that the water overflows when it is full and the full moon is short. From these phenomena, the sages have gained a lot of enlightenment to be human. To this end, people of insight in Lu installed a "ritual vessel" in his temple to warn future generations that "emptiness is luxury, middle is righteousness, and fullness is redundancy". When Confucius felt this and lamented that "evil is full but does not fall", disciple Luz asked him if he could keep the "full" state. Confucius warned his students with questions: "Be wise and sage, and be ignorant;": Work is the world, keep it; Help the world bravely and keep it with fear; Rich all over the world, remain modest. This so-called way to lose is also. " In other words, only wise but not arrogant, brave but not timid, rich but not boastful, modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness, can we maintain it for a long time without declining.
Mozi observed that water overflowed when it was full, which led to the proposition that one should grasp the "degree". He said: "it is the idea that the gan well is nearly exhausted, the firewood is nearly cut, the turtle is nearly burned, and the snake is nearly violent ... so it is difficult to keep it." It is what we said today that people must grasp the "degree" when doing things, and everything should not be "too prosperous", otherwise, things will.
Sima Qian said: "The princes will lose their country if they are proud, and the doctors will lose their homes if they are proud." Prosperity is a corrosive agent, which will make people become supercilious, violent and bossy, do whatever they want, lead them to the opposite of peace and comfort, and create conditions for their fall. Therefore, Fang, a famous figure in the Tang Dynasty, warned people: "Greed is always thinking about wealth, and wealth is bound to be in crisis."
It is neither too much nor too much to grasp an appropriate scale in everything. This is also the golden mean advocated by Confucian scholars, which comes down in one continuous line with the great wisdom that water overflows when it is full, and the extremes of things must be reversed. Being a man and doing things, whether from the perspective of self-protection or from the perspective of long-term development, we must accurately grasp the word "moderate". The so-called flowers are the most beautiful, and wine is the most suitable. Otherwise, excessive pursuit of fame and wealth, excessive pursuit of power, excessive pursuit of debauchery, dogs and horses will be tired of it, trapped by it and unable to get away, and eventually ruined. And grasping a suitable scale, "power without fierceness, pleasure without lewdness, wealth without arrogance", we will certainly get long-term benefits and enjoy long-term blessings.
As the saying goes, "Leave a sum of money in everything and meet again in the future." Leave room for everything and avoid going to extremes. Especially when weighing the gains and losses, we must pay attention to moderation and try to stop at a good time. "Eat eight points full, benefit seven points", and be a man should follow the great wisdom left by our ancestors-the golden mean. Don't go to extremes, don't be violent, and you can reach the highest state of "carefree, inaction and intangible" like water.
When in Rome, do as the Romans do and follow the rules.
Water knows best how to do as the Romans do and how to get along with the circle. No matter how much water is in the mountain, it always echoes the rigid wind of the mountain. It does not compete with rocks, but follows the direction of rocks. No matter how wide the mountain is, it will take away my wide road. The mountains are blue and the water is blue; The mountains are green, and so is the water. When the cliff is steep, cling to the cliff and follow the trend; The peak follows the road and will never find another way. It will happily bend with the bend, straight with the straight, and round with the square. Once in the valley, it is always consistent with the depth of the valley, and the roar of drifting makes the valley deeper. The ability of water to "follow the customs" and "follow the party" is worth our study and consideration.
Only "round" matter in the world will have life and wisdom, and "round" is the law that matter adapts to all living environments. Founder can't hurt the "circle", edges and corners can't destroy the "circle", and water can make itself flexible and round, so that it can run on the square land. If the water is not round, it goes without saying that it rushes to the sea, even if it is insurmountable. If you don't know how to do as the Romans do and follow the rules, you will be unable to move.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius hated Yang Huo, an arrogant villain. But Yang Huo still respected Confucius and hoped that Confucius would come out and do things for him. No, when Confucius wanted Confucius to visit him, he didn't. According to the etiquette at that time, the doctor sent something to the doctor, and if the doctor didn't come to accept it in person, he would return the favor. Yang Huo took advantage of Confucius' absence to send a suckling pig to Confucius' home. But Confucius also went to thank humbly when Yang Huo was not at home. However, the two met on the road. Therefore, Yang Huo grasped the two topics of benevolence and wisdom that Confucius often said, and made Confucius agree to his request. Confucius finally promised him: "All right, I'll be an official."
Of course, Confucius was not an official under Yang Huo. Therefore, Confucius' answer was just a phrase that didn't offend Yang Huo. Confucius didn't offend Yang Huo, nor did he lose his principles, so he killed two birds with one stone. Obey the wishes of others first, and then try to refuse, which is easier to accept. This is the genius of doing as the Romans do. It can be seen that following is not unprincipled, just like water. No matter what you follow, water always keeps its mellow body. Do as Romans do in Rome. It is a very clever way of life, and it is also the best shortcut for you to quickly integrate into the new environment and make new friends. Otherwise, always keep your own personality, refuse to follow the crowd, refuse to follow the crowd, refuse to wronged yourself, and you will become a lonely person, a loser who does not follow the crowd.
Huang once wrote four words to his son: "Harmony is as strict as autumn frost. Take an image from the money, inside the outer circle. " I only hope that my son is like an ancient copper coin with a circle in it. Be tolerant and kind to people, be gentle like spring breeze, be strict with yourself, and be as serious as autumn frost. A leader also said, "Be careful and do whatever you want." Stress is to restrain oneself, and accommodation is to forgive others and follow the rules.
It is important to know Fiona Fang's way of life. If appropriate, it is square, and if appropriate, it is round. People from outside should have perseverance, tolerant mind, confused wisdom, crazy sobriety, smiling face and seemingly wrong correctness ... As long as they use the method of "Fiona Fang" in their life, they will be invincible. No matter whether you go forward or backward, you can face it calmly and not be influenced by the eyes and comments of the world.
Change the form without changing the quality, change the form without changing the essence.
Laozi has always admired the soft and deformable nature of water. Laozi found that water can adapt to any environment, what shape it becomes under what environment, and live in peace with the environment. In the ocean, it is the shape of the ocean, in rivers, in cups and plates, in bottles and jars. Not only that, water often turns into snow, steam, ice and frost, but it always comes down to water and never changes its nature. But no matter how ever-changing its form is, its own water-based nature will never change, what changes is the form of existence, and what remains unchanged is its essence. Laozi praised "a gentleman is like water to virtue". If you can be a gentleman, you will have the character like water. Although the way of being a man is ever-changing, you will never change your mind.
"Xunzi. The Scholars praised water as "a thousand things, and its Tao is also." Zhuangzi once praised water as "inseparable from Sect, and Sect is called heaven and man." Confucius looked at water all his life. He once watched the Yellow River, the Yangtze River and the East China Sea, and had many feelings about the surging river. When it comes to the change of water, he said: "The water rises to steam, becomes a cloud, falls to rain, floats to snow, condenses to dew, and finally loses its nature." In the final analysis, the sages all use the nature of water to transform without deterioration, deformation and invariance, and enlighten people that no matter how their lives change, people should be "physically and mentally brilliant without losing their authenticity."
Su Dongpo's life can be described as "complicated", and his position, official position and official position are constantly changing. His poems, essays, words, paintings and lines all reflect his persistent pursuit and flexibility in life. Although the word "change" runs through his life, his unique thinking and personality, whether in Korea or in opposition, have always maintained himself and never changed. Water's character of "changing without deterioration, changing without change" is the true embodiment of his being an official.
Zuo Si has a poem saying: "Although expensive, it is regarded as dust; The deaf don't laugh at themselves, as heavy as a thousand miles. " It also means emphasizing that people can't change themselves because of changes in appearance, but keep their true selves.
It's sad to lose yourself. Therefore, people can't live without "true self". Water still knows that transformation is only a stopgap measure, and transformation is only a way to protect itself. Whether it's a spring rain, a Xia Lu, an autumn frost or a winter snow, it won't change the true self, and it will eventually return to the water. For example, Su Dongpo, reaching such a level in life is the real "climbing high and drilling hard"!
Survival of the fittest, not survival of the strong.
Water is a "master" who is good at adapting to the environment to survive. There is no place on earth where water can't adapt. Everything in the world can't go against heaven, let nature take its course, and the fittest survive. This is the law of nature. Water correctly grasps the surrounding environment and conditions, whether it is cold or low-lying, whether it is plain or dangerous beach, whether it is clean or dirty, whether it is cold or hot, it can enjoy it, gain a foothold and last forever. Water can be large or small, static or moving, round or dripping or flying, soft or steel, scattered or gathered. It adapts and survives in more ways than anything else in the world. Its ability to adapt to survival is indeed a great wisdom.
Adaptation is the most important survival rule. On the surface, water does not have a particularly high strength. We just need to be able to adapt, adapt to let the water be arrogant, adapt to let the water get rid of self-righteousness, adapt to let the water keep pace with the times, find a stage to camp and display its talents. The instinct of water to adapt to the environment inspires us that only people who adapt to the environment like water, no matter how strong the technology, will often be the first to be eliminated. The law of competition is so cruel. Being a man must follow the law of survival of the fittest rather than the survival of the strong, otherwise it will only end in failure.
The weak may not die, and the strong may not live forever. Being a man, like everything in the world, should never be conceited and think that you are king. Adaptation is a crucial issue for everyone. Darwin's theory holds that in all life on earth, only the most adaptive part, not the powerful but unsuitable part, can get the right to live, otherwise it will be eliminated.
Yin Mingshan, a well-known entrepreneur, said in his book that when talking about his management experience, he talked about such a thing: several outstanding graduates from famous universities came to work in his company, but they all resigned soon because they didn't get enough attention, which made their great ambitions difficult to realize. There is no denying that they are all talented and ambitious young people, but Yin Mingshan approved their resignation without regret. In his view, these young people can't correctly understand themselves, don't put their position right, don't see that enterprise contracting is a modern organization with a high degree of division of labor and cooperation, but always emphasize themselves. It can be seen that it is inevitable that it is difficult to adapt to the environment of survival and development and make breakthrough progress and success in career.
In the jungle of human nature, those who think they are great talents and refuse to condescend to others and adapt to the environment are often those who lack real talent and practical learning. People with real talent and practical learning are often successful people who are willing to bow their heads for advice and are good at adapting to various environments. If you know who you are strong, who you are weak, who others are strong, who you are weak, cleverly avoid facing others' strengths with your own weaknesses, and actively face others' weaknesses with your own strengths, you will adapt to the environment at will and make your life more successful.
People who think they are powerful will go extinct like dinosaurs if they refuse to bow their heads and adapt to the environment of survival and development. And people who are good at adapting, even if they are weak, will become strong because they are good at adapting. French writer Hugo said, "Don't seek to be a strong man, just make yourself a person who adapts to life and society, and you will naturally become a strong man." Guan Zi, a philosopher in China, said: "Those who are suitable for water are strong, those who are suitable for the wind are wide, and those who are not suitable die." When a person can't adapt to the surrounding environment, then no matter how difficult it is, failure will always be around. On the contrary, it will be full of spring breeze, such as water.
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