Poetry about women's gifts 1. Gifts from ancient women
Gift is an ancient gift.
This is a rite of passage for Han women. Commonly known as "superior" and "superior ceremony".
This is a hairpin. Since the Zhou dynasty, it has been stipulated that noble women should pay tribute before marriage after engagement.
Usually held at the age of fifteen. If you have been waiting to marry an unmarried person, you can also give gifts at the age of twenty. To receive a gift is to change the hairstyle when I was a child, put my hair in a bun, then wrap the bun with a black cloth, and then insert the bun with a hairpin.
The hostess is the matriarch, and the invited female guests are gifts from girls, which means that women can get married when they grow up. Noble women usually receive adult education in the palace or imperial clan, and are endowed with "women's virtue, women's appearance, women's merits and women's words", which is a skill that a daughter-in-law must have to treat people, serve uncles and work with women.
Later, the teenage mother applied for precepts to teach them by ethics, which was called "teaching tea". When a woman is fifteen, she is called "peace".
"The Wedding of Rites and Scholars": "When a woman promises to marry, she must take the ceremony as her word." The Book of Rites "Women.
Five years out of ten years. "
First, the age and ancient custom of "Zhou Li" saluting are about fifteen, and the latest is twenty. Second, the date of the salute is March 3 of the lunar calendar-Daughter's Day (Shangsi Festival).
Third, pay attention to the problem 1) Guests, ministers, Zan and other attendees are all women. The place to salute is suitable for the classroom.
2) Gifts: Like the crown ceremony of men, the gifts of ancient women also include three or two gifts. The crown was put on a plate, covered with a handkerchief and held by a department.
Men's three plus are towels, hats and hoes, while women are also crowned countless times. Fourth, the concise operation of the preparation activities for the gift ceremony 1 day: that is, the date is determined.
2. Invite guests to refuse guests: that is, determine the participants and invite them by invitation or various communication methods. For distinguished guests, their parents will invite them to their homes three days in advance (one day at the latest).
Attendees: attendees; Master-usually the singer's parents; Zheng Bin-a capable and upright female elder: the company has 1 person-a person who acts as a tray for the people; 1 person-assisting guests to salute, usually friends and sisters of the guests; There are many audiences. 3 furnishings: venues, costumes, ritual vessels, music, etc.
Venue: In ancient times, the ceremony was held in the "Family Temple", and facilities needed to be built in the east of the main hall, which was called the "East Room". Clothing 1) Pick clothes: Pick clothes is the clothes that boys wear before saluting.
According to the data of the crown ceremony, the style is short jacket and shorts, clothes (black) cloth and scarlet brocade edge. 2) The first addition: hair ruffles and ropa, plain skirt, like Hanfu.
There is no decoration on the skirt, and the belt is ordinary fine cloth. 3) Supplement: hair clips, curly clothes.
4) Top three: hairpin crown. Long-sleeved formal suit, with coat and skirt.
Ornaments such as ribbons. Clothes placement: stacked in order, with the collar facing east, placed on the mat in turn from north to south, and placed on the east side of the venue; The hair accessories to be added are held by the company on the plate, standing in the west of the venue, facing south, and arranged in turn from east to west: hairpin, hairpin, hairpin.
Description: The clothes added three times have different meanings, symbolizing the girl's growth process-the color of the clothes is pure and beautiful, symbolizing the girl's innocence; The light and elegant skirt symbolizes the innocence of cardamom girls; Dignified and deep clothes (especially curvy clothes) are recognized as the clothes that can best reflect the beauty of women in China and symbolize the light of girls in the flower season; Finally, the grand big sleeve dress embodies the aesthetic orientation of Han women-elegance and elegance. Ceremony ① 1 glass of wine ② 1 serving of rice ③ Several smaller ④ three floor mats: 1 block was placed on the east side of the venue for three sets of clothes.
The other two are placed side by side on the west side of the center of the venue, with cushions (for kneeling). ⑤ Wash 1 incense burner, incense ⑤ Wall chart 1 seat for audience.
Music ceremony, the order of heaven and earth; Musicians are the sum of heaven and earth. China's ritual and music civilization is a whole, and ritual and music are inseparable.
Etiquette 1) welcome: the host stands on the east steps waiting for the guests; There is a tray under the western steps; The guests stood outside the venue waiting; After taking a shower, change clothes and shoes, sit in the east room (locker room) and wait; The music began to play. 2) in place: there is a strict order.
When the distinguished guests arrive, their parents greet them, and after formal mutual respect, they enter the venue and the distinguished guests are seated. Guests sit in the viewing position; After all the guests are seated, the host will sit in the host's seat. 3) Opening Ceremony: The host (father) got up and made a simple speech.
4) in place: praise first, wash your hands, and the west stage is in place; The guests walked to the meeting place, facing south, and saluted the guests. Then sit facing west (that is, kneel down) on the chair.
The complier combed their hair and put the comb on the south side of the mat. 5) Guest washing: that is, guests are ready to wash their hands.
Zheng Binxian got up, and then the host got up to accompany him. Zheng Bin washed his hands and dried them under the Dongtai steps.
After giving in to each other, the guest of honor and the host took their seats. 6) First addition: those who face east sit; A secretary presented Ropa and her hair, and the guests came to the stage. Recite the congratulatory message loudly and say, "If you make the moon auspicious, you can get Canadian dollars.
Abandoning young ambitions becomes a virtue. Life is just a test and a blessing. "
Then sit down on your knees (knees on the mat), comb your hair and add clothes, and then get up and return to your original position. The person who praises is symbolically correct.
The man stood up and the guests bowed to congratulate him. When he returned to the East Room, Zan took clothes from the company and went to the room to change into a plain dress that matched the portrait on his head.
7) Worship: After leaving the room, the wearer will show it to the guests. Then face the parents and formally pay homage.
This is the first time to worship. This time, it is to express gratitude to parents.
8) two plus: people sitting facing the east; It is the guest who washes his hands and then resets; A secretary presented a hairpin, and the guest took it and walked to the singer. He read a congratulatory message loudly and said, "Yue Ji gave the order and Er Shen served. To your majesty, schushenld.
Eyebrows will live forever, and they will be blessed by Khufu forever. "Praise for disorderly send disorderly.
Zheng Bin knelt down, put a hairpin on the singer, and then got up and reset. Praisers help those who symbolically make hair.
The guests bowed to the mourners. The singer went back to the east room, and the commender helped him with clothes, and went to the room to change into colorful deep clothes that matched the hairpins on his head.
9) Second Worship: Guests come out wearing deep clothes to show them. Then face the guest of honor and pay a formal tribute.
This is the second time to worship. This time it is to show respect for teachers and seniors.
10) Sanjia: sitting facing the east; Wash the guests again.
2. Adoption ceremony
1, youth must be early, how can you grow into a teenager. -Meng Jiao's Persuasion in the Tang Dynasty
If you hit a stone, there will be fire, but if you don't hit Yuan, there will be no smoke. It is unnatural to learn without learning. Everything has to be his own luck. He has to be my sage. Youth must be early, how can we grow into teenagers?
Translation:
Only when you hit a stone will there be sparks; If you don't fight, not even a little smoke will come out. So do people. Only by studying can we master knowledge. Without learning, knowledge will not fall from the sky. Everything depends on your own practice, and the knowledge gained by others can't replace your own talent. You should work hard as soon as possible while you are young. Can a person be a teenager forever?
2. It is difficult for a teenager to learn to be old, and an inch of time is not light. -Zhu's Accidental Success in the Song Dynasty
It is difficult for young people to learn and grow old, and an inch of time is not light. Before the sweet spring grass grows in the pond, the plane leaves in front of the steps have rustled in the autumn wind.
Translation:
The days of youth are easy to pass away, but learning is difficult to succeed, so cherish every inch of time and don't let it go easily. Before I woke up from the bright spring, the leaves of plane trees rustled in the autumn wind in front of the steps.
When you are young, the yellow bird will not rest. -Li Bai's "Jiangnan Chunhuai" in the Tang Dynasty
How long can youth last? Birds sing in spring. People in the world, I don't know where to go home, wandering, white-haired. The shadow lingers in Chu month, but the heart flies to Qin Yun. This body is particularly brilliant, and the countryside has long been deserted. It's the end of the year. Where should we go? Sing Long song se bekin's song.
Translation:
How long can youth last? In spring, yellow birds are singing. People are in the end of the world, I don't know where the hometown road is, wandering in the rivers and lakes, white-haired. Under the moon of Chu Guan, the figure is dull, but the heart flies to the cloud of Qin plug. The world is particularly brilliant, and the countryside has long been deserted. It's the end of the year again. Where should we go? Singing Long song.
Extended data:
Ancient coronation gift:
The ancient rite of passage aims at prohibiting underage heterosexual marriage. Crown ceremony is an advanced and representative form of adult ceremony, and it can also be said to be a moral test of adult marriage qualification.
The coronation ceremony is a coronation ceremony for a man to enter the adult ranks. The Book of Rites says: "A husband's ceremony begins with a crown", and "When a man is twenty, the crown means what he says".
For the crown ceremony, the explanation in the Book of Rites is: "The reason why mortals are human is a ceremony. The beginning of propriety and righteousness lies in being upright, being harmonious in color, and being harmonious in words ... Therefore, it is the way to be an adult to wear clothes, keep clothes straight with you, and be harmonious in color and words. " From this point of view, people who don't know manners are not people, can't be crowned with ceremony, and can't be "adults" all their lives.
Baidu encyclopedia-Han adult ceremony
3. Adoption ceremony
1. "Ode to Twelve Scholars" Tang Dynasty: Ouyang Zhan was underage and heroic.
After the Wangs were thousands of miles away, Xun Balong went first. Green onions are tender, and the Qingming month is getting round.
If you give a celebrity a laurel, it's easy to reward him. 2. Tang Dynasty: Lu Guimeng's Far Window was also an adult, accompanied by Yang Gong's White Banquet.
Warm fireworks once fell to the ground, but the floating stars died. Idle invasion of the army base, drunk lead Song to fishing boat.
Infinite waves of grace are still in sight, and the east wind ripples. 3. "Adult Song" Pre-Qin: The nameless silkworm has achievements, and the crab has a lot.
Fan is the crown, cicada is the sui. My brother died and my son Gao failed.
4. "Luozi" Tang Dynasty: Bai Juyi had a female named Luozi, born in the second spring. I have grown up this year, and every day is new.
Gu Nianjiao cried and remembered her old illness. You can't see an adult until your head is as snow.
5. "Sixty-six" Tang Dynasty: Bai Juyi's intimate strength is reduced, and time flies. Come back at fifty-eight or sixty-six this year.
The temple is white and the grass is green. Childhood is an adult and the garden is half a tree.
Look at the mountain and lean on the high stone, draw water and penetrate the deep bamboo. Although there is noise, I haven't heard enough.
Kneel down and beg
Walking in the snow to see plum blossoms [1]?
Holding your hand, no matter how far I go, I am willing to accompany you.
Snowflakes are falling, glittering and translucent,
If the starlight of the milky way galaxy.
Step by step, we walked slowly together,
Small white is an ornament to bless your birth.
The blooming flower of friendship.
Harmonious pace, arranged in two similar and complementary teams,
Without cold, it seems that the next step is full of spring.
The rising sun sends warm wind to blow.
In this case, I asked what is more precious in the world.
May you be happy and full of happiness,
Let's walk through the snow, Xun Mei.