A woman’s best investment in this life is herself.
In the fast-paced modern society, it is said that people in the world are panicking and busy, just trying to break a few taels of silver.
Adults’ sadness and helplessness seem to start with money, so we work hard to make money.
We are all afraid that fate will make a joke, that accidents will suddenly fall from the sky, but when we are forced to face it, we feel helpless because our pockets are empty, so we learn to save money.
There is nothing wrong with women saving money. It allows us to face marriage and life with more confidence, and allows us to calmly deal with various problems and difficulties in life. However, when a woman only knows how to When saving money, it is often easy to "lose" yourself.
We save money so that we can live a better life, but we often feel wronged by saving money and leave too many regrets in our lives. There is no point in saving money blindly. of.
One of the most advanced ways for a woman to live a better life: Don’t just save money for yourself, but also be willing to spend money for yourself.
01-In life, don’t let yourself suffer because of saving money
We are always used to preparing for a rainy day, and we have been taught from childhood to be bitter first and then sweet.
But blindly saving money will not only make you suffer in the present, but you may not be able to enjoy the future happiness imagined in your mind.
As a lawyer, Ms. Li often works overtime and consumes her body endlessly.
She saved all the money she earned in order to buy a house in the second ring road of the city. However, her body was exhausted due to her unhealthy work and rest all year round. Unfortunately, she was diagnosed with gastric cancer last year, and all the money she saved was left to her. Got to the hospital.
With the money we earn, we should first use it to improve our current life, improve the quality and happiness index of our immediate life, and if there is any leftover, save it for the future, instead of using the saying that it will be bitter first and then sweet. Trick your current self into suffering.
In that case, the money will only be saved, but the people will fail. In the end, all will be lost.
02-In love, don’t feel wronged by saving money to pay
We work hard to make money so that we can live a better life.
But in love, you often feel wronged because you save money to pay for others. Later, the money you worked so hard to save may just be in vain to make wedding clothes for others.
In the Korean drama "Third-Class Road", the heroine Choi Ae-ra works hard every day in order to support her ex-boyfriend's postgraduate entrance examination. She is never willing to buy new clothes and bags for herself, spending every penny she earns. They all saved it for their ex-boyfriend to study, but in the end, she accidentally discovered that her boyfriend had cheated on her. It can be said that money, love, and yourself were all damaged.
In love, a woman cannot just give blindly. Appropriate giving is the preservative of perfect love. However, human desires are endless, and blind giving can only result in the other party getting worse.
03-Investing in yourself is an affirmation of your own value
The only thing a woman will never risk in her life is investing in herself.
Never treat yourself badly by saving money, be willing to invest in yourself, and strive to live a refined and elegant life. Only when you value yourself, others will not underestimate you.
Chinese-American actress Lucy Liu has lived a carefree life. She knows how to "spend money" for herself, understands the principle of investing in herself, and has taken careful care of herself for decades, precisely because of her years of exquisiteness. Life has enabled her to still maintain a strong and confident aura when she starred in "The Deadly Woman" at the age of 52, which is really admirable.
Women should be willing to give themselves the best things at their best age, and know how to spend money to invest in themselves, instead of missing their youth and losing themselves in blindly saving money.
04-Those who know how to enjoy life can embrace a better life
Parties are a waste of money, so you refuse; travel is expensive, so you stay at home during holidays; festivals and anniversaries Gifts cost a lot, so you simply say Happy Holidays to yourself.
When you refuse and shirk, you save money that you don’t know when it will be used, but you lose social connections, opportunities to see the world, and the uniqueness and sense of festivals and anniversaries. A sense of ritual.
You want to devote more time to work, earn more money, and save more money, but the cycle starts over and over again, when will it end?
People will always be bored and tired, and they should have fun when they should relax.
Chen He’s ex-wife Xu Qing did not become depressed after the divorce. Instead, she traveled around the world and had fun. She walked through Egypt, dived into the deep sea, and found love in the world and during the long journey. Your true self.
You must know that life is not only about work, but also about poetry and distance.
Women must know how to spend money to enjoy life, experience different scenery, and meet different people. Only by always maintaining a sense of ritual in life can they gain a happy and happy life.
Summary:
The purpose of our efforts to earn money is to allow ourselves to live a better life, not to increase the deposits in our bank cards.
Don’t numb yourself or wrong yourself with the bitterness first and then the sweetness. You must know how to enjoy life in time and enjoy the moment.
Don’t just give the money you earn to others, don’t work hard on yourself because of others, pay in moderation, and investing in yourself is the way to go.
Don’t hesitate in front of something you like at first glance because you think it is expensive. You are the most precious in this world, so you deserve it and you deserve it.
Always tell yourself: You are worthy of love and all the beauty in the world.