Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult to deal with. However, in some families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very harmonious. The mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law very well, and the daughter-in-law naturally has to be grateful to her mother-in-law. Below I have compiled a letter from my daughter-in-law thanking her mother-in-law. You are welcome to read it.
Part 1 of a letter from a daughter-in-law thanking her mother-in-law
Dear mother-in-law:
Hello!
This is the first time that I have written such a letter to my mother-in-law. Let me tell you in this way, in fact, my wife is very grateful to you. In the 8 years we have been together, there have been some frictions, but this has not affected the relationship between us. On the contrary, we have become more like mother and daughter!
I remember when I fell in love with Cool’s dad, I knew that you were always a very busy person, never idle, because you had to take care of the family, so you worked odd jobs everywhere. When you were pregnant with Cool, You will cook my breakfast every morning, and there will be an egg every day. When the weather is hot, you will go to work in the fields when the sun is not too poisonous. Because I had a very strong reaction when I was first pregnant, I basically couldn’t eat anything, but I could eat fruits. You bought fruits for me in different ways every day, and you also cooked and ate them according to my appetite at home; you came early in the morning I got up and went home in the afternoon. I also cleaned up the house and washed all the clothes. It was really hard work! Really, looking back now, how happy I was at that time!
Now there are more people in the family. Although we don’t live with you, you are even more busy because you always say that you want to make more money for your grandson. How sincere are you? You are so frugal at home, some If you cook a breakfast every day, you can eat it all day long, you know? How cool dad and I feel after hearing this, our family is not short of that little money, but you always say that when you are rich, you should not think about when you are rich, I I know that you have paid more than this for us. You have given us your whole life. Mom, have you worked hard?
After arriving at your home, the most unpleasant time was the month when Cool was born. You took good care of me during the confinement period, but I didn’t know what was wrong with me at the time. It seemed that I just didn’t like you and kept getting angry with you. I asked you to call my mother and ask her to come over and stay with me. I do the same now. As a mother, now I can truly understand your mood at that time. I'm sorry, Mom, I was so ignorant at that time and made you feel uncomfortable. You took out your heart and gave it to me. Instead, I said, Mom, I’m sorry. I will compensate you twice as much in the future. I hope my repentance will not be too late?
Last year was your 50th birthday. Before, we deliberately said that we didn’t know what day it was. That day, our family rushed back early that day. I really gave you a big surprise at that time. You were surprised, cool dad and I bought you a cake for your birthday. Don’t mention how happy you were at that time. I have been thinking about what gifts to give you. If I buy those impractical ones, you will say that we have spent money in vain, so I bought you a set of clothes. You still say that we have spent money indiscriminately, but mom, do you know that? It’s your 50th birthday. I feel shabby when I buy you clothes as a daughter-in-law. The current conditions are not very good and life is a bit tight, so I’m sorry that I can’t give you anything better. Mom, we will Are you working hard to let you two live a better life?
My lovely mother-in-law, in the days to come, I will treat you with the same filial piety as my own mother. I hope you will follow Dad, please take good care of your health. Every elder in the family is like a treasure. Mom, did you hear what your daughter-in-law told you?
Recently I have been enjoying watching family ethics dramas. My mother-in-law is also a mother, and she always talks about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Relationships are difficult to get along with, and people may become a little wordy when they get older. When we think they are wordy, we have thought that one day we ourselves will also have that day. Their today is our tomorrow, and love is mutual. , I hope we can work together to create a harmonious family.
On the occasion of Mother’s Day, I wish all the mothers in the world a happy holiday?
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XXXX. Part 2 of a letter
Dear mother-in-law:
Thank you for your care and concern for me over the past two years.
Although sometimes we lose our tempers with each other, we still live in harmony for more than two years. I saw all the mothers complaining about their mothers-in-law in Baoshu. I saw so many posts that I finally couldn’t help but post. How lucky I am, even my relatives and friends say, you are so lucky. Talk about the first time I met my mother-in-law, I was taken home by my husband without any preparation. As soon as I walked in, I called my aunt and uncle. My mother-in-law said, "You idiot, what are you doing standing there stupidly? Sit down." My face turned red. I watched TV with her for a while without saying a word, and then my mother-in-law and the others went to bed. I kept asking my husband if your mother didn't like me, and my husband said I was overthinking it.
Later, I stayed at my husband’s house. The next day, he asked me what I like to eat. I was embarrassed and said, I will eat whatever you buy. His mother said, we will make whatever you like to eat. My husband saw that I was embarrassed and told him for me. I wanted to buy some clothes, so my mother took me to the street to pick out some clothes for me. If I want to eat, cook it for me. Let’s talk about confinement.
I also thought that this was not my biological mother after all, so I was too embarrassed to ask them to make things. As a result, I ended up with chickens, pig's trotters, or pigeons every day. You have to ask me several times every night if you are hungry. If you are hungry, tell me and I will make it for you. I was embarrassed at first, but then every time she asked me, I would just say eat a little. A few days later, she would say, you have to tell me when you are hungry. I was afraid that I had forgotten. I was really touched at the time. One time I sent a message saying, Mom, I want to eat. I heard her say in the room, Yaoyao, your idiot mother needs to eat. I just laughed.
Since my baby was born, my mother-in-law didn’t let me wash the baby’s clothes or change his diapers. Of course, I was in confinement and I didn’t know how to change them at the time. She said you have to learn from me and I’ll teach you, but I just couldn’t do it. good. Then she will tell the baby that your mother is an idiot and can't even change diapers. Then take it and continue changing. Now that the baby is more than four months old, he has been taken care of by his parents-in-law. My father and I are quite free, almost the same as before we got married, but they have never complained. I told my father at the beginning that I will treat my daughter-in-law the same way your mother treats me. Just a few days ago, my mother-in-law said she would give me money to buy clothes, saying that the Chinese New Year was coming soon.
Since the baby was born, my father and I rarely use our own money. My mother-in-law said that you should save your money so that it can be used for many purposes in the future. There are no words to express how good my mother-in-law is, she is really better than my own mother, sometimes even better than my own mother, really. My mother is the kind of person who talks indifferently. Sometimes I can't stand talking about my mother-in-law, so she just says a few words about her, but afterwards I can't bear it anymore. After all, she has raised me for ten or twenty years. I'm really lucky to have found a husband who loves me so much and such a wonderful mother-in-law.
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XXXX. p> I probably won’t have the chance to write to you
There are so many things I want to say to you
Because I rarely get to say a few words to you.
The phone calls are filled with simple greetings
Thousands of words can only be expressed in two words: "thank you"
Although in daily life we ??cannot be like and Mom spoke openly to you like that
But I still want to take this opportunity to thank you
Especially for your meticulous care of me when I was pregnant
My mother-in-law takes very good care of me
The night before she will ask me what I want to eat the next day
Or she will tell me and discuss it with me
What is she going to cook the next day?
Do I like to eat?
To be honest, I’m not that picky.
Basically, I will eat whatever my mother-in-law cooks. What?
In addition, my mother-in-law does laundry, cooks, and makes soup every day
Thank you very much, mother-in-law
I love your daughter-in-law
XXXX.X.X
Part 4 of a letter from a daughter-in-law thanking her mother-in-law
Mother-in-law:
Hello! I feel that it is a bit awkward to communicate with you in this way of writing, haha, Because you can't read. I don't mean to laugh at you, I just think it's a bit strange.
I used to think about it, would it be easier to communicate with a literate mother-in-law?
But even though you are uneducated, you also have your cuteness:
You called me by my baby name affectionately, adding "my home" in front of it; from time to time you told me some old stories about my family and my husband's childhood memories; you happily ran to me with a piece of clothing and asked me How much? When I couldn't answer the cheap price, you grinned secretly. When I got a new perm or put on new clothes, you would quietly look at me from behind for a long time, waiting for me to notice, you? Hehe? You laughed at me: Pretty! What’s more, every time I pick up a book to read, you always like to circle around me when you have nothing to do. Sometimes you come over to see what I am reading. I know that although you don’t know anything. Don’t understand?
Even though you are uneducated, mother-in-law, you have a special power?
When we lived alone in the past, you could accurately calculate the days until our rice would be finished. , and then quietly get on the bus and deliver it to us on time! Your son and I are always amazed: Hey, how did you know?
Now we have sold our house in the town and live with you. Together, I am getting closer to you, and I finally know that behind your special abilities is your deep concern for your children. Your son is already so old, and you always say something like, "Go early in the morning and stay late in the morning." "Drive carefully," and so on. When I enter your home, I also receive your special care.
Every morning, when we are still in the hot bed, you start to be busy. When we get up, a side dish, a pot of hot porridge, and an egg are ready. In a hurry, as long as I said the last sentence: Where are the glasses? Or where are the car keys? You are more anxious than anyone else. While repeating the mantra "Three mornings in the morning", you look for it inside and outside, and finally look at it. When I put on my glasses or get the car keys, you let out a long sigh of relief. When I was leaving, you had to follow me downstairs, help me take off my car clothes and hang them on the line to dry, and then help me get to the road. Check to see if there are any passing vehicles.
Several times, my car turned around and I could still see your figure in the rearview mirror. I knew that it was a figure that only my mother could have.
What I also feel while living together is your extraordinary frugality.
When eating, sometimes I really can’t eat the rice in the bowl. You just shout: “Don’t pour it, don’t pour it!” Then you pour the food in my bowl into your own bowl. You are always reluctant to throw away the leftovers. You eat the porridge left in the morning for lunch; you never stop eating the leftover dishes in the evening without draining the soup and water. Especially the fish bowl that was smashed with many chopsticks. You quietly sat in the corner of the table and ate it seriously, as if it was a beautiful dish. Sometimes I just can’t stand it anymore, so I’d like to say a few words to you, don’t take your body seriously. Your boss replied to us: You have never had a hard life!
Forget it, one time he actually saw you leaning over to find something on the floor, and then put it into your mouth. Only then did I realize that it was the grain of rice that Xiaoqian had dropped. I immediately blushed and said harshly to you: You don’t pay attention to hygiene at all! You actually smiled and said: It’s not dirty, it’s not dirty!
In addition, in order to save money For the money for gas, I would rather ride a three-wheeler to my hometown in the countryside every day to boil water in a big pot and then pedal back.
I saw all this, and to be honest, I was really touched in private! I often tell others: My mother-in-law eats grass and squeezes milk! She does not covet any material things. Enjoy!
No, every time we buy you clothes, you are quite unhappy. It’s not superficially unhappy like others, but really angry, with a red face and eyes wide open. They say we can’t live well, the things we buy are too expensive, and we are being cheated. It makes me want to give you something, either from someone else, from my employer, or from a clearance sale outside!
I take the things away, but I don’t see you wearing them. Not for your use. What I often see you wearing at home is the gray and shabby cotton-padded jacket in winter, and the floral shirt that you have worn for nearly ten years in summer. You never get tired of wearing them. In fact, you have a row of new clothes bought by your wife and niece in your closet. They never see the light of day a few times a year. You always say, "If you don't have hobbies at home, just run around when you go out", it makes me feel calloused when I hear it.
In addition to your super saving ability, I also observed a "secret" about you: that is, haha, you don't like the "housekeeping" at home very much, but you love the "external affairs" in the fields. , I call you "career woman" in private. Most of the time, your father-in-law does the sweeping and wiping of the tables at home. You like to go back to your hometown in the countryside early in the morning and don't come back until it's time to cook. It is said that before your father-in-law opened the store, you rarely even cooked. After opening the store, your father-in-law was too busy, and the burden of cooking slowly fell on you. Later, your father-in-law closed the shop due to poor health, so cooking finally became your responsibility, but most of the other light housework in the family was done by your father-in-law.
To be honest, you are very lucky to be the daughter-in-law of Lao Li’s family! Your son is also very good at doing housework! Haha!
By the way, you don’t like doing it at all. Rice, but you are cooking three meals a day and more than one meal. It is precisely because of this that every time you cook, I always want to help, but you don't let me. Sometimes, I rush into the kitchen and cook a few dishes. You see, you are always standing nearby to guide this and that, as if you are very worried. After trying it several times, I finally gave up my desire to cook. I had no choice but to stay away from that kitchen.
I have lived with you for more than two years, and everyone said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult. I always feel that there is no big gap between you and me. Long live my understanding. If there is any gap, I think it is the issue of Qianqian's feeding and education.
When Qian was little, every time you fed her, you always liked to put the spoon in your mouth first. I felt very disgusted, but you said there was something dirty in your mouth. I know it's useless to say anything. A scholar can't explain why he encounters a soldier. That's it.
Then the most recent time, Qianqian always lost her temper, so I went to educate her and let her stand in the corner. I'm afraid that if you and your elders get involved, all your previous efforts will be wasted. I don’t want to teach you for a while, but here you are. I didn't want you to protect the baby, so I took the baby to the room and locked the door. Just as I was about to educate the baby, you got angry first and pushed the door hard outside. The baby heard someone protecting her outside and cried louder. I locked the door, and you were jumping around outside so much that you broke the door. We couldn't get out for a long time, and the children were very frightened.
Mother-in-law, it is relatively easy for us to communicate in other aspects, but I don’t know how to communicate with you about things like this.
Your son, my husband said, as a junior, you should be "filial", "filial" but not "submissive" is not filial. I think "filial piety" does not necessarily mean that everything goes well. The child's education cannot be smooth.
Mother-in-law, I believe you will understand me. But sometimes I also wonder: Do some of my ways and methods need to be corrected?
In half a year, we will be able to move into our new home in the city, and we will start to resume our small life as a family of three. family life.
Then you won’t have to worry about us every day anymore!
Of course we will miss the shepherd’s purse glutinous rice balls you made in winter, the braised pork balls and tofu balls with dried shrimps, and the stir-fried vegetables with oyster mushrooms; We will also never forget the warm fragrance of the sun on the warm quilt you finished drying; let alone you sitting by the well in the cold winter cleaning our pairs of shoes?
Mother-in-law , In fact, there is always a kind of gratitude in my heart that I can't express.
With this letter, I want to say to you: Thank you! Thank you and my father-in-law for raising a loving and righteous husband for me! Thank you for everything you have done for us!
Finally, I wish you all the best! Good health! (Nothing is more important to us than your good health!)
I would like to take this letter to wish all the parents in the world good health and longevity!
Sincerely< /p>