I saw Maud Gunny again in the poem "Bai Niao", the goddess worshipped by Ye Zhi ... Ye Zhi's most famous poem in this life is that he chased his goddess Mao Degang all his life, proposed marriage three times, failed three times, was rejected all his life, and even planned to propose to Isabella, Mao Degang's daughter when he was old, but of course he was rejected. Love me, love my dog is not such a trick. A sober feminist like Goddess Mao would agree that it was a ghost! )
Even after Ye Zhi married someone else, a few months before his death, he still wanted to have tea with Mao Degang. As expected, he was rejected. This is not simple, it is an absolute tragedy. All right! Ye Zhi's whole life's feelings are the ultimate history of spare tire struggle. Strictly speaking, not even a spare tire. Maud Gunny's refusal to him has always been firm and clear, and he has never been deliberately ambiguous.
Maud Gunny rejected Ye Zhi because, "He is a man like a woman. And she has always been a goddess who fights like a man. (It happened that she was born beautiful, like Athena. ) She kept saying nothing meaningful about Ye Zhi's love: "The world will thank me for not marrying him. "That's true!
Ye Zhi's poems, such as When You Are Old, He Hopes for a Brilliant Paradise, Bai Niao, Reconciliation, and Opposing Worthless Praise, are all famous poems written by Ye Zhi for Mao Degang, recording those unrequited love moments that are sometimes joyful, sometimes bitter and sometimes crazy.
I sympathize with Ye Zhi, but I appreciate Mao Degang and her determination. Too many women fall in love with a man because of sympathy. When the love runs out, the man doesn't love her, and the compassionate one becomes her. Mao Degang's marriage is not always happy, but she is fine! Her son is even better, and he is the winner of the Nobel Peace Prize. Also, most people are always eager to experience happiness when they get married. This idea is simply wrong!
Only in fairy tales will the prince and princess end up living happily ever after. ...
The reality is that marriage is another beginning of life. Now that we have decided to start a new journey, we must have the courage to take risks and face difficulties. Who can assure you that the road ahead will always be full of food and clothing? Sunny？ No, in order to reduce the impulse of the world, at Christian weddings, God always asks through the mouth of the priest, "Are you willing to love him (her), respect him (her), comfort him (her), care for him (her) and treat him (her) faithfully for a lifetime?" And the groom (mother) must promise: "... no matter whether the environment is good or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, I will love, respect and cherish you until death do us part." I swear to God and promise him my sacred oath to you. 」
See, no matter whether the environment is good or bad, rich or poor, healthy diseases, this is the true meaning of marriage. I believe this is also the true meaning of life as understood by Mao Degang. That's why she chose someone else instead of Ye Zhi. Ye Zhi only imagined "when you are old" in his poems.
He is extremely humble to her, with all kinds of praises and compliments. He wants to be a pair of Bai Niao flying with me and flying romantically between the waves, but I don't know, she always just wants to walk on the solid earth with her feet. She is like a battle queen, trying to save her own people, and he just wants to hide in the paradise of love (Taoyuan) with her and write his dream poems.
She knew from the beginning that he was not suitable, but she didn't know that he was obsessed with his knitting dream. The result can only be that we are all fine, but we are not suitable.