In fact, elders usually do this based on their own life experience, and it is not a bad heart to remind young people out of concern for the younger generation. Therefore, young people should first respect such elders. You know, it is also a kind of happiness to have someone nagging in your ear.
Of course, young people really don't want to get married so early, just make it clear to their elders.
One is to drag. You can reply directly to your elders and say that you are looking for someone and studying. In the event of marriage, we must be cautious, and both sides must first strengthen understanding.
The second is to complain. Now, after young people get married, there are three mountains: house, education and medical care. These three expenses will make any one buzz and win the understanding of the elders.
The third is to adopt the method of stating facts. Modern society is different from the times when our ancestors lived, and social security is very sound. A person can live all his life, and there is no problem of "raising children to prevent old age". In addition, in modern society, more and more people choose to marry late or stay single, which has long been a normal phenomenon in developed countries such as the United States and Japan, and is gradually becoming common in big cities in China.
The elder's urging marriage is well-intentioned, so we should deal with it rationally, and we must not hurry back.