Why can't many adults accept the mediocrity of children?

First of all, we need to know parents' expectations for their children's growth. Many parents hope that their children can become excellent talents and achieve excellent results. These expectations may come from parents' own values, cultural traditions or social pressure.

Secondly, with the increasingly fierce social competition, many parents believe that only by getting good grades and higher professional status can they have a better life. Therefore, in the face of mediocre performance in children's development, they may feel lost and anxious and worry that their future will be affected.

In addition, some parents may regard their children's achievements as their own honor. Under this expectation, their mediocre performance will be regarded as their parents' dereliction of duty or their own failure, which will make them feel humiliated or unacceptable.

In short, parents can't accept their children's mediocrity, which may be caused by high expectations for their children's future development, high social competition pressure, or being linked to self-worth. Parents need to treat their children's performance rationally, attach importance to and treat their children's innate advantages and values well.