A poem describing a person who gets it but doesn't cherish it.

In Self-protection, the poem describing that men don't cherish when they get it is: being embarrassed by women has nothing to do with literati! It can be said that scholars are worried.

The poem means that when mulberry leaves fall, their leaves turn yellow and fall off one by one. Since I married your family, I have endured years of poverty. The ice water waves rolled and the cloth curtain on the car was wet by the waves. There is nothing wrong with my woman, but the behavior of men is inconsistent. Men's love is uncertain, and feelings change again and again.