When a girl stands at a high enough position, she will find that this scenery is unique and the people and things she encounters are different from before.
So, when a girl becomes better and better, it will be easier for her to meet high-quality boys.
People flock together and things divide into groups. I believe everyone should have heard this sentence. What class you are in is the class of people you come into contact with. When a person is stuck in the quagmire, all he sees is endless mud, but when you stand on the top of a mountain, all you see is beautiful scenery. Your knowledge determines your outlook on mate selection, and also indirectly determines the people you meet.
There are still certain prejudices against women in this society. For example, some people say that it will be difficult for girls to get married if they read too many books. But I think this sentence is wrong, because girls read more books, their knowledge is broader, and their requirements for spouses will also increase. When the original people saw that these highly educated girls looked down on them, they felt that they were too picky to marry. But how could she condescend to get married when she was already standing at such a high place?
When you become good enough, you yourself will shine. She is full of poetry and calligraphy, just like Dong Qing. Every time I see her, I suddenly see an independent and confident female light. I would like to ask, will the probability of such a woman meeting a good man be small? Men who are equally good will naturally be attracted to good girls. The story of Cinderella and the prince is not like this. Don't forget that Cinderella was also the daughter of a wealthy family and a very good girl. She was just temporarily depressed, but she did not seek to make progress.
But as a girl, we work hard to move up, read more books, and acquire more knowledge, not just to meet better boys. Improving yourself is to make your life more fulfilling, not to marry better, but to control your life in your own hands. If you bloom, butterflies will come and become excellent, which is a compliment to yourself.