There are very few such circulating ones
Help you find some ancient breakup letters
Material 1 web link
Material 2 From "Red Makeup---The Classic of Women", I saw the breakup poem written by Xie Ximeng, a scholar of the Southern Song Dynasty, to his lover. By modern standards, it is simply very cool:
The waves of the scull are flat, and the green mountains are sandwiched between the banks. Lock. You go home and I go home, telling you how to live. I won't think about it, don't think about me. I can give your past and my heart to others.
This gentleman previously built a building for a beautiful girl. It is said that he wanted to write in the building notes: The spirit of heaven and earth does not favor men, but favors women.
But somehow one day, while I was lying in the arms of the flower girl making love, I suddenly got the idea and turned around and left without saying a word. The flower girl chased him all the way to the river, crying as she chased. This gentleman wrote a poem explaining that he wanted to break up. Then he let him stand by the river crying, and he never looked back.
The author of "Red Makeup" speculates that this gentleman suddenly "enlightened" at that time and reached the "state of nothingness" (enlightenment in the arms of a woman? Dual cultivation? It's pretty guessing!). How miserable! On the one hand, I was enlightened, but on the other hand, I was misunderstood.
The "dirty Tang bastards", the Tang Dynasty is really fascinating. In the Tang Dynasty, the letter of divorce was no longer called the letter of divorce, but was called "Heli" or "Liang Yuanshu". Both men and women can write it, and men can write it. A woman can write a "letter to let go of her wife", and a woman can write a "letter of letting go of good deeds" to a man.
I have copied two exciting excerpts from the divorce documents for you to enjoy. It's a Dunhuang posthumous scroll, and I copied it from "Dunhuang Sexual Culture".
At that time, the distribution of property in divorce was divided between the two parties, which was very different from the past and the future when the man would occupy all the property. See one of the letters of release: the two parties must maintain stability and separate.
The following is part of another "Book of Wife Release":
"I hope my wife and mother-in-law will comb their temples again, wear beautiful skirts and eyebrows, and show off their graceful and graceful posture after separation. The master of selecting high-ranking officials..."
If it were me, I would definitely not be so generous. I would write:
"I hope that after my husband gets out of here, he will be slovenly. , dressed in rags, looking stupid, married as ugly as a pig..."