What should come will come naturally, and what should go will not stay. Don't go against your heart, don't deliberately, don't care too much, let go of your obsession, and follow the fate is the best life.
3. People's fate is sometimes said to be scattered. Fate is full and needs to end. Learn the wisdom of dandelion, the wind will fly and the wind will be quiet. Don't pester, don't be sentimental, don't say "do it", everything goes with fate.
Whether we are happy or not depends on how much we care, and whether we are sad or not depends on how much we care. Try your best to be calm, try your best to be calm.
When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.
6. Don't make yourself too tired. You should learn to be open-minded, let go, learn not to force, learn to hide, relax yourself in time, find vent, and decompress your tired mind. People are worried because they have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory. We often remember what should be forgotten and forget what should be remembered. People are tired because they think too much.
7. A smart person thinks positively about everything, and naturally leads a happy life by thinking happily about happy things; Stupid people always think the worst of everything, and the more they think, the more bitter they get, and eventually they become a troubled life.
8. If you love, life is lovely everywhere. If you hate it, life is hateful everywhere. If you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere. If you grow, everything can grow. It is not the world that has chosen you, but you have chosen the world. Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly and happy. Since there is nowhere to run, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.
9. It's fate to come and go. That's the way things are in the world. What should come will come naturally, and hopes and demands that should not come are useless.
10. Only when you are calm can you hear your own voice. Perhaps, what you are crazy about is not what you really want, but just accommodating others or society; Perhaps, you are worried, and you don't really want to love or should love, but you don't want to for a while. When you sit down and watch bloom's flowers fall and you are calm, you will see clearly. Blooming with a smile is a quiet joy; It is a comfortable feeling to watch the flowers fall quietly.
1 1. Good thoughts will make everything beautiful. Finding other people's faults first is my biggest fault. It is one of my great advantages to think of the advantages of others before thinking.
12. Life needs four kinds of cultivation: First, forbearance. Endure a moment's anger and eliminate a hundred days' disaster; Tolerance is not necessarily cowardice. The second is to see through. The biggest calm is not to see through the world of mortals, but to love life after seeing through life. Third, it is affordable. Be a man, be responsible, don't shirk, and face a bleak life. The fourth is to let go. Let go of paranoia, memory, unwillingness and desire, plain and simple.
13. Life lies in practice, and practice lies in understanding. What is deliberately sought is often not found, and everything in the world has its time and place.
14. Look at life calmly and be yourself quietly. Life is full of variables, and determination directly affects the direction of life. The so-called concentration is to control yourself. People with good concentration should be cautious in what they say and do, do not go with the flow, do not indulge their desires, and do something wrong. Therefore, I am often unaffected by emotions, look down on the gains and losses of fame and fortune, be myself quietly, and live my own life quietly. When you are calm, your life will be at your disposal.
15. It doesn't matter who hurt you in life, what matters is whether you can dissolve your anger as soon as possible. Forgive, forget, or remain silent. The heart is calm, why do you need outside help? Practice in the heart, not greedy or angry.
16. Life is changeable, everything is unpredictable, and troubles are always inevitable. You also know that these troubles will not be reduced by your nagging and complaining. Instead of worrying about trouble and polluting others' ears, we should change our attitude towards them and find our own happiness.
17. Well, don't be overjoyed. No, there's no need to be sad. Life is impermanent. It is true to live in the present, strive for the present, be merciful, be kind to yourself and others.
18. On the road of life, everyone is in a hurry, shuttling between pain and happiness, and those many deliberate pursuits are only fleeting in the end.
19. bad mentality, to put it bluntly, is too small. The word mentality, taken apart, means having a bigger heart. There is always an answer to everything. It is better to learn to accept it than to worry. Life is empty, the change between being and not being is life, and the mentality after the gain and loss determines the bitterness and joy. Fate does not refuse, territory does not stay, gains and losses are not underestimated, so that you can enjoy happiness.
20. Put your heart in a peaceful place, life is a piece of calm water; Relax, life is a free cloud.
2 1. With a peaceful mind, you will feel a quiet warmth. I hope that in the impermanent years, time flies and your heart will be quiet and carefree.