First, directly refuse relatives' dogskin plasters for help.
Personally, I think some relatives are very troublesome for me. When you are down and out, they will insinuate that you are standing by and adding insult to injury. However, when you are in power, they will start to curry favor with you again. I think it is better for such relatives to have nothing to say. If you are facing such relatives, I think direct rejection is the biggest face left to them.
Second, throw the question back by playing Tai Chi.
He is my good relative. Once I had to pay tuition, but my family was in financial difficulties and I couldn't afford so much money at the moment. Relatives just made a small fortune, and then my father asked them for help. They just said why they lent you the money. Later, when they were in financial difficulties, we said that it was not easy for us to earn this money. Do you think we should lend it to you? My relatives have just returned.
Third, politely refuse.
Some relatives are really hard to like. They seem to take other people's things as their own opinions, and it is natural to stay in other people's homes, even more comfortable than at home. If you are not a person who likes and rejects others very much, then at this time you can politely tell him that something is missing at home and can't meet their needs. At this time, it is difficult for them to ask us to do anything for them.
In a word, I think we should quickly, accurately and ruthlessly reject relatives like dog skin plasters, otherwise we may only bring ourselves a lot of disasters for no reason, and this will really make us suffer more losses. Of course, my suggestions above vary from person to person.