I started watching Pride and Prejudice to eliminate people's prejudice against me, especially the prejudice against me by the leftover women.
How did postdoctoral fellows in Tsinghua write articles about leftover women? To this point? The meaning of contempt is beyond words.
When I was engaged in water resources projects, many people wondered why I didn't work hard for Nobel and make water without technical content. My answer at that time was, how much benefit can solving the water resources problem in China bring to the country and society? Even if I win the Nobel Prize, can I create such great benefits?
The value of knowledge lies in how many benefits it can bring to society, not in honor, scientific and technological level, etc. Although there are such factors, they are not core values after all. Then the solution of the water problem that brings 1-2 trillion direct economic value to the country should far exceed the value of winning the Nobel Prize! If we consider the indirect value, I'm afraid it's 5-6 trillion. Therefore, I can pursue it without hesitation.
As far as the problem of leftover women is concerned, although the times are progressing and the society is developing, perhaps women's marriage and love is no longer the only purpose of life. But in any society, especially in our country now, marriage and love are still the most important part, even all, of most women's sexual life. At least it is an indispensable part of life. If a girl who is excellent in many aspects can't get married for a while or even for a lifetime for various reasons, it can be said that it has been delayed for a lifetime. If I can help find the right person and live a happy married life, I can save her life to some extent. Because solving the problem of marriage and love can not only make her enjoy family happiness, but also help her to have more confidence in her career. If I solve the problem of a group of people or even a group, then the social value of this matter will be immeasurable.
Of course, I believe that the vast majority of leftover women will not choose not to marry or even never marry in the end! Then, when most leftover women realize the value of marriage and love in her life, objective economic benefits can also be expected. This can not only save me, but also save my career by generating huge social benefits.
In Pride and Prejudice, I didn't expect that I was well educated. It turns out that my own arrogance is also one of the main obstacles to communication. Although I always tell myself to try to avoid unnecessary mistakes and eliminate misunderstandings and losses, after all, a leopard cannot change his spots! The most terrible thing is that when I have enough reasons to be sure of my point of view, it is difficult to give it to others, isn't it? The impression of arrogance. I must study the art of listening harder to reduce the bad consequences.
Pride and prejudice: I read this book at one go. At the moment I closed the book, I admired the persistent courage of the leading actor Darcy and the leading actress Elizabeth in the pursuit of their own happiness. It's really hard to imagine whether the clever Darcy would be happy if he didn't have the courage to face and correct his personality defects after his first marriage proposal was rejected, or if neither of them had the courage to overcome the disparity in property and family status.
In the journey of life, each of us is a dreamer. Dream is a long white fog on the wall of Wushan gorge. I don't know when to come, when to go and where to go. Dream is a looming rainbow, which extends into the river and will soon disappear at the most beautiful time. How magical and charming dreams are! It leads countless dream catchers to carry the sediment of the Yellow River, hold the purity of the Yangtze River in their hands, alternate the steps of the sun and the moon, and chase the notes of the problem. In the meantime, every hard journey is full of bitterness of struggle, which requires us to face, bear and fight with enough courage.
Someone once asked me, have you ever paid attention to the dust in the air? They are nothing in the wide world. They have neither the ability to float to the top of the air nor the courage to completely fall into the water. They are caught in the middle of the world in a very inconspicuous way. However, I want to say: they have thoughts, they also have dreams, they fight for them, but in the end they choose silence, give up the opportunity to fight against the world, give up the suffering and disasters along the way, and even give up the happiness they get after success. What they lack is courage, a courage to surpass themselves, and a courage to pursue their own happiness unremittingly.
Fate is wonderful, you never know what will happen in life, life is life, you want to, but that's all. A person's palm is too small to hold its surprise and injury, but it pours down. Therefore, each of us really needs the courage to face the gossip. Courage is by no means an impulse, but a dreamer's persistence in the future and ideal. Perhaps you have had the feeling that you are walking alone in the boundless world, abandoning your ideals and looking empty. You think you will stand alone for a long time, thinking that even if you abandon the whole world, you can still live safely. Think about Darcy and his courage at this time, and maybe you should know what to do.
In fact, there are many people like Darcy. Under siege, Wang Xiang is still tragic and generous: he rises from the mountain and is angry with the world, but when it is unfavorable, he will never die. ; Is Cao Mengde here? Singing to wine? Sighing? How long is a person's life span? While persistently chanting? Green and green, leisurely in my heart? . At this time, we are in youth, just like beautiful flowers in full bloom. We are full of hope and eager to breathe and fly freely. And all this requires us to have the courage to fight for it. Happiness hangs so close, dear friend, what are you hesitating about?
Brave people pick up their dreams and believe that what comes out of the cocoon is no longer short-lived, and we will have a beautiful life!
Pride and prejudice: I read this book at one go. At the moment I closed the book, I admired the persistent courage of the leading actor Darcy and the leading actress Elizabeth in the pursuit of their own happiness. It's really hard to imagine whether the clever Darcy would be happy if he didn't have the courage to face and correct his personality defects after his first marriage proposal was rejected, or if neither of them had the courage to overcome the disparity in property and family status. In the journey of life, each of us is a dreamer. Dream is a long white fog on the wall of Wushan gorge. I don't know when to come, when to go and where to go. Dream is a looming rainbow, which extends into the river and will soon disappear at the most beautiful time. How magical and charming dreams are! It leads countless dream catchers to carry the sediment of the Yellow River, hold the purity of the Yangtze River in their hands, alternate the steps of the sun and the moon, and chase the notes of the problem. In the meantime, every hard journey is full of bitterness of struggle, which requires us to face, bear and fight with enough courage. Someone once asked me, have you ever paid attention to the dust in the air? They are nothing in the wide world. They have neither the ability to float to the top of the air nor the courage to completely fall into the water. They are caught in the middle of the world in a very inconspicuous way. However, I want to say: they have thoughts, they also have dreams, they fight for them, but in the end they choose silence, give up the opportunity to fight against the world, give up the suffering and disasters along the way, and even give up the happiness they get after success. What they lack is courage, a courage to surpass themselves, and a courage to pursue their own happiness unremittingly. Fate is wonderful, you never know what will happen in life, life is life, you want to, but that's all. A person's palm is too small to hold its surprise and injury, but it pours down. Therefore, each of us really needs the courage to face the gossip. Courage is by no means an impulse, but a dreamer's persistence in the future and ideal. Perhaps you have had the feeling that you are walking alone in the boundless world, abandoning your ideals and looking empty. You think you will stand alone for a long time, thinking that even if you abandon the whole world, you can still live safely. Think about Darcy and his courage at this time, and maybe you should know what to do. In fact, there are many people like Darcy. Under siege, Wang Xiang is still tragic and generous: he rises from the mountain and is angry with the world, but when it is unfavorable, he will never die. ; Is Cao Mengde here? Singing to wine? Sighing? How long is a person's life span? While persistently chanting? Green and green, leisurely in my heart? . At this time, we are in youth, just like beautiful flowers in full bloom. We are full of hope and eager to breathe and fly freely. And all this requires us to have the courage to fight for it. Happiness hangs so close, dear friend, what are you hesitating about? Brave people pick up their dreams and believe that what comes out of the cocoon is no longer short-lived, and we will have a beautiful life!