Parents write messages and expectations for their children +0
Dear child:
Tomorrow is the day when Dad will leave us, which is exactly five years. I hope dad will keep you safe in heaven. Time flies like a blink of an eye. Look at you in front of me, baby, you've grown up! How happy mom is. Memories blur me, The Eyes of My Mother. "If my mother says you don't want to hear, please forgive me. I can only say that my mother loves you very much, but sometimes the differences in our thoughts bring different views. " ,
Son, "As long as the stupid bird learns to fly first, the rabbit can't outrun the tortoise", remember this sentence well. Son, mother can give you life, but she can't live for you. I can raise you to grow up, but I can't guarantee that you will grow up. I can give you my deep love, but I can't force you to accept it all. Mom can give you everything, but I don't ask you for anything in return. I can remind you that alcohol and tobacco are dangerous, son, but I can't say no to it instead of you. Children, mom can do a lot for you, because I love you; I can give everything for you, because we are inseparable; Mom expects you to be safe and happy all your life, because you are the only one in this life. You have to understand that the road needs to be taken by yourself. There is no smooth road in the world. You are bound to encounter bumps, even insurmountable ravines. You must learn to be strong and believe in yourself. Life has a long way to go. When you come to the crossroads, you must be calm, because some things need to be decided by yourself. In the future, you will bear the responsibilities of society, family and work; Be tolerant of your family, relatives, friends, colleagues and even your enemies, because jealousy and hatred are double-edged swords, hurting people and hurting themselves.
Son, you are an adult, and your mother expects you to be clear about your direction. Once you choose, you must go on without hesitation. Life has not been chosen to make you start over. Son, your mother wants to tell you that society is a big environment. No one in this world is your savior, only you are the master of your own destiny. Everything can go more steadily and further by our own creation. What you create is the most real. Son and daughter. You may encounter many setbacks in your life, but I expect you to find the cause of failure from the setbacks, not to complain, okay? Remember, son, talking too much will lose you. First think and then speak. Sometimes a word may hurt a person or affect others' correct evaluation of you. Speak with tolerance and measure your heart, but you can't just be Nuo Nuo. First of all, be confident, so that others will appreciate you and give you encouragement. Just self-confidence needs to be built with literacy and connotation. Also, son, if you stand up straight, your tall and straight figure and handsome face will make people pay more attention, so you will be more confident. You know, self-confidence is the foundation of success. Son, you have to understand that people are bound to die. Mom and dad can't accompany you through life. Mom can only watch you in her lifetime and guide you to grow up.
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
Parents write down information and expectations for their children.
Dear son:
When you read this letter, you have reached the age of 18 and entered the ranks of adults. Congratulations from mom and dad!
For a long time, we have been thinking about how to congratulate you when this day comes-celebrating your birthday is too common and giving a gift is too light. On second thought, I'd better write a letter.
Yes, ancestors created words, let us record what we want to record, let us express what we can't express orally, let us store what language can't, and now, let mom and dad say what they want to say to their son on this extraordinary day.
But, son, isn't a letter enough about your pregnancy, your birth, your growth, your parents' love, expectations and blessings?
/kloc-9: 05 am on September 15, 0/8 years ago, which is what you call "the day of the full moon forever". My mother gave birth to you by caesarean section. I clearly remember that when the doctor just took you out of my mother's stomach, your first cry in this world made my mother cry when she was still under anesthesia on the operating table. I clearly remember that when I first fed you, my mother was all thumbs and needed grandma to teach you by hand. I clearly remember that when my father hugged you for the first time, he was pity but at a loss. I clearly remember that my grandmother set off firecrackers to celebrate the addition of a fat grandson, and the cannon skin was hung downstairs in clothes. I went to apologize to others. I clearly remember that my grandmother, who was nearly 80 years old and had never traveled far, took a bus for nearly two hours and was helped to climb to the fourth floor just to see her great-grandson ... son. What a happy event it was for our family!
See the rain for the first time; Grow the first small tooth; Call mom and dad for the first time; Bus, flute, flute, children, taking a bath, this is your first masterpiece when you were two years old, and the most beautiful poem in your mother's heart; "Mom, give me a puppy. You feed me and I feed it! " This is the wisest request you made to your mother when you were three years old ... all this is recorded not only in your mother's diary, but also in your parents' hearts.
Three years old, attending kindergarten; Six years old, attending primary school; After graduating from primary school, you entered the best junior high school Olympic Games class in the city with the Olympic Games certificate and selection examination; After graduating from junior high school, you were admitted to the experimental class in advance by the best high school in the city by yourself. Smooth sailing.
Learn children's English, accordion, violin, Olympiad, calligraphy, new concept English, martial arts, taekwondo ... In the big environment, like most children in China, you are not only willing to go in the direction of quality, but also follow the trend meaningless and run around for the result;
Violin grading test, English proficiency test, mathematical olympiad, oral English contest, scientific and technological innovation contest, innovative English contest, chemistry league, grading test and competition again and again, let you appreciate the joy of victory, and also appreciate the cruelty of competition and the ruthlessness of failure early.
And what makes us happy is that we are always with you.
Accompany you, witness your growth, witness your honesty, your enthusiasm, your justice, your economy, your sunshine, your literary talent, your overall situation, your understanding, your lack of food and clothing, your efforts, your filial piety, your self-discipline, your perseverance, your good grasp of opportunities, your courage to take responsibility and your courage to laugh at yourself.
Now, your first exam as an adult is getting closer and closer, and that is the college entrance examination.
For the college entrance examination, you sat in the classroom for 12 years. For the college entrance examination, you took part in competitions and exams again and again. For the college entrance examination, you experienced the joy of rising to a high position and endured the depression of falling to a low point. Now, the college entrance examination is finally coming. Standing in front of the first special adult gift for you in this life, your parents ask you, first, to define your target university, and then, take out four universities.
First of all, we must have the confidence to achieve our goal.
Second, the state of wholeheartedly and wholeheartedly,
Third, the calm and rational side of personality,
Fourth, be more careful and earnest.
You have to do all this.
Son, at the age of twelve, you are beautiful to be promoted to junior high school, at the age of fifteen, you are beautiful to take the senior high school entrance examination, and at the age of eighteen, you will certainly be beautiful to take the college entrance examination! Baby, you must succeed. Mom and dad will wait for that day! By then, the college entrance examination will become a luxurious ceremony for you to turn a cocoon into a butterfly and a heavy but beautiful gift from life!
When I wrote these words to you together, my father said I wanted to cry. Yes, son, you are the crystallization of our feelings, the theme of our life, and everything to us. Eighteen years, you were born, you babbled, you were a toddler, you grew up from childhood to youth ... On this day, you have reached a watershed in your life. In the near future, you will finish your studies and get married. By that time, we will all be old. What a pity ...
It's a pity that we can't be with you this day. Of course, you can understand why and don't blame us. However, it is our regret that we can't spend this extraordinary day with you. However, for you, this lonely day may be an excellent opportunity for you to think freely, and this is exactly what you need, right?
When we got there, the letter came to an end. Take this as a carrier. It carries the love, expectation and blessing from parents.
This is the only gift we give you when you are an adult.
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Dear daughter:
You are happy, and I am happy; I'm glad you are healthy; I'm happy when you're happy. When you came to this world, my world was full of happiness, and you were all to me! When I see you grow up day by day, I feel indescribable joy. As a father, I am sincerely proud of having a daughter like you!
I want to say to you: you are not only my expectation, but also the continuation and inheritance of my life, and even my tomorrow and future. I am so happy to watch your study progress! Looking at your happy smile and your lively flower season, I can't tell you how happy I am!
Dear daughter, your father is actually a very ordinary and low-key person. No matter how hard the conditions are, I never forget to study. Looking back on those years of school, I can still remember the scene of scrimping and saving and studying hard at school. At that time, I was sallow and emaciated because of lack of food and clothing and malnutrition ... The past was unbearable.
In order to protect you from dad's past sins, dad bent down, gritted his teeth and worked hard. Because of the pressure of survival, he often couldn't eat well and sleep well. In order to earn more money, I chose * * *. I'd rather go back and forth between two units. Several nights, after I checked in at work and settled down on duty, I quietly returned to the company of * * * with my leaders and colleagues behind my back.
I clearly remember one night a month ago, after 10, I rode my motorcycle to the company for duty. It was drizzling and I was driving on the highway. Visibility is so low that I can't even tell the road clearly. For the sake of safety, I have to walk slowly. Walking in such bad weather conditions, there is no one around, lonely and empty, and the evil wind is blowing. It feels like walking on a long journey of life, with no end in sight. At this time, loneliness, fear, pain and confusion come to mind, and everything smells. When I came back, I was confused and soaked through. Difficulties may only be experienced personally. Because it is not easy to earn money, we should learn to be frugal. Daughter, you are sensible.
Daughter, you should learn to protect yourself and have perseverance. You are too young, too naive and too kind. In fact, this society is not as perfect as the book says, and the relationship between people is also very complicated. Study and life are like a cold mountain. You have to find your way to the top of the mountain-split the thorns and bypass the trap. * * * Life insights * * * The wind and rain will not stop for a moment because your clothes are thin; This mountain will not be lowered because of your fatigue and illness. When difficulties and setbacks keep bothering you, no one can help you-because everyone has difficulties. At this time, you should calmly deal with it and learn to persist.
Son, do you understand that dad loves you? Seeing your carefree expression, I see it in my eyes and it hurts in my heart. Dad doesn't show himself in the way of loving you very much. Maybe this is his shortcoming. Every day after school, he only sends his regards to you. A few seemingly simple words contain how much I love you.
Daughter, I want to say to you: the weapon to overcome setbacks and suffering is in your own hands. There is only one magic weapon to stand on the indifferent mountain peak and let thorns and traps crawl under your feet: study hard! Don't waste time from now on, start by listening carefully, finishing your homework independently and establishing good moral quality. There is only ruthless wind, rain, frost and snow in the sky, and I have never heard of the savior. Daughter, you have to be self-reliant!
People will have troubles when they are alive, big or small. We all look at the world with different eyes, its beauty and its ugliness. We will have feelings, laugh and be sad. But "where there is love, there is expectation." We can't change a person's established choices. Although there are many things that we should try to discourage according to common sense, whether a person is happy or sad may be very different from our thoughts. Every moment, people's thoughts may change. For life and death, for many ... As you grow up under the loving eyes of your parents, you may feel that we can't really understand you. Fortunately, you have your childhood friends and your primary school classmates. They like pop music as much as you do, and play and chat with your friends online. Is there a gap between you because of the study pressure after junior high school? Have you found her subtle shortcomings? But you all have a young beating heart. Why don't you try to tolerate each other?
Like all parents, I expect my daughter not only to have a beautiful face, but also to have a good figure. But looks are innate, dear daughter, you have to understand that a person's beauty is not for everyone to see, and not everyone will see you beautiful. What supports a person's beauty is morality, temperament and culture. "Youth rice" will always be finished, but the elegance and calmness of the book will accompany you all your life. Dad was delighted to find that at this moment, you sometimes pick up a book or a newspaper and read it for a long time. This scene really makes dad very happy!
Daughter, dad may sometimes ignore another kind of concern for you and care about your heart. Please understand me and forgive me, just as I still love you who made countless mistakes since childhood. Finally, I want to say: you will always be the baby in dad's hand.
I wish my daughter progress in study, liveliness and beauty, and happiness!
Your father: Chenxi
Xx year xx month xx day