How to persuade "husband and wife quarrel" with ancient poems?

Persuasion of ancient poetry;

Peony contains real pearls. The beauty turned to the court and asked Tan Lang with a smile. Are flowers strong and concubines strong? Therefore, Tan Lang was annoyed and had to dress up. At the same time, I smashed flowers and hit people angrily.

A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall. Why not let him go three feet? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang.

Story understanding:

The first song:

The banter between lovers. When the peony was in bloom, a woman passed by and broke a branch with a smile, asking a man whether it was beautiful or beautiful. Then the man deliberately said, of course, the flowers are good. The last two sentences are inversely proportional. Perhaps the story of Jieyuhua began here at the earliest.

The second song:

One day during the reign of Emperor Kangxi, Zhang Ying, a university student of Wenhua Temple and a minister of rites, received a letter from home saying that her family and neighbors had a dispute over the land for building a house. In the letter, she vaguely asked Zhang Ying to use her official position to suppress her neighbors.

Zhang Ying pondered and wrote: "A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall. Why not let him be three feet?" . The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang.

After receiving Zhang Ying's letter, the family immediately took the initiative to retreat the courtyard wall to be built by three feet, and the neighbors also took the initiative to retreat three feet after learning about this situation, forming the "Six-foot Lane" in Tongcheng, Anhui Province. This is a well-known story.

Because matter can last forever, it will easily abandon those short lives in the long river of time.