Please everyone outside, afraid of offending others, afraid that others will not give him a good face, and poor self-esteem will not allow him to lose face outside. But they know that no matter what he does, his family can't do anything about him, so he only dares to find a sense of existence in front of his family and only dares to lose his temper with his family.
2, because the tolerance and love of family members are taken for granted.
"If a person steps on a stranger's foot in the street, he will politely apologize and explain,' This place is too crowded.' If a brother steps on his brother's foot, he will say sorry, that's all. If parents step on his child's feet, he won't say anything at all. "
We always think that our relatives will understand and love us unconditionally. In front of outsiders, we always wear masks and pretend to be friendly, so we will feel tired. When we get home, we will take off our disguise and face the people we love. When conflict hurts, we don't explain it. Perhaps there are many people who feel that the friendliness of their loved ones is appropriate and does not need to respond.
3, because I feel that I have been with my family for a long time, I can make up for it slowly in the future.
Sometimes I feel very tired at home and don't want to strictly control my temper, so I start to let myself go, liberate my nature, and hurt my family with mean language or impolite behavior. Although I sometimes regret this behavior, I still feel that I have spent a long time with my family. I'll have a better temper or something and be nice to them in the future.