it is roughly reflected in the following points.
1
In terms of personality
Generally speaking, poor girls are more obedient, while well-off girls are more independent. Poverty often brings helplessness, directly facing the most realistic side of life, constantly compromising and polishing, knowing more about the difficulty of life, so it will be more considerate of the difficulties of others and treat people more softly. The independence of a well-off girl, more precisely, does not depend on herself, but does not depend on outsiders; With the material foundation and spiritual wealth given by the family, girls have less demand for external resources, less dependence on society, and more emphasis on personal cultivation and improvement, so it is easy to have a sense of distance when they are independent.
2
Introversion and self-confidence
I once met a girl who ate in the canteen every day and most of the time only ordered one dish, "Bitter Melon and Scrambled Eggs", so the cost of a meal was three yuan, and I followed her to order the same dish once. To be honest, it was bitter and not delicious. I haven't seen her buy snacks for a whole school year. Only once did I put a bottle of AD calcium milk on the table and let it sit for two days before drinking it. This is a very quiet girl, who really lacks the ability of communication. When she takes the initiative to talk to her, she will have obvious panic and blush. She has always been cautious and quiet, which makes people feel distressed and a little off topic. Let's talk about this girl next time. And many well-off girls are calm and confident, with little sense of embarrassment between the opposite sex, with elegant communication and listening skills, beautiful and equal, smart and interesting. That is to say, poor and rich girls are different when showing themselves to the outside world. One is shy and introverted, and the other is more open and confident.
3
The influence of experience
There is no doubt that poor girls have experienced more tempering, and when they were young, they looked up to the pressure of their families, and their small wishes were not as easy to be satisfied as those of rich girls, and they may have suffered more setbacks emotionally; Some people say that the experience of tempering is wealth, and many parents give their children everything they can. What we have experienced is the best that parents can give, which is full of spiritual upbringing. The difference is more the material difference in the decision of economic level. It can only be said that the poor are tempered and tenacious in reality, and the rich are edified in abundance.
4
Horizon
It is generally believed that well-off girls have a higher horizon. I think horizon is not determined by the rich or the poor, but by education. The book has its own Great Wall, Wan Li. What's more, in this era of openness and prosperity, is it more sentimental to have been to Eiffel? We have seen too many places of interest posing and too many duty-free shops sweeping. The lofty vision is not to have been far away, but to have poetry and talent, which is based on personal culture. It can only be said that there are ways to broaden one's horizons more easily.