A broad-minded person is calm and calm. Many times, our inner irritability comes from the heart. A generous person will not be angry because of these trivial things, and his heart will become more peaceful. Let's enjoy the classic beauty about the calmness of broad-minded people.
Take it calmly with a broad mind. Classic American prose 1 0 1
Hugo has a well-known saying:
The widest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the human mind wider than the sky.
The greatest achievement in life is tolerance.
It is neither cowardly nor forbearing. It will not envy people's talents, my abilities, satirize people's shortcomings and accuse people's mistakes, but it will examine people's difficulties, make up people's shortcomings, develop people's strengths and forgive people's mistakes.
There is a proverb in the west: don't cry for spilled milk.
Once what you have paid with your heart can't be recovered, you don't have to bother to recover it, let alone complain and regret.
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The old monk raised a pot of orchids, which turned out to be beautiful. One day, the old monk wanted to go out to meet his friends, so he entrusted this potted flower to the young monk and told him to take good care of it.
One day, the young monk watered the orchid, put it on the windowsill and went out to do business. I don't want it to rain heavily. The strong wind knocked over the orchid and blew it off. When the young monk came back, he only saw broken branches and leaves all over the ground, and he was very sad.
When the old monk came back, the young monk was ready to be punished, but the old monk smiled and didn't say a word of abuse. The young monk was surprised: after all, it was the old monk's favorite orchid!
The young monk asked, "Master, aren't you angry?" Why don't you scold me? "
The old monk smiled faintly and said, "I don't raise orchids to be angry."
A simple sentence shows a broad-minded attitude towards life.
We don't plant flowers to get angry. Similarly, we study not to be angry, work not to be angry, love to be angry, and live not to be angry. . . . . .
If you hate it, life is disgusting everywhere. If you are grateful, you can be grateful anywhere in the world. If you grow, everything can grow.
It is not the world that has chosen you, but you have chosen the world; It is not what kind of life fate has given you, but what kind of life you have chosen for yourself.
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There are two tricks in herringbone: one is persistence and the other is letting go.
A broad-minded person, no matter what kind of storms he encounters, can get all kinds of opportunities, and keep a heart that is not demanding and delusional to work hard and forge ahead. Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel safe inside.
If the heart cares, there is resentment everywhere; If you relax, it is always spring.
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Nine times out of ten, there are unpleasant things in the world. What can obey you is very few things that can make you get what you want.
On the 50th anniversary of the golden wedding, an old mother told the guests the secret of keeping a happy marriage.
She said:
"From the day I got married, I was ready to list my husband's 10 shortcomings. For the happiness of our marriage, I promised myself that whenever he made these 65,438+00 mistakes, I would forgive him. "
Someone asked, what are the disadvantages of 10?
She replied: "To tell the truth, for 50 years, I have never listed the shortcomings of this 10 in detail. Whenever my husband does something wrong and makes me jump, I immediately remind myself that he is lucky. He made one of 10 mistakes that I can forgive. "
Hong Yingming once said in "Caigen Tan":
Fish forget water, birds fly with the wind and don't know the wind.
Fish can swim freely in the water and forget the existence of water. Birds can fly by the wind and don't know the existence of the wind.
If we realize this, we can live a relaxed and happy life without being dragged down by the environment and let nature take its course.
The heart is one inch wide and the road is ten feet wide. If it is not as broad-minded as the sea, how can life be calm?
May you have good luck, if not, may you learn compassion in misfortune; May you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn to be tolerant in loneliness.
Don't be confused, don't fall in love. Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past. Okay, then.
Forgiveness is calm. Forgiveness is a philosophy of life and a realm of life. Only those who know how to be broad-minded can get sincerity; Only those who know how to be broad-minded will have a smooth road to life.
Being kind to others is inseparable from unhappiness; A happy life begins with a broad mind.
Forgiveness reflects a person's tolerance. Forgive yourself with forgiveness and forgive others with forgiveness. Sometimes, when you encounter misunderstanding, it is futile to defend it again. It is better to laugh it off and let time tell the answer. Talking too much and ignoring people who are not lovers is a kind of wisdom.
Things, see through the frustration; People, see through sadness. Some words don't need to be explained, so let it go and keep a secret; Some people confuse themselves without disturbing them. Everyone has his own opinion and understanding, and everyone has his own opinion and judgment. There is no need to be dissatisfied.
It is better to read others' books than to study them, at least leave a good one; It is better to miss people than not to miss them, or at least to be happy. No one is perfect, no one is perfect, there is no need to be harsh on everything, and everything is clear.
Relax yourself, your eyes are wide enough to accommodate the world, and your heart is wide enough to accommodate the world.
Wide heart, wide road. Nine times out of ten, there are unpleasant things in the world. What can obey you is very few things that can make you get what you want. There is no need to care too much about life, and there is no need to care too much about the pros and cons. The more you care, the longer you linger between gains and losses.
There are too many things in the world, and they are all relieved. They want to open up, look down, and feel relieved.
Broad-minded is a friend of life, a kind of courage when you are lost, and a kind of room for life. Don't be hard on yourself, don't be hard on yourself, keep a dull heart, be more humble and be tolerant of yourself, so that it can tolerate harm and pain.
If you are broad-minded, your troubles will naturally be less, your life will naturally be smooth, and your life will be harmonious and comfortable.
People will be happier if they live and look at life with a broad mind.
The reason why an angel can fly is because she despises the world. Life is not bitter, happiness is not happy, a bitter thought, a happy thought, bitter value, despise happiness.
Happy people, on the other hand, cultivate an indifferent attitude, follow the fate of everything, don't embarrass themselves, don't force others, and don't be enemies with the world. Don't argue for natural peace, have no desire or desire, of course, be at leisure and enjoy happiness with a broad mind.