Since we first met this world, we have been learning to meet each other: tidy up our mood, dress appropriately, introduce ourselves without embarrassment, and look for the same topic sensitively ... After hundreds of times of practice, we have been good at saying "hello" and not saying goodbye to many people.
So, now, can we say goodbye?
0. Start with pi.
People often ask me which movie I like best. I always answer "pi".
A shipwreck left Pai 17 years old, her parents, brothers, childhood zoo and her beloved girl India. He and Richard Parker, an adult Bengal tiger, drifted in the South Pacific and arrived in Mexico after struggling, loneliness and despair.
Many years later, thinking of the end of that journey, there was a monologue:
1. Goodbye.
I occasionally wonder why this picture keeps appearing in my mind instead of other more bizarre and wonderful details and gorgeous 3D effects in the story. Probably because I have never owned a zoo, never been shipwrecked, never drifted with tigers, but I have experienced parting and farewell. Ordinary, just like you and me, just like meeting, parting is an inseparable part of life, that's all.
The burning in the pie eyes deeply stung you and me. Seeing the heart, how much sadness and nostalgia does that gaze on the past contain? Richard Parker's back when he walked into the Woods, unlike many people and things who left our posture, slowly pulled away and fell into the ocean of time without a trace, and there was no such person.
Yes, we have experienced too many farewells. Every time friends turn around, every train starts, the tsunami in lovers' hearts disappears in parents' farewell sight. There is calm, so calm that we don't even know the word "farewell"; There are rough ones, so rough that I still dare not touch them after time.
I will also think, what is a good farewell? What should farewell look like?
2. A wedding.
A few days ago, my friend v got married.
The wedding was held in a small town in the city next to my home. V and his fiancee W drove to pick me up, and we shuttled all the way through the streets, chatting about the past days. Talking about college, V burned his leg hair with a lighter and laughed until he was angry. It's a little emotional to think that he has known each other for almost 10 years. After talking about a topic, I will be silent for a while. Silence is sometimes a very comfortable thing.
It's a small town, surrounded by mountains and rivers, next to the train tracks, and you can drive around in 10 minutes. The night before the wedding, after dinner, V and I got into the car and were going out to try our luck and have some fun.
At 20:00, it's dusk for the metropolis, and it's already a quiet time for the small town. I put down the co-pilot's seat and lay on it. The car is walking on the streets of the city, and the street lamps are slowly gone. We are going to a small town next door.
"Do you know that feeling? Who do I think of sometimes? " V pretended not to say it.
"Like what?" I know about v. Although I know each other very well, some emotional things should not be mixed with each other. Men.
When I passed Xihua Road today, I remembered that when I graduated, V stayed in my city and rented a house nearby. I should have been with my ex-girlfriend at that time. Later, V somehow disappeared out of thin air, and all kinds of contact methods failed. It took about half a year. I guess he broke up.
"After all, it's almost 10 years of love." V was with his ex-girlfriend when he reported to the university, and put his girlfriend's photo on the desk on the first day.
I didn't say anything. Who doesn't have an unforgettable person in mind?
"Nothing, just seeing something occasionally reminds me, that's all." The car was driving between about two small towns, and the street lights were dim. Occasionally, a car passes by, and the high beam makes me blind.
There is a difference between remembering occasionally and forgetting. Later, we talked a lot about each other's experiences.
Finally arrived in the town, but V's father-in-law made a phone call. After drinking, V and her son-in-law opened their hearts. V and I smiled at each other, turned and drove back. They kept talking about the bus going home.
On the wedding day, under the leadership of the host, V and W changed their names and called each other's parents "Mom and Dad". At the banquet, V said to W with a microphone: "I will be good to you all my life."
There is a discussion about whether to attend the ex-husband's wedding in "Seven Parnassus", which is supported by one party, because the wedding is a farewell to the past. At the end of the program, Gao said, is the wedding a ceremony? A wedding is of course a ceremony, but it belongs to others. You have your own farewell ceremony, which is your own wedding. I'm impressed.
Bless you, my brother, and may you not be separated in this life.
3. Mamba is over.
Not a fan of Kobe Bryant, a few years ago, when he was in his prime, the fans around him were so happy and crazy. I was so busy every day throughout April this year. Even so, I arranged April 14 early and didn't arrange anything. That was the day Kobe retired.
Kobe's greatness goes without saying. What I want to see is how such a great athlete will bid farewell to the world.
The result is such an amazing battle: 60 points, saving the day, wife and daughter around, old friends, the most beautiful stage and the most touching story.
After the game, Kobe held a microphone, and there was a tsunami in the arena. What Kobe says most is gratitude, not love. Finally, Kobe said, "Mamba is out!" Kiss your finger, point to the sky, put down the receiver and float away.
Throughout history, there are too many great athletes and heroes. They can decide to live a heroic life. Unfortunately, not everyone has a heroic ending. For soldiers, wrapping their bodies with horses is the best destination.
However, at this moment, Kobe, a battle-hardened general, has won the final battle. Among the thousands of horses, holding their wives and daughters, they jumped on the white horse, and the purple and gold cloak tinkled to the rivers and lakes. I seem to see Xiang Yu holding Yu Ji's hand and riding a dark horse, leaping over the Wujiang River.
You can only sigh that he is still the black mamba who focuses on bloodthirsty unruly. Even if "mamba snake comes out" used to be "mamba snake comes out of the hole", it now means "mamba snake comes out".
I was nailed to the TV and was shocked. This is probably the most perfect farewell I have ever seen. No sadness, no pulling, no beating, no ambition; Gorgeous and perfect, even people can accept it calmly and happily. Even if we don't give up, we will be pleased with this happy ending.
Thank you, Kobe, for bringing us good memories.
4. Kangxi left.
On 20151kloc-0/6, Cai Kangyong Weibo announced that he would bid farewell to Kangxi. A program that has accompanied us for many years and brought us so much joy is over.
But what makes me feel interesting is that the last program was on June 2016,65438+10/4. This program, which has been with us for nearly 12 years, has been with us for another year, and it is our last gift.
What farewell will the production teams of Cai Kangyong, Xiao S and Kangxi, who are so expressive, give us? Sure enough, as you and I have seen.
1October 28th 10 "They didn't go to Kangxi for anything"
1 1.2 "Kangxi 12 Thank you for your dedication"
165438+ 10 month 16 "confessions of the people behind Kangxi"
165438+1October 26th Kangxi 12 Do you remember them?
165438+1October 30th "Meeting of the Host Xiao S"
On February 3, 65438, Kangxi shouted at us again.
On February 7th, 65438, I won't forget you. Lin Chi-ling is here.
February 9, 65438, anyway, I'm going to Kangxi again.
65438+February 10 "They all wrote a wonderful page for Kangxi"
65438+February 14 "Collection of Producers of Kangxi"
65438+February 17 "They walked with Kangxi 12"
65438+February 2 1 "Kangxi came to the most competent green leaf-Chen Handian"
65438+February 23rd "Memoirs of a Senior Artist Kangxi"
65438+ "King of the 12th year of Kangxi" February 24th
65438+February 30th "Boss Quit Meeting"
65438+February 3 1 Kangxi's embarrassing moment.
65438+10.4 "Kangxi Goodbye and Farewell Food Award"
65438+10.6 "The Absurdity of Star Couples in Kangxi"
65438+1October 1 1 "Jerry Lee Fan Bingbing finally waited for you at 12".
65438+1October 13, 14 "The Last Night of Kangxi's Coming"
Say goodbye to everyone, thank you, recall the happy past, and forget those embarrassments or even unhappiness. What shocked me most was that there was a program dedicated to recalling the dead artists who had been to Kangxi. Yes, aren't those people who once made us laugh memorable?
Finally, Cai Kangyong and Xiao S walked out of the studio hand in hand. If you have Kangxi in your life, your heart will be touched, but it will also be relieved. That's it. That's good, isn't it?
Thank you Kangxi, bless you, and bless you.
Let's say goodbye.
The ancients said that I met her a long time ago, but since we separated, the time has become longer. The difficulty of meeting each other lies in Qian Shan's vast waters, the barriers of different times, and the difficulty of leaving, which lies in reluctance but helplessness.
So many poems praise meeting, but no one tells us how to leave.
Say goodbye the first time we meet. If one day, we decide not to meet again, don't deliberately erase each other's memories, don't tangle and pull. Please still look forward to the sunrise tomorrow and enjoy the starry sky tonight.
Thank you for being in each other's lives. Goodbye.
Now that you know each other, cherish it. I'll tell you a story later:)