Longing is a very mysterious thing, and longing can also be a disease. As the so-called lovesickness disease, how to solve the pain of lovesickness has been a problem since ancient times. I feel like I'm going crazy when I miss someone, but I can't see them, so what should I do?
The clothes are getting wider and wider, but I don’t regret it at all. I feel haggard because of Yi. Ancient people generally used poems to relieve the pain of lovesickness and express their feelings of lovesickness. Maybe you use wine to drown your sorrows, but if you drink to drown your sorrows, you will become even more depressed, and miss you even more until you become ill. Some people will write letters to express their pain of missing each other and communicate with each other through letters.
One day is like three autumns after not seeing each other. I think everyone has had someone they miss the most, whether it is a relative, lover, or friend. In today's society with developed Internet, we are much happier than the ancients. If you miss someone alone and feel crazy and cannot see her, you can call her (him), chat with her or him, chat on WeChat, make a video call, or any other way to contact her or him. If the two are too far apart, they will definitely not be able to see each other, but they can use these social software to relieve the pain of missing each other. At least they can chat and video, so that they will not miss each other silently. Tell her (him) about your lovesickness and let her (him) know that maybe she will feel better.
For those who are far away and really can't bear it, if conditions permit, you can fly to see her (him). Once you meet her, everything will be fine. When we met, we said everything we needed to say and did everything we needed to do. This is a way to relieve the pain of longing, and meeting is the best antidote.
If I really miss her so much that I can’t see her and have no way to see her, I think I can go to a bar and get drunk. Borrowing wine to relieve sorrow will make you more depressed, but if you don't drink, you will be even more depressed. When you are drunk, you won't think about it anymore. Alcohol paralyzes the brain. If you focus only on drinking, you won't think about anything else. But always drinking is not a long-term solution. After all, drinking is very harmful to the body. Drinking too much alcohol can also harm the body. The best way is to find the root cause of the problem and solve it.
You can also travel alone, try your best to enrich your life, and go to the outside world. If your heart is no longer empty, you will no longer think about that unreachable person.
Life is short, take pleasure in the moment