Why is it said that "the most willing to forget the ancient poems, the most dismissive is lovesickness"

This line comes from Mao Amin's song "Lovesickness", which was originally the ending song of the TV series "Journey to the West". The full lyrics are as follows:

Lovesickness

Singer: Mao Amin

Lyricist: Zhao Xiaoyuan

Composer: Sanbao

There is a deep place in the heart

There are thousands of knots in it

Red beans are born in the southern country

It is a very far away thing

Lovesickness is nothing

No one cares about it

Drunk in the city that never sleeps

Neon everywhere

There is so much amorous feelings in the wine glass

The most willing to forget the ancient poems

The most dismissive is lovesickness < /p>

I guard my love and am afraid that people will laugh.

I am also afraid that people will see clearly.

In spring, I came to see the red beans blooming.

I didn’t see any lovers picking them.

Fireworks embrace the romance and true love is gone

The most willing to forget the ancient poems

The most disdainful thing is lovesickness

Keeping love is afraid of people’s laughter

I'm still afraid that people will see clearly

I came to see the red beans bloom again in spring

I didn't see any lovers picking them

The fireworks are embracing the romantic and true love

The most willing to forget the ancient poems

The most dismissive is lovesickness

Keeping love is afraid of people laughing

Also afraid of people seeing clearly

Look at the red beans blooming again in spring

There is no lover to pick them

Fireworks embrace the romance and true feelings are not there

The whole poem is written about the feelings of lovesickness, including self-deprecation, disappointment after being alone and depressed, anger, sarcasm, but mostly helplessness.

The most willing to forget the ancient poems,

The most dismissive is lovesickness.

This sentence is the highest emotional point of the whole song. Just like many people who are struggling to find love will say (or think): Forget it, I am tired, what love should I love? It's better to feel sorry for yourself more. What is the meaning of ancient poems (mostly about sadness and parting)? They are all sour sentences! What is lovesickness? Now I don’t give a damn!

However, what I really think in my heart is exactly the opposite. If I really don’t care, just forget about it, and dismiss it, why would I write such a sentence? Being hurt by love is just deceiving oneself and others.