If you plan to climb the mountain, maybe someone will suggest that you'd better find three or five friends to climb with. On the one hand, it is safer, on the other hand, it is easier for everyone to climb to the top of the mountain together. It is undeniable that many people will feel safer when climbing mountains, but whether it is easier for groups to climb to the top may vary from person to person.
Last autumn, the company organized to climb the low Panshan Mountain. It is said that the main peak is only 864.4 meters above sea level. For me, the first time I climbed a mountain, I really felt that newborn calves were not afraid of tigers, and I had a good idea of climbing to the top of the mountain. Colleagues and a group of more than 20 people, at first, were all military operations, talking and laughing, and felt very comfortable. Slowly, the team began to divide into several wavelets, some rushed ahead, some walked and watched the scenery, some fell behind and tried to catch up, and I belonged to the last batch. As soon as I entered the mountain gate, I was so tired that I was panting, and I had to take a rest every step. It's okay to meet a flat road with a slope, but once you hit the damn steps, you can't help shivering. In short, it is worthless, and the rhetoric when I first arrived at the scenic spot is completely ineffective in the face of reality.
What shall we do? Seeing my other half waiting for me while walking makes me anxious. The more I'm afraid of dragging everyone down, the more my legs and feet don't work. Although my friends never gave up on me along the way and encouraged me to refuel, my mountaineering trip was not as beautiful as I thought.
Climbing and climbing, we came to the most difficult stop of this mountaineering. The steps leading to the worse gate are steep and long, and you can't see the top when you look up. The steps are lined with neat poplars, and the scenery is monotonous. At first, the finale team waited for other teammates while walking, but gradually it became a single action, because once it stopped, it seemed that there was no courage to continue climbing. As a weak member of the team, how can I climb up without the help of my friends? Something amazing happened. Facing the thousand steps ahead, I have the determination and desire to overcome it. I grabbed the handrail of the steps, meditated left and right, moved my feet forward rhythmically, and looked at the ground. So I persisted for more than ten minutes, and I broke through this level without stopping. I thought I was the last one, but I didn't expect many companions to stop and follow.
When I was sitting in the pavilion of the worse gate, waiting for them, my heart was full of joy and I had my first feeling about mountaineering. Although a group of people climbing mountains together can bring laughter, the difficulties in climbing mountains are still a matter for one person. You said such a steep and long step is a very sad hurdle for others. Who can drag you forward? If you are used to being helped and encouraged in the process of climbing a mountain, you may unconsciously think that you are incompetent and it is not easy to climb it. In fact, when you really start to go up alone, you will suddenly find how strong, tenacious, persistent and excellent you are.
It suddenly occurred to me that an English teacher told us in high school: it is better to rely on your parents than on yourself. Sometimes it's not that your parents don't help you, but that they can't help you. ? Yes, climbing a mountain is a personal matter after all, and so is facing the problems of life. It may be hard for you to find that you can handle many things without facing them alone. Similarly, in many things in life, the support and help of others are just flowers dotted on the road, and only oneself is the decisive factor in determining whether you can reach the top.
Author: Hao Min
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