1. Are there any ancient poems about marriage?
Many of Li Shangyin's love poems are: Untitled Li Shangyin It's hard to say goodbye when we meet, the east wind is powerless and the flowers are withered. The spring silkworms will die when they die. , the wax torch turns to ashes and the tears begin to dry. The morning mirror is full of worry, but the clouds on the temples have changed, and the moonlight should be cold when singing at night. There is no way to go to Pengshan, and the bluebirds are diligent in looking around. Li Shangyin's Jinse has fifty strings for no reason, one string and one string. Zhu Sihua Years. Zhuang Sheng dreamed of butterflies at dawn, and looked forward to the emperor's spring heart with cuckoos. The moon in the sea has tears, and the sun in the blue field is warm and the jade produces smoke. This feeling can wait to be recalled, but it was already at a loss. Untitled Li Shangyin's Stars and Winds Last Night, Painting West of the Building On the east side of Guitang Hall, there are no colorful phoenixes flying on the body, but there is a clear understanding in the heart. The other seats are warmed by Gouchun wine, and the Cao Cao is covered with red wax lamps.
I listened to the drums to answer the official questions, and walked around Malantai. Magpie Bridge Immortal Qin Guan The clouds make tricks, the flying stars spread hatred, and the silver and Han are far away in darkness.
As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will defeat countless people in the world. Tenderness is like water, good times are like dreams, and I can't help but look at the magpie bridge on the way home.
If the love lasts for a long time, how can it last day and night? Jianjia Jianjia is green, and the white dew is frost.
The so-called beauty is on the water side. If you follow it back, the road is blocked and long; if you follow it, you will wander in the middle of the water.
The leaves are luxuriant and the white dew is not yet clear. The so-called beauty is on the water.
Follow it back and forth, but the road is blocked and you can advance. If you go back and swim from it, you will feel like you are swimming in the water.
The jianjia is collected, and the white dew has not stopped. The so-called beauty is in the water.
Follow it back, but the road is blocked and to the right. If you travel back from it, you will find it in the water. 2. The Book of Songs·Zhou Nan·Tao Yao Traditional Chinese Marriage
The peach blossoms shine brightly. When the son returns home, it is suitable for his family. The peaches are still young, but there are actually sweet potatoes. When the son returns home, it is suitable for his family. The peach is young, its leaves are pure. When the son returns home, it will be a good time for his family.
"Taoyao" is an article in "The Book of Songs·Guofeng·Zhounan". It is a song to celebrate the wedding, which is also a song to send off the bride. On the happy wedding day, the bridesmaid sends the bride out, and everyone surrounds the bride as she walks to the groom’s house, singing along the way: "The peach blossoms shine brightly..." The bright red peach blossoms complement the bride's beautiful appearance and marry her. With such a girl, how could the family not be harmonious and happy! The fruit-laden peach tree is a metaphor for the bride who will give birth to many children for the groom's family (the old concept of having more children means happiness), making her family prosperous. The peach tree with dense branches and leaves will make the family prosperous forever like the branches and leaves of the bride. Throughout the article, red peach blossoms, plump and delicious peach fruits, and lush peach leaves are used to compare the beautiful youth of the newlyweds, wishing their love to be as gorgeous as peach blossoms and as evergreen as peach trees. This poem uses the technique of repeated chapters and repeated sentences. The structure of each chapter is the same, only a few sentences are changed, and the chanting is repeated and the rhyme is lingering. The beautiful phrases blend with the beauty of the bride and the joy of love, which very appropriately renders the newlyweds. Festive atmosphere.
This is also my favorite poem. In terms of rhythm, it is not as good as Li Shangyin's Untitled. In terms of artistic conception, it is not as good as Ma Zhiyuan's Autumn Thoughts. In terms of love, it is even worse than Cui Hu's Peach Blossom Poems. I like it. The reason is just because I personally like Chinese tradition too much - blind date!
When it comes to blind dates, I always think of another poem: "The Love of a Boudoir" written by Zhu Qingyu, a poet of the Tang Dynasty: "The red candles were lit in the bridal chamber last night, waiting to pay homage to my aunt in front of the dawn hall. Put down your makeup. She asked her husband, her eyebrows were deep and dark? "Think about it, the vague feelings started from the blind date, the future bride secretly hides behind the barrier, and looks at the husband she has spent her whole life with. The heartbeat and shyness are something we modern people can never feel. Before the blind date, they had not even heard of each other, let alone met each other. They got married first and then established a relationship. This was the ancient way of falling in love. In a daze, my whole life passed by like this. Modern people think that the ancients were unhappy and tied up their lives at will. In fact, what about ourselves?
The May Fourth Movement began to advocate free love. Perhaps this is the progress of an era. I always believe that everything in the world has pros and cons. The greater the pros, the greater the hidden cons. Perhaps, this is what Buddhism calls conservation. Because of free love, people today know that love is so hurtful. I think most of the poems about love written by the ancients are about yearning, recollection, or nostalgia. In the eyes of the ancients, the models of love are nothing more than the fabricated Butterfly Lovers, Liu Lanzhi and Jiao Zhongqing in The Peacock Flying Southeast, and Sima Xiangru and his wife. People today no longer know how deeply they loved each other, just like we will never know how beautiful Xi Shi and the others are. It is just based on our modern imagination that we add halos to them to sing something. What's the comfort? It's just self-deception!
So, is modern love great? Special affection is born from passionate affection, develops from excessive affection, and ends with unfeeling. The ancients did not have mobile phones or the Internet, and their methods of communication were far less developed than modern people. Because of this, the chances of the ancients cheating and changing their minds were much smaller. Without the temptation of the outside world, there will be less unnecessary betrayals. Those lonely people often fantasize about the romance of Chang'e flying to the moon, thinking about the heartbeat of the melon fields, and the promises of the vicissitudes of life. In fact, who knows? ? In the face of the trivial matters of daily necessities, romance is only romance, heartbeats are only heartbeats, and promises are just promises.
I don’t agree with the polygamy of the ancients, but I appreciate the idea of ??staying together until the end. In this world, there are too few people who can truly stay together without the background of blind dates.
Just like me, I always think that heartache is only temporary, that memories can be forgotten, and that time can change everything. In fact, time is just time, and I am still me! 3. What are the poems to congratulate "marriage"
1. It is said that Qin and Jin are equal, and they have always been kings.
——Du Fu "Send the Marriage of Wulang to the Lord of Dali" 2. I wish to be a winged bird in the sky, and a twig on the ground. ——Bai Juyi of the Tang Dynasty, "Song of Everlasting Sorrow" 3. This woman is not an ordinary couple, she may be an immortal relegated to the earth.
——Bai Juyi of the Tang Dynasty, "Jian Jian Yin" 4. When the hibiscus is plucked, fresh water comes out, and the young master of the Wei family believes in talents. ——Tang Luo Qiu's "Preface to Bi Hong'er's Poems" 5. There are beauties in the Yutang, playing with the moonlight.
——Tang Dynasty "Cui Hao" 6. The man came riding a bamboo horse and went around the bed to make green plums. Living together for a long time, the two children have no doubts.
——Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty, "Changqianxing" 7. A perfect match made in heaven, a talented man and a beautiful woman, marrying with the same heart. 8. Let the beauty of spring bloom on your eyebrows, and take pity on the bridegroom before your eyes.
——Chen Shidao of the Song Dynasty, "One of Two Qing Ping Le Songs" 9. Lanzhou tied the knot yesterday, but today she tied the knot. A pair of gods are lovers, and they share the same heart forever.
10. Thousands of beauties and charms, all in the air. Take the time to dress up, it has its own natural state, and I like to paint Shuang'e lightly.
——Liu Yong of the Song Dynasty, "Xi Shi No. 2" 11. Phoenix pillows and luan curtains, for two or three years, we know each other like fish in water. Good weather, good scenery, deep compassion and much love, nothing more than following you with all your heart.
——Liu Yong of the Song Dynasty, "Zhuma Ting" 10. A good match is written on the Sansheng stone, a loving couple is tied by a colorful thread, the spring scenery is boundless, the flowers are rich, and the love between the husband and the concubine is lingering. 11. The flowers are beautiful, the spring is intoxicated by the Qionglou, the toads are colorful, and the streets are fragrant at night.
——Liu Yong of the Song Dynasty, "Two Concentric Hearts and Two" 12. New poem On this day, Xiong Zhuanlin, worshiping each other in double happiness, the painted green mountains and eyebrows are as good as the one hundred years of knots are of the same heart. 13. Today I am fortunate enough to attend the Qin and Jin gatherings, and teach Luan Feng to go down to the makeup building early.
——Lu Chu of the Tang Dynasty, "Advocating Makeup" 14. Is the eyebrow drawing dark or light? How can the characters "Double Yuanyang" be written in writing? ——Ouyang Xiu of the Song Dynasty, "Nan Gezi" 15. Guan Ju's poems and chants are Tao Ran, Yu Xi's wind is gentle and distant, the brocade tent is fragrant and affectionate, and the spring warmth of the bridal chamber is lingering. 16. The handsome man with beautiful eyes is a handsome man, the beautiful girl with eyebrows is beautiful, Qin Se and Ji have a happy family, and they will be reunited together for a hundred years.
17. It is a wonderful year for Yan'er to get married. Relatives and friends are vying for a good marriage. Love is like honey, and the sea police alliance is stronger than stone. 18. The hibiscus is woven into a tent, and the mandarin ducks are facing each other.
The ground is decorated with yin and the carved shoes are supported, and the flowers and candles are moved into the brocade tent in stages. The Weaver Girl hangs to the west and hides in the candlestick, and the two children are linked together in joyful arms.
——Tang Zhang Yue's "Princess Anle's Flower and Candle Walk". 4. What are the ancient poems that wish young people to get married?
The candle shadow on the mica screen is deep, the long river is gradually setting and the dawn stars are sinking;
Chang'e should regret stealing the elixir, and the blue sea and blue sky are in my heart every night. .
Maybe many people think that Chang'e stole her husband's elixir and flew to the moon as an injustice. When I was a child, I never knew this story. Later, I learned about this story and seemed to think that Chang'e I made a mistake, but now, I have changed my view again. What is love? There is no love in this world, only interests.
I once saw an article written by a netizen. In the article, marriage is compared to two people falling into the grave of love, and the wedding is a funeral before the love of two people falls into the grave. Maybe this is a bit exaggerated, but I think it is completely correct. < /p>
There are also three legends in China - the love stories of the Weaver Girl, the Seven Fairies and the Three Holy Mothers. I used to think that these three gods and their mortal husbands were so great, sacrificing everything for love, but now, But I think they are so stupid, why bother to pursue that illusory love? If these three gods look around, they can see that there are many people in the world who are stronger than their husbands, so why bother not to become gods and suffer every day for them?
Love stories almost always exist in today’s TV series. However, writers and directors often beautify the male and female protagonists in TV series. There are many people who are willing to die for their love. Maybe it’s because of the TV series, I I used to think how great people's love is, but then I saw or learned about real love stories from books. There is no romance like in TV dramas. I will not die for the one I love, but There is nothing wrong in thinking about it. Who would die for an unrelated person and make their relatives sad?
China has changed too many traditions. What should be changed and what should not be changed have all been changed to Westernization. But there is one thing why we can't learn from Westerners - there are three ways to be unfilial and have no offspring. So big. Once young people reach the age of marriage but are not married, the old people will keep urging their children to get married quickly. Once the young people get married and have children, after a while, the old people will let their children get married. Second child, why is China so poor now? Many people in the west don't have enough to eat or wear warm clothes. The main problem is that there are too many people. I forgot which country in the west it is. Young people are very particular about being single. I usually admire Chinese traditions. Customs, but Westerners do this right.
I used to hope that I could have a happy life when I grew up, just like in the TV series, but now, I am more present than before, and I have more people. Why get married? It would be great to be single all your life. Although I am still relatively young and don’t know what love is like, real love stories are enough to embody it. 5. Ancient poems describing Xiuhe clothing
1 , "Getting Married"
Anonymous
I lay in bed sleepless that day,
The beautiful woman is getting married and the car is long.
He has a hairpin with jade and roses on his head,
and a red robe embroidered with a phoenix.
The distant dreamer has new dreams and tears,
At this time, I recall the old makeup.
Later, I didn’t understand the meaning of the spring breeze.
I was afraid that my love would fall into the rain pond.
2. "The Peach Blossom is Just Right"
Anonymous
The peach blossom is good, the beauty is beautiful, the phoenix robe is beautiful and the mandarin duck is wearing a mandarin duck coat.
Spring is here, the willow branches are new,
The sun is shining outside the city, and the birds are flocking outside the window,
Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.
The east wind blows away, the fragrant clouds welcome you,
The silver hairpin, gold and pearl screen.
Pour sake, add red candles,
The wind and moon are beautiful, the beauty is beautiful,
Pretty, pretty, pretty.
Xiuhe suit is a type of Chinese Qing Dynasty wedding bridal dress. The production method of Xiuhe clothing is relatively complicated, and today Chaoshan handicraft is the most famous. Because of the popularity of the 2001 TV series "Orange Is Red", the costume worn by the heroine Xiuhe (played by Zhou Xun) was called "Xiuhe Suit" by some people.
Extended information
Style of Xiuhe clothing:
The "coat" of Xiuhe clothing refers to the double-breasted garment on the upper body, and the "skirt" refers to the long skirt on the lower body. . As times change, the styles of skirts and jackets have also changed a lot.
Before the 1970s, skirts and coats were "black coats and red skirts", and later evolved into "red coats and red skirts". In the past, coats were cut in Tang suits, with straight arms, wide bodies, and buttons. Now the popular style has been improved to suit shirts, slim waists, mid-sleeves, and zipper designs, making them more fashionable and comfortable.
The design of the middle sleeves not only highlights the beauty of the bride’s body, but also allows the bride to see the bracelets, bracelets and other gold accessories she wears, expressing her gratitude for the gifts sent by her relatives and friends.
In contemporary times, we can see two types of coats on the market: straight hem and wavy hem. The straight hem is the most traditional style of all time.
As the name suggests, the hem of the water-wave hem will be like a wave. The style is more special, the embroidery work will be relatively complicated, and the price will be more expensive than the straight hem.
6. Urgently seeking poems for wedding blessings
Wedding blessings Congratulations on finding a good home! Wedding Blessings May we be united forever, the earth is vast and the sky is high and our wings can fly together. Wedding Blessings Good things happen one after another and sweet dreams come true. Wedding Blessings May the whole family be happy and the two swallows fly together.
Wedding Blessings, candles and candles smile to welcome winged birds, plum blossoms bloom in the bridal chamber, Wedding Blessings. Today is the day you get married. On behalf of my family, I congratulate you and wish you both happiness and longevity together! Wedding Blessings: Golden house with music and songs, colorful phoenixes, bridal chamber with candles and colorful dragons. 0 times Wedding Blessings: I wish you a happy marriage for a hundred years, and may we be united forever! Wedding Blessings: The highest state of love between two people is to be in love with each other. I wish the newlyweds to truly love each other and stay together forever. Congratulations on their wedding! Newlywed blessings. It's your turn to treat you to dinner. Newlywed blessings. Men respect women. Women respect men. Men and women are equal. Husbands respect wives. Women respect husbands. Love each other. Newlywed blessings. You are a match made in heaven. Now that you are married, you will need each other even more in the future. Be tolerant, take care of each other, and bless you! Wedding Blessings: You are a perfect match, and now we are finally married together. I wish you a long life and eternal love! Wedding Blessings: A thousand years of marriage, a thousand years of companionship, and a hundred years of sleep. A gifted man is born with a beautiful man, and he only envy mandarin ducks but not immortals.
Wedding Blessings Let this lingering verse ring the bell of happiness. May you two stay in love forever and grow old together! Wedding Blessings Let this lingering verse ring the bell of happiness.
I wish you happiness and love forever. Wedding Blessings The three great joys of life, dear friend, on your wedding day, let me sincerely wish you a happy wedding! Wedding Blessing: After ten years of cultivation, you can cross the same boat; after a hundred years, you can sleep on your own pillow.
Finding her in the vast crowd is obviously a fate that happened thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony. Wedding Blessing: After ten years of cultivation, you can cross the same boat; after a hundred years, you can sleep on your own pillow.
Finding him/her in the vast sea of ??people is clearly a fate that happened thousands of years ago; how could it be the inevitable result of countless accidents and not the result of careful carvings on the Sansheng Stone? Take care of this fate with your sincerity, those of you who truly love me. Wedding Blessings Bless you and laugh for you, because today, my heart is as jubilant and happy as yours! I wish you a happy marriage! Grow old together! Wedding blessings Hello! Dude.
"Married" so soon. I have something to do and can't come.
But I still want to sincerely wish you a happy wedding! If you talk too much, be careful with your body! Wedding Blessings: Two phoenixes perch on the branches of the sycamore tree, and mandarin ducks stand side by side among the lotus flowers. Wedding Blessings: Love each other and be happy forever, share the same virtue and heart, and live happily ever after. May your love be deeper than the sea! Wedding Blessings. After working hard for half a lifetime and contributing for decades, on this day of abundant harvest and stability, I congratulate you on your remarriage. As the saying goes, "The sunset is infinitely beautiful, and the day lilies are fragrant in the evening."
Wedding Blessings Happy wedding, may you have a baby soon! Wedding blessings. I wish you thousands of blessings with sincere friendship! Wedding blessings: From knowing each other, we fall in love, and from falling in love, we get to know each other better. The fairy couple that people often say is you! May you love each other year after year and know each other year after year! May love overflow in your sweet life, and make every day in the future as brilliant and joyful as today! Wedding Blessings. May you two be loving and affectionate. May your love last forever and your love grow day by day! Wedding blessings. May you two entangle each other with love, understand and care for each other, and share the pain and joy in the future together.
I wish you a happy and lasting marriage. Wedding blessings, I hope you can embrace the sweetness of love forever. 7. Poems about the moon, poems about boudoir, ancient Chinese marriage customs
Moon on the 15th of August, Du Fu
The full moon flies into the mirror, and returns to the heart to break the sword.
Turn around and travel far away, climb the laurel tree and look up to the sky.
There is suspicion of frost and snow on the waterway, and feathers can be seen on the forest habitat.
Looking at the white rabbit at this time, I want to count the hair.
Palace Ci
Zhu Qingyu
When the courtyard gate is closed when the flowers are blooming, beauties stand side by side in the palace.
He wanted to talk about palace affairs with passion, but the parrot in front did not dare to say anything.
Marriage customs from ancient times to the present
The age of marriage in ancient times was not the same in each dynasty. During the Spring and Autumn Period, a man could get married when he was 20 years old, and a woman could get married when she was 16 years old. It was also said that "men get married when they are 30 years old, and women get married when they are 20 years old." This is to keep up with the times. "Book of Han Huidi Ji" clearly states: "If a woman is between fifteen and thirty years old and does not marry, she will be punished by five calculations." The "five calculations" means that she will be fined five times the tax. In fact, the phenomenon of early marriage was also very serious in ancient China. In the Song Dynasty, there was a rule that "every man can marry at the age of 15 and a woman at the age of 13." "Book of the Later Han·Biography of Ban Zhao" records: Ban Zhao "was fourteen years old and held a dustpan and broom for the Cao family". There is even a record in the "Book of Han·Biography of Empress Shangguan" that "she was established as empress after more than a month, at the age of six." But usually around the age of 20.
In ancient times, when a man’s family went to a woman’s home to welcome her bride, it was always at night. "Etiquette·Shihun Li" states: "The evening ceremony is issued." Zheng Xuan noted: "The ceremony for a scholar to marry his wife begins with evening, so it is named Yan. Yang goes and yin comes, and when the sun enters the three shangs, it is evening." And , "The owner is Jue Bian, Shang, and Zian, and the follower is Bi Xuanduan, riding in an ink chariot. The two chariots are followed by two, holding the candle and the horse in front." That is to say, everyone who welcomes the bride wears black clothes, and the carriages and horses are also in black.
This custom is completely different from the later generations' wedding custom of welcoming brides during the day and wearing red clothes. Since the Tang Dynasty, the time for welcoming brides has been changed to the morning. According to the "Youyang Zazu" written by Duan Chengshi of the Tang Dynasty: "Etiquette and weddings must be done at dusk, because the yang goes and the yin comes. Today, the ceremony is at dawn." Dawn is dawn. It has been in use ever since.
In ancient times, the posture of newly married brides was also very particular. According to the records of "Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals": "When Huizi came out, Bai Gui told people: 'When a man has a newly married woman, when the wife arrives, it is better to be in a state of arrogance and look at the beauties.'" The so-called "be in peace with the smoke and be in love with beauties" is still true. Binghe noted: "An Jin Yan looks at the charming behavior, which can be said to be a subtle description of the state of the bride. However, it can be understood, but it is difficult to explain. An An means calm; a Jin person is cautious; a smoke person means that the eyes are not direct and flowing. "Those who behave in a charming manner should stop being shy and be soft and peaceful. This is the state of a bride who is just starting out. Otherwise, she will lose her identity."
During the Han Dynasty, tents were built with green cloth curtains. A ceremony of worship is held. "Shishuo Xinyu·Jiajue" records: "When Wei Wu was young, he had a good relationship with Yuan Shao and became a knight-errant. When he was watching someone's wedding, he sneaked into the master's garden and shouted at night: 'There is a thief!' The man in Qinglu They all came out to watch. Wei Wu came in and robbed the bride with a knife." This custom of getting married in Qinglu continued until the Qing Dynasty, and was mentioned in many places in Pu Songling's "Strange Stories from a Chinese Studio".
According to historical records, during the Han Dynasty, there were already customs of celebrating weddings and listening to the wedding night. According to the "Han Shu·Xuan Di Ji": "In the second year of Wufeng's reign, the edict said: 'The ritual of husband's marriage is the most important thing in human relations. It is a gathering of wine and food, so it is a ritual and a joy. The two thousand stones in this county may be a strict prohibition. "It is forbidden for people to have wine and food to greet each other when they get married. This abolishes the rituals of the rural party and makes the people unhappy." The purpose of this edict of Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty was to encourage the common people to hold wine and banquets at weddings. celebrate. According to the "Book of Han·Biography of Yuan Wei's Wife", after Yuan Wei and his wife entered the bridal chamber, the couple were whispering:
Wei also said: "Brothers come before brothers, and the world thinks it's a smile." Is it okay for my sister to go ahead if she is not suitable?" He said to me, "My sister is a high-ranking and poor person. She is not a good match. It is not like she is despicable, but she is just a slut." He also asked: "The master of Nanjun is a master of poetry. , and the position he holds is always at the expense of goods and wealth, what's wrong with that?" He said, "The great sage Confucius will inevitably be destroyed by Uncle Wu. The most virtuous person in the family is Bo Liao, so he is worthy of it." Wei silently could not give in. Those who listen outside the tent are ashamed.
It can be proved that the custom of listening to houses existed in the Han Dynasty.
In addition, one custom in ancient marriage customs that is different from that of later generations is that ancient women were not taboo about remarrying, and this continued from the Zhou Dynasty to the Northern Song Dynasty. According to "Li Tan Gong" records: After the death of Confucius' son Boyu, "his wife married in Wei" and it is also recorded: "Zisi's mother died in Wei and went to Zisi. Zisi cried in the temple. The disciples arrived and said "Why did the concubine's mother cry in the temple of Confucius?" Zisi said: "I have failed! I have failed!" It can be seen that the descendants of the saints are not exempt from this. remarry. In the Wei, Jin, Tang and Song Dynasties, it was not uncommon for daughters of famous families to remarry. "Three Kingdoms·Wu Zhi·Biography of Mrs. Bu" records: Mrs. Bu "gave birth to two daughters. The eldest daughter was named Lu Ban, with the courtesy name of Dahu. The former was married to Zhou Yuzixun, and the latter was married to Quan Cong; the younger was named Lu Yu, with the courtesy name of Xiaohu, and the former was married to Zhu. According to "Suiyuan Essays" quoted by Shang Binghe, "Twenty-three princesses remarried in the Tang Dynasty, and four married three times." There is no need to avoid the second husband or the second husband when he sees his former husband. After the Song Dynasty poet Lu You divorced his ex-wife Tang Wan, he once visited Shen Garden and met Tang Wan and her later husband Zhao Shicheng. Tang and Zhao also gave Lu You wine and food. As a result, Lu You was so moved that he wrote a poem "The Hairpin-headed Phoenix" on the wall. (See "Guixin Miscellaneous Knowledge" for details) It can be seen that it was still normal for women to remarry during the Tang and Song Dynasties. It was not until the Ming and Qing dynasties that remarriage was not tolerated by etiquette, so there was a saying about observing festivals and memorial arches.