If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind. It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change. Lishan language stops midnight, and the rain bell doesn't complain. More importantly, if you are lucky, you will be more willing than before.
The author of this poem is Nalan Rong Ruo, a poet in Qing Dynasty, that is, Nalan Xingde. Although this word looks like a poem, in terms of style, it is divided into two parts, which is still appropriate.
Appreciate:
The sentence "Life is like seeing for the first time" can be said to be a famous sentence throughout the ages, which makes people miss the joy and happiness of seeing for the first time. The reality in front of me is that my sweetheart has changed her mind, and I can no longer see the tenderness at that time. Recalling the past, comparing the present, so the sadness in my heart is stronger, and it is even more impossible to send it away.
"It's easy to change, it's easy to change." Maybe that's how couples break up. Obviously, you don't like each other, but you have to blame each other's faults to prove that you are not ungrateful and that the other party is sorry for yourself. People are always too easy to excuse themselves, but they always immerse the other half in the pain that they can't get rid of.
On the seventh day of July, Yang Guifei was quoted in the poem, saying that she and Yang Guifei had promised "May two birds fly in the sky with the same wings, be born in the ground together, and be born in two branches of a tree together". However, husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly away separately. In the end, Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty offered sacrifices to Yang Guifei at Maweipo.
The use of this allusion further sets off the inner sadness of women after breaking up. Therefore, Nalan Ci Rong Ruo has also become an eternal masterpiece, making people very famous.
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On the Separation and Integration of Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru
Zhuo Wenjun, formerly known as Hou Wen, was born in Lin Qiong (now Qionglai City, Chengdu City, Sichuan Province), a talented woman in the Han Dynasty. One of the four talented women in ancient China and one of the four talented women in Sichuan. Zhuo Wenjun is the daughter of Zhuo Wangsun, a giant iron smelting merchant in Shu County. She is beautiful, proficient in melody, good at playing the piano, and has a literary name. Married at the age of sixteen, her husband died a few years later and returned to her family.
1, two people met and eloped.
Legend has it that Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun, one is a gifted scholar who is regarded as a distinguished guest by the county magistrate of Lin Qiong, and the other is a widowed beauty. Their story begins with visiting Zhuo's house and playing the famous "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix" in Zhuo's lobby:
Feng Feng returned to her hometown and traveled around the world to find her death. There are beautiful women in the boudoir, and the people in the room are poisoning my intestines. Why do you want to be a mandarin duck? "
Phoenix bird, Phoenix bird, returned to my hometown and wandered around the world, looking for a bird in my heart. There was a beautiful and demure woman in the room who lived near but far away and abused my heart. How can I be a affectionate mandarin duck and let my phoenix and your phoenix swim together! "
This kind of words, which are equally straightforward, bold and warm today, naturally made Zhuo Wenjun, who was listening behind the scenes, feel sincerely excited. After meeting Sima Xiangru, they fell in love at first sight and agreed to elope.
That night, Zhuo Wenjun packed up and walked out of the house, and met Sima Xiangru who had been waiting outside the door for a long time, thus completing the most brilliant event in their lives.
Zhuo Wenjun is a strange girl. And Sima Xiangru returned to Chengdu, facing the family's predicament (which is a great test for love), he generously returned to his hometown in Lin Qiong to open a hotel and sell wine himself, and finally let his proud father admit their love.
2, Sima Xiangru empathy don't love.
Later, Zi Xufu was appreciated by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, and was called Lang (the emperor's attendant) with Shanglin Fu. Soon, I will take the Maoling woman as my concubine and give Zhuo Wenjun a cold shoulder. So Zhuo Wenjun wrote a poem "The Ballad of the White Head" to Xiang Ru.
Love should be as pure as snow in the mountains and as bright as clouds on the moon.
I heard that you have two hearts, so I came to break up with you.
Today is like the last party, and tomorrow we will break up.
I moved my feet slowly along the edge of the road, and my past life flowed like water in a ditch, never returning.
When I decided to take the king away from home, I didn't cry like an ordinary girl.
I am full of thinking that if I marry a person with a heart, I can love each other and be happy forever. (one heart and one work: one heart; Whitehead: Whitehead)
The love of men and women is as light and soft as a fishing rod, and the fish is as lovely as a living wave.
Men should attach importance to friendship, and there is no money to compensate for the loss of sincere love.
Love should be as pure as snow on the mountain and as bright as the moon in the clouds. I heard that you have second thoughts, so I came to break up with you.
Today is like the last party, and we will break up tomorrow. I walked slowly along the ditch, and my past life was like a ditch flowing eastward, which never came back. At the beginning, I resolutely left home and ran away with you, unlike ordinary girls who cry sadly.
I thought that if I married a loyal man, I could fall in love and be happy forever. Love between men and women is like a fishing rod. The fish is so cute. Men should put affection first, and lose their sincere love, which money and wealth can't make up for. "
I have forgotten the days when I was in trouble with * * *. I remember a wife who missed her husband thousands of miles away day and night. Finally, one day, Sima Xiangru sent his wife a letter with the word 13:
One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, one hundred million.
Clever Zhuo Wenjun burst into tears after reading it. There is only one "billion" difference in a row of numbers, and there is no memory. Isn't my husband implying that he has no memory of the past?
3. Farewell poems
She, cold as water, returned to the poem of complaining about Lang Lang with great sadness. According to legend, Zhuo Wenjun attached a farewell letter to Xiang Ru.
After the farewell, the two places hung together. Only in March and April, but who knows five or six years. The lyre has no intention to play, the eight lines have no transmission, the nine-ring chain has never been interrupted, and the Shili Pavilion wants to wear it. I can't understand it, I can't understand it, so I have no choice but to blame Lang.
There are thousands of words to say, and you are bored. On the ninth day, you can see the lonely geese, and the full moon in August is not round. In July and a half, I burned incense and held candles to ask the sky. In the dog days of June, everyone shakes my heart. In May, pomegranate is more red than fire, but the flowers are watered by cold rain. April loquat is not yellow, and the more you want to be with the mirror, the more confused you are. In a hurry, the peach blossoms followed Shui Piao in March, and the kite string was broken in February. Hey, Lang Lang, I hope that in the next life, you will come for women and I will come for men.
After reading his wife's letter, Sima Xiangru couldn't help marveling at her talent. Looking back on the love between husband and wife in the past, I was ashamed and never mentioned the matter of leaving my wife and concubinage again. Two people grow old together and live in nymphs.
References:
Baidu Encyclopedia-Zhuo Wenjun